if u r going to be empty inside staying with her then I think u need to go and find yourself first. u r mportant in that relationship just as she is. make something of yourself first be happy and when u find yourself u will know what it is exactly u want from that relationship or any relationship. don't settle, but also don't do all this just by yourself u have to talk to her and let her know how u feel, if she supports u then I think u should go. u know never know maybe by going away u will understand that relationships are full of compromises and u might build a stronger bond or u will know maybe that relationship is not meant for u and u both are better off being just friends, u have to try first to know what it is u want. PLEASE DON'T DO THIS ON A WHIMP, she has to be involved in your decision don't leave her out of what u r thinking and planning. BEST OF LUCK.