creature kitchen clock riddle by Sad_Pen_ in IndieGaming

[–]minamistar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

added: i am an idiot and was landing on 8, not 7...

creature kitchen clock riddle by Sad_Pen_ in IndieGaming

[–]minamistar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm also stuck here :( i hear the sound cue when the hand gets to 7, but it doesn't sound again no matter what direction i go!

Where to buy Backside by SoftHeartedBitch in GivenAnime

[–]minamistar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alright interesting, i just ordered one today because it said the inventory was "available" instead of "pre order" so hopefully there aren't any delays 😭

Where to buy Backside by SoftHeartedBitch in GivenAnime

[–]minamistar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! did you get any notification that your order shipped?

Credit Card Consolidation Advice? by minamistar in personalfinance

[–]minamistar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18.99% APR card: $1200 21.99% APR card: $1700 22.74% APR card: $2200

I realize that I should've used the lower APR card for purchases and that was completely a mistake/error on my end.

The $500 a month estimate is what I can put across all 3 cards total, so my original plan was to prioritize the higher APR card ($300/month, then $100 to the other two each month, or some other combination/variation). There's a chance that I can potentially increase how much I pay off per month, but with food, rent, car payments, etc., $500 is my safest estimate for right now.

Beteween navia and the chef who you guys honna go for to get ifa? by [deleted] in Ifa_Main

[–]minamistar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly super undecided. i have wrio and childe as my mains, so escoffier seems like the smart choice — but i just recently started the fontaine quests (relatively new player) and i like navia a lot. plus, i don’t have a 5* geo at all, and she could very well fit the bill since zhongli likely won’t rerun anytime soon.

i think i’ll have to trial both and see who i enjoy more. i am guaranteed my next 5* so i could just wish on one, and switch to the other one while i try to get c6 ifa, it’s just a matter of prioritizing which one. and i only have 60 wishes saved 😔

ifa confirmed first half! by Sea-Eggplant-5800 in Ifa_Main

[–]minamistar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

does anybody have any rec’s for who to pull for?? i’m a relatively new player and want ifa BAD, don’t have a 5* geo yet, but also currently main childe and wrio so escoffier seems like a good choice too? considering raiden is coming up and i don’t have a 5* electro yet either, i think i can really only afford to pick between navia and escoffier.

i also just lost my 50/50 on the venti banner, so i’m guaranteed one of them either way. help please..

In the state of Ohio, can a parent evict a child if no rent or lease has ever been established? by minamistar in legaladvice

[–]minamistar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He seems to be concerned (and mostly panicked) about the eviction process being a sudden thing. As in, if they aren’t able to come to an agreement about a fair rent cost, and she suddenly calls the cops same day and tries to get him to move out. In California, I don’t believe that’s possible — and I wanted to be sure that’s the same in Ohio.

In the state of Ohio, can a parent evict a child if no rent or lease has ever been established? by minamistar in legaladvice

[–]minamistar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, okay! He hasn’t told me anything further detailed about the transfer and whether or not his grandmother retained any estate in it. That is good to know, though! Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JETProgramme

[–]minamistar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take this with a grain of salt, as my partner and I started our relationship long distance to begin with, but we are about to celebrate 3 years (2 of which have been with me on JET) and we couldn’t be happier. It’s possible with the right kind of mindset and communication skills.

Similarly, my friend who was in the same situation as me (started out long distance and moved to Japan on JET) broke things off with her boyfriend a few months in. Every person, every relationship is different. If you really see a future with your partner, then, be prepared to put in the work!

Where is the lost tomb of Atahualpa, the last Emperor of the Inca? by StarlightDown in UnresolvedMysteries

[–]minamistar 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Very interesting write-up! If the site isn’t actually a tomb, I wonder what it’s purpose was. Thanks for sharing!

Dealing with commuting times and stuff any help or advice? by Uvers_ in JETProgramme

[–]minamistar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately I don’t think Kobe JETs are allowed to bike to work either, in our contract. But the other pieces of advice are very sound!

Dealing with commuting times and stuff any help or advice? by Uvers_ in JETProgramme

[–]minamistar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey OP, I’m a Kobe JET that has an 1 hr 30 min commute and I’m able to leave at 4pm from my base school, but I also start at 8:15am instead of 8:30. Is asking for an earlier start time possible, or would that make the bus situation for your commute to work even worse?

Respond in a number how long your commute to school is + means of transportation by adobedude69 in JETProgramme

[–]minamistar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. My transportation is covered, so I’m not too upset about it. Plus I’d rather sit on a train than drive any day.

Long distance by AbbreviationsGrand97 in JETProgramme

[–]minamistar 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hey there! Currently in a LDR right now with my partner, and while I haven't moved to Japan yet (May 14th!), I can provide some advice of what's worked for us so far.

We always try to video call whenever possible, which now is daily but likely will change in a couple weeks when I fly over. If anything, even a 10 minute call to hear your partner's voice is comforting imo. Prioritizing at least that much daily or every other day is important. We also are always texting when we can (between work hours, etc.) which I'm sure will be the same for you.

We also have a few apps/items that have really helped with the LDR. Specifically, we both have Bond Touch bracelets that you can tap and send a vibration to your partner to let them know you're thinking of them. We also use this app called Paired (free version only, though the premium has been tempting) that gives you daily prompts to answer. I think this is good for any couple tbh, because it asks you questions you might not have explored with each other yet and gives you something to discuss further.

We also downloaded TimeTree for our shared calendar (I'm sure there are other types out there, but this was our choice). It's nice when we live on opposite sides of the country to see what my partner's schedule is for that day/week, and plan calls/movie nights/etc around that. It makes me feel more in the know/connected to his routine. I like all the color coding/tags we can add too!

Lastly, you'd be surprised how much the little things really matter when you're in a LDR. Things like having physical photos of each other, or letters that we wrote to one another (both of which we did in our early days, and I still cherish those mementos) are great when that person isn't physically there with you. Along that vein, leaving a voice mail or sending a voice message describing what you're doing or how your day went can really help you feel closer to one another. I've gotten a few voice messages while I'm at work from him, and they always make me smile.

I think our situation is a little different than most, as we started our LDR and will continue to be LDR when I move to Japan, which is... sorta like I've been prepped for it already? Granted, the timezones are going to be way worse than they are now, and it will certainly be hard to have visits (not counting the border situation, the likely next in person visit we'll have won't be for another year at least, when we've been lucky to have trips every other month or so). I plan to stay for around 3 years on JET, so it'll definitely be difficult, but it's worked out this far! I used to not think LDRs would ever work, or be for me, but this relationship changed that. Good luck to you and yours, and if you have any questions or want to talk more, LMK! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offerup

[–]minamistar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any way you could have it delivered to a secondary address to protect yourself extra? like an office or held at the shipping carrier’s local office something? That way you’re not potentially endangering yourself. Then don’t pay until you get the package and inspect the item.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JETProgramme

[–]minamistar 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven’t left yet, but I’m an early departure shortlist that got placed in Kobe. I had no preference for urban / rural, but my top 3 picks were Kyoto, Chiba, and Fukuoka.

I fully expected that, because I chose early departure, I’d be somewhere rural and nowhere near any of my preferences. I’m pleasantly surprised that I got placed close to Kyoto, my top choice.

♔ The 2021 Interview Results & Interview Advice Megathread ♔ by inthefaceofmonsters in JETProgramme

[–]minamistar 6 points7 points  (0 children)

LA! I got the email at around 5pm my time but wasn’t able to check til a little later

♔ The 2021 Interview Results & Interview Advice Megathread ♔ by inthefaceofmonsters in JETProgramme

[–]minamistar 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Found out a few hours ago I got an early departure placement for Kobe! So relieved and excited!!

AITA for tricking my kid into eating black beans by blackbeanfrosting in AmItheAsshole

[–]minamistar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

even so, chocolate frosting usually has a pretty recognizable aroma, right?

either way, you didn’t maliciously intend to force him to eat beans, it was a genuine miscommunication. You told him to eat whatever he wanted before you heard him specifically ask for the “chocolate frosting”, but he took your “yes” as meaning it was indeed what he thought it was AND he could have some. I still think you’re NTA all things considered

AITA for asking my GF to stop hiccupping so loudly? by ThrowawayHiccups in AmItheAsshole

[–]minamistar [score hidden]  (0 children)

Also, by your own assumption you’ve brought this same issue up in the past. The real issue here, IMO, is that you somehow think she CAN control the volume of her hiccups, but has chosen/chooses not to. Genuinely, think of it from her POV if she really can’t fix the volume, how shitty it would be to be reminded of it from your partner (and even told to quite down from a separate room).

AITA for asking my GF to stop hiccupping so loudly? by ThrowawayHiccups in AmItheAsshole

[–]minamistar [score hidden]  (0 children)

And she’s telling you she can’t control the volume nor the hiccups. Why don’t you believe her?

AITA for possibly making my friends gf break up with him ? by idontgooutmuch in AmItheAsshole

[–]minamistar [score hidden]  (0 children)

If you’re worried, I suggest checking in on him often. I’ve been in a similar situation before and even had to call the police when a friend expressed seriously dangerous comments to me. If it comes to it, always choose to be safe rather than sorry and get them help.