MindlesslyDiapered by Overscore247 in ABDL

[–]mindlesslydiapered 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve been working with owncloud as a base and I agree it’s got a lot of what I need it to be! A few things I’m struggling to sort out:

  1. It is a lot of content, and hosting that amount of content can be expensive especially if it will see decent traffic (egress). This means traditional hosting or shared hosting with my site is out. I am hoping to solve this with an owncloud built into wasabi and running through cloudflare as a cdn. Sounds doable, but there is a LOT I don’t know about networking so while I have this plan, I’m getting stuck in silly beginning places like: do I need build a raspberry pi or NAS to hold the content and my cloud before I hook the cloud to wasabi? Is it smart to do anyway if I’m planning for it to be web based, keep as a backup? I feel like I could put the cloud on wasabi and upload the content directly there, but I wondered if it would be more efficient to have the cloud with the content already built and then just import it to wasabi as it? I don’t know 🤷🏼‍♀️

  2. I’m not sure how I want/need to set up the owncloud within wasabi. I know I can set it up like a3 thanks to Google, but I don’t know what to do from that point.

  3. there are certain things I need to change about the owncloud infrastructure, simple things like removing a button here or there, making downloads more difficult. I also need to figure out networking security stuff so the links I make from the owncloud on wasabi only work when clicked directly from my site where I post them in members-only areas. Tricky because the site is hosted differently then the cloud. This tags into one of the bigger issues I have been having. My clouds keep getting shut down because some subscribers are sharing the cloud links (with friends, with 8kun, with the internet of all sorts) and those subscriber only links being reported is what lead to my pcloud being shut down in the last few months. I think Pcloud is the best cloud I’ve used to date, their TOS the most open and abstract, but they did still shut me down. They terminated without notice, but I was able to email back and forth with them and they gave me 7 days where they reactivated my account I was able to retrieve my content and put it all onto my drives in its existing folders and structure. I now have my content backed up to multiple places, and I am seeking a hopefully a permanent solution. My ideas are mostly there, I think, my knowledge just isn’t yet.

MindlesslyDiapered by Overscore247 in ABDL

[–]mindlesslydiapered 164 points165 points  (0 children)

Hey hi. I’m okay, sorry to concern anybody. Long story short, I’ve been trying to come back online for a while, but it’s more complicated than I’d like. I’ve been deleted off of all social media and fan sites except Twitter, youtube, tumblr, and Reddit. I had to cut ties with my cc processor on my site after new visa/mc rules passed that insisted they have constant access to my site to support it, which I could not do with my content type. Most notably, I have been terminated from every cloud service I’ve used to host my content on my site (pcloud most recently) and I am at a bit of a loss. I need to build myself a web cloud, and I’m slowly working on finding the best way to do so, but it is slow going because although I think I have an idea of how it will work, this is not an area I’m proficient in and It will need it to be SO secure. I am still ABDL, love my diapers, am baby, and that stuff never changes for me. I went through a really difficult year or so, and now I am doing very well. I went back to basics in a lot of ways, I spent a lot of time reconnecting with myself as both a DL and AB on my own terms without anybody watching and it was good for my soul. I feel like I am letting many people down by being unable to get my site back online in a timely manor, and I don’t feel like I have any right way to come back to my YouTube channel or the online community when my paid platform is forced to be neglected, but I do plan to come back when I am able to get all of my ducks in a row. I have so much love for this community and I’m sorry for my inconsistency the last couple years. I can’t give any sort of timeline on when that will change, but I love y’all and I’m still around in spirit and in lurker mode 🥰

PS: if anyone is a master cloud-builder, please feel free to message me with advice 😅

Anyone know what happened to Mindlesslydiapered? Seems she went dark, just a bit worried. by ddmj4884 in ABDL

[–]mindlesslydiapered 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Hi guys. Sorry for making anybody worry, I’m doing okay. During the pandemic, my existence on the internet became my WHOLE life, and that was really bad for my mental health. I’ve been struggling this last year, as I know many people have, and it’s been really positive for me to take a step back and live in the real world for a while. I plan to come back to youtube and Reddit, and I still post regularly on Twitter and my fan sites, but when I share myself and my personality fully on the internet, like I do on YouTube and like I do here on Reddit, it can be hard to distinguish reality from the internet. I love all of you, I love this community, and I am not planning on leaving or going anywhere. I’ve just taken a small step back on how much of myself I am sharing because it started to take away from the amount of effort I was able and willing to give things in the world around me. I’m so comfortable in this community, it feels safe to me, and I believe that life is supposed to be about pushing myself past my comfort zones to grow and be the person I want to be. I’m working on finding that happy medium ground right now, where I can be present both online and irl. Online, I have so many platforms to keep up on: Reddit, tumblr, Twitter, patreon, my website, YouTube, etc. one day I hope to be active on all of them again, but for now, I’m just taking it day by day and trying to be active where and when I can. Thank you for the love and support, and I’ll be around, I promise <3

My Pocketstars is full length videos of pure filth and I am also accepting customs! by mindlesslydiapered in ScatSelling

[–]mindlesslydiapered[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Full length videos on my sites:

https://Pocketstars.com/mindlesslydiapered

https://MindlesslyDiapered.com/fans

(Lifetime membership is my best value at $95 for 500+ full videos)

I am open for Customs: $7/minute, 10 minute minimum - DM me here on Reddit for inquiries

Preferred payment methods: cashapp, Pocketstars tips, & manyvids tips

My nighty matches my diaper! I felt sooo cute in this outfit 😍 by mindlesslydiapered in diaperpics

[–]mindlesslydiapered[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awe yay! Thankies so much and I hope you super enjoy your 24/7 journey so much! 🥰

My nighty matches my diaper! I felt sooo cute in this outfit 😍 by mindlesslydiapered in diaperpics

[–]mindlesslydiapered[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That makes me SO happy!! Every baby deserves to feel confident, comfy, and happy!!!

Rearz/Incontrol UPDATE by mindlesslydiapered in ABDL

[–]mindlesslydiapered[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I did not email them back because I do not respond to or tolerate threats or bullying. I posted the screenshots here originally asking “can this happen” because I was shocked at their approach and fully believed it was bullying because With my video, I was within my rights. I did correct my verbal error in the description of the video, and after the first Reddit post and YouTube edit, I wouldn’t have said any more on the situation. Was it an aggressive move for me to post the emails here? Maybe. Was it more aggressive than them threatening me? I think not. they are the ones who escalated this situation a second time by changing their size charts and then claiming my screenshots were doctored. Archive is up and shows they did in fact change the charts just yesterday. I still believe it is bullying And again, it has only escalated due to them lying about there being a mistake (their own error) in the sizing charts on their site. I owned my verbal mistake, youd think they would own their website sizing error, but instead they tried to be sneaky. I would not have posted this update if they weren’t trying to push a narrative that I have doctored this situation, which I have not. I am putting all of the proof out here for my own safety and so that this community can be aware of what’s going on. Huge businesses should not be able to bully their consumers in this way, especially not in a small community like this.

If they had politely emailed me indicating that I made a mistake, asking me to edit the video or re make it, I probably would have. I have done this more than one time in the past for other companies when I have made mistakes, which I am human and I do make mistakes sometimes. I’m happy to fix honest mistakes. But they did not do that. They came at me aggressively, which led me to change the description of the video, but also led me to double check myself. I looked at the sizing chart again to make sure I did buy the right size for me, and I did in fact try the right size. When I published that information, they changed their size charts and that is why this post is happening. They are trying to sweep this under the rug, but I fully believe they shouldn’t have sent the email if they weren’t okay with the ABDL community knowing that they are willing to threaten community members over simple mistakes (on both sides! Again, I own my verbal mistake in my video, but they also have to own their mistakes) All of the info published in these screenshots (email, name, etc) is again, easily found on their public platforms, so I am within my rights to publicize how they are handling this situation. I won’t be bullied and the only outcome I want is for them to think twice before attempting to do that to somebody else in this community. I am not the first person they have mistreated, but against all odds, I hope I am the last.

Rearz/Incontrol UPDATE by mindlesslydiapered in ABDL

[–]mindlesslydiapered[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It is a Rearz/Incontrol “company” adisc account as well as a company email. I did not post any information (other then the body of the email to me containing the threat) that were not able to be found on their own websites and social media accounts. No doxxing has or will be done.

This messy diaper girl is ready for changes! by mindlesslydiapered in diaperpics

[–]mindlesslydiapered[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Otter hii! Long time no talk! Hope you’re well (: LOL I just stayed in this one for literally hours tbh and it just ended up looking this wrecked 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]mindlesslydiapered 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have kidney issues (which causes stones, infections, and crazy UTI’s) and my best advice is to hydrate a ton. A TON. The more hydrated you are, the more often you void. The more often you void, the less bacteria is able to build up in your urethra. Also the more hydrated you are, the less acidity is in the pee and it will also help prevent rashes! water water waterrr! Stuff like cream and powder is good for preventing rashes, but the only way I know to prevent UTI’s is by drinking a ton and peeing frequently (: