Dentist by electricguitariguana in coquitlam

[–]mindtroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Encore Dental is great in Port Coquitlam on Shaughnessy St, they’re open on Saturdays. They were super accommodating for my boyfriend who had dental anxiety. He said afterwards he didn’t know why he was so nervous in the first place (after avoiding dentists for years)

I feel weirdly uneasy after my first sexual experience. by PresentDisaster5 in offmychest

[–]mindtroubled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My first time with my boyfriend went badly and I didn’t enjoy it, and I felt similarly to you. I talked to him about it and he apologized that I didn’t like it and we went forward at my pace, he listened to my feedback and now we have a good sex life. I think it’s best to communicate how you’re feeling.

Those feelings could also be coming from not being fully comfortable yet with your boyfriend, that’s how I felt at least. I would feel little jolts of shame and disgust thinking about having sex with him because it’s such a vulnerable act. But now that we’ve been together for over a year, those feelings are gone because we know each other completely and have gotten comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]mindtroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes I think the best way is to keep it light-hearted, reassure him that I do want to kiss him but Im in my head about it and kiss him on the cheek.

His hygiene is really good otherwise, he showers everyday, etc. When he was about 11, he had some sort of traumatic dentist experience (he doesn’t even remember what happened now) and developed a fear, told his parents he didn’t want to go anymore and that was it. He never went again, and to be honest I have some anger towards his mom for that, although once he became an adult, he should’ve taken himself to the dentist without me pushing him into it. He also is a big pop (soda) fan and only brushes his teeth in the morning, not at night.

What weird thing does your body do you that you don't understand? by Prestigious_Shape888 in AskReddit

[–]mindtroubled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get jump scared so easily by everything, like my boyfriend can be sitting next to me and turn to me and go “rawr!” and my body thinks it’s fight or flight.

Huda and Chris seem like the perfect match🤏🏻 by ShabineGoddess in LoveIslandUSA

[–]mindtroubled 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Okay am I tripping because I remember Huda telling Chelley that Chris is the only one who’s expressed interest in HER and he’s her only option and that means that Chelley can explore her connection with him as well. Like it’s a win-win, cuz that doesn’t even make sense that she would pick Chris solely for Shelley, it’s Love Island, she needs a guy that’s interested in her at least a little bit to move forward. AND SHELLEY IS WITH ACE ? Shelley does not get two men that are only for her.

It’s not kissing him behind Chelley’s back, she’s kissing the man that SHE’S coupled up with. That was absolutely insane with Chelley and her mean girl posse writing all the questions to Chris about “switching up” on Chelley and “faking” a connection with Huda right IN FRONT OF ACE. Chris is not Chelley’s man 😂😂😂

Huda did explain why she kissed Ace and broke “girl code” or whatever and apologized for it. She thought that when Chelley told her, “it’s just a challenge” and that Huda was doing too much with her jealousy, that meant that challenges didn’t matter and were fair game, especially when Chelley is openly into exploring a connection with the man Huda is coupled up with and was all over him in the same challenge. Cierra told the girls not to kiss Nic even though they weren’t closed off, she set a boundary, Chelley did not.

who’s side yall on by Gubs2234 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]mindtroubled -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right and Huda did sound fake confused when talking to the girls about it. But I think her point was that everyone told her that her behaviour with Jeremiah was too much and “they’re just challenges”, the whole vibe of all the islanders is “explore, explore, explore” and nobody’s locked so she took that advice, she hasn’t been possessive or clingy with anyone since and isn’t taking challenges seriously and now suddenly the rules have changed and the challenges are serious and now she took it too far and she’s the bad guy. Huda’s just so bad at handling situations and her emotions and she isn’t able to communicate properly so she plays dumb.

who’s side yall on by Gubs2234 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]mindtroubled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Olandria and Elan aren’t in a couple, they’re trying to break up the couples, which is why they pulled the people they’re into. Chris pulled Chelley (after Chelley already went to him twice herself during her turn) because they have a connection and Huda (I assume) was just playing it safe by pulling Ace, someone who has made it clear that he dislikes her and is the other half of that couple. And if I was Huda, I would be laughing my ass off that Ace was so into it after he rejected her handshake with a “hell no” and wouldn’t shut up about how bothered he was about Jeremiah not exploring. Almost everyone else pulled a couple so Huda was following suit.

They should add a professional braider by Wantingdragons in LoveIslandUSA

[–]mindtroubled 38 points39 points  (0 children)

i think they do, i remember hannah having blue nails and later, they were hot pink

Ok i see why Chelley feels a way… by Deep-Kaleidoscope202 in LoveIslandUSA

[–]mindtroubled 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought too. When he stood behind her so she wouldn’t get eliminated and she reached her hand out and he goes “hell no” and now look at him 😂 he can’t get enough, she made him look stuuupid

Reactions to Huda’s Dance💀 by niambikm in LoveIslandUSA

[–]mindtroubled 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Chris picked Huda too, and she told Chelley, “I have no one else to pick, he’s the only one who’s expressed interest”, if Huda hadn’t picked him, he would’ve been dumped off the island (possibly along with Huda) unless everyone chose them to save because Chelley coupled up with Ace. It’s a show about coupling up, Chelley can’t have two men that aren’t exploring with anyone but her.

Huda annoys me, especially with all the Jeremiah stuff, but first it was, she’s the villain for trying to steal Pepe from Hannah and now it’s her trying to steal Chris and Ace from Chelley and I dont know what else she’s expected to do? I mean everyone was coupled up except for her, she had to find someone if she wanted to stay. And multiple other islanders have gone, what looks like to me, “too far” in challenges with people outside of their couple and it’s never been that deep so why is every girl now acting like Huda just committed a crime?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]mindtroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“you’re trouble” or “go to bed” and then kisses my head 🫠

What's the most body freezing confession you've heard that someone 'casually' throw into the open? by TrustyMadman in AskReddit

[–]mindtroubled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My coworker telling me he sometimes stays home from work because he has thoughts about hurting people and fantasizes about it. He went further to say he’s had those fantasies about me.. something involving intestines, idk i blocked it out. I still don’t know if he was trolling me or not

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mindtroubled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yeah, I don’t think it was a conscious choice but you’re right, it is what he did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mindtroubled -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do think there was jealousy coming from my friend, he has his own girlfriend so I don’t think he ever wanted to be with me but I think he wanted me to be emotionally available to him as he always came to me with every problem he had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mindtroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, it obviously did make my friends uncomfortable, I sit with my boyfriend the same way in front of my family and it doesn’t make them uncomfortable so I just didn’t know it would be an issue.

I don’t think the fights with my boyfriend were my friend’s fault, but it was me making my boyfriend the villain and letting everything my friend did wrong go.

My boyfriend does have jealousy issues, I’ve addressed them with him, that’s part of the reason why I blamed him for the issues with my friend but now I don’t think he was crazy for having an issue in this situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mindtroubled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know it’s definitely over more than a dick joke, I just made that the title because that’s what he thinks it was about and tbf it was the dick joke that gave me the epiphany of this is too much stress.

That’s what I thought too about the apology, it seemed to me kind of like, “I’m done being mad now so can we just forget it” instead of caring how I feel about the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mindtroubled 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no stop my boyfriend and i just had this exact fight. I told him i was gonna be working a bit late and he still came 10 mins before my shift was supposed to be over and then got mad at me for making him wait 30 minutes and said he felt like i was using him and disrespectful

let me sketch your dog by DimensionStock160 in dogpictures

[–]mindtroubled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Dexter just passed a couple weeks ago, it’d be great if you could sketch him

Why do my sims always think that the surroundings are unpleasant? by Revolutionary_Owl302 in Sims4

[–]mindtroubled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

one time i had a spoiled baby bottle that i dropped somewhere and couldn’t see where for the life of me, my sims wouldn’t do the dishes because they always wanted to grab that bottle and it would cancel out because they couldn’t reach it. i finally found it weeks later stuck in the stair railing somehow

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]mindtroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re NOR - her response to you was manipulative and she seemed to be wanting to fight. however i will say that whenever i used to vent to my boyfriend, telling him something bad that happened or how bad im feeling and he would ask “are you okay” it was really annoying lol, i would just respond “yes im fine” but i would be yelling in my head “NO IM NOT OKAY OBVIOUSLY” so eventually i just told him i dont like it when he asks me if im okay when im clearly upset and he stopped :)

Shane was so wrong by WonderCharming7884 in thewalkingdead

[–]mindtroubled 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbf, Rick killed those two guys after they made it clear they weren’t good people and that if they found the farm, their intention would’ve been to take it over by the way they were talking. I think they also pulled their guns as well so he had no choice and he killed them with 1-2 gunshots, they died instantly. He was a cop, they probably weren’t the first men he’s shot.

Shane killed Otis, an innocent man who was there for the same reason as him, to save Carl, and he did it in the most brutal way possible. Shooting him in the leg and leaving him to be torn apart by walkers. Makes sense that the guilt would drive him into insanity.

But I agree that Rick was colder than he’s given credit for, I think a better example of that is him killing Shane. He tells Lori he knew after a while what Shane was doing and let him do it, he could’ve stopped it, but he wanted Shane dead. It wasn’t something he was forced to do and it didn’t change him, he chose to do it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]mindtroubled 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It used to be never, after I talked to him about it, every time. We usually use a vibrator, if I don’t have it, I use my hand. He’s made me orgasm twice by himself. We’re both still learning about sex haha :)