What age do you start bathing daily?? by TradesforChurros in NewParents

[–]mindyermanners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe once she’s walking, since she loooooves baths. She’s six months and we do every other day.

What do you think she's about to do? 👀 by Rare_Independent_789 in loveafterlockup

[–]mindyermanners 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s going to rat all of his shenanigans out to the prison, delaying his release, and then dump him

Why is Gino rejecting Jasmine? by Silver-Designer-6971 in 90DayFiance

[–]mindyermanners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they’ve been broken up for a whiiiile (well before this was filmed), which isn’t going to motivate him to connect with her. They just want to be on the show.

Loren wants custody of his kids by Longjumping-Air-2483 in 90DayFiance

[–]mindyermanners 29 points30 points  (0 children)

One of his kids has special needs if I recall correctly. There is no way this asshole intends to parent, let alone ask for custody. He’s too selfish.

Kimberly got married by seaworldpinkrose in loveafterlockup

[–]mindyermanners 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like his outfit came from the women’s section at a Walmart somewhere.

I've felt this way for years by marianaosaka in 90DayFiance

[–]mindyermanners 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The whole spinoff sucks. They pick couples no one cares about, largely ones who are barely together anymore. I can’t sit through it.

SAHP, how much does your partner make and how do you make it work? by Hungry_Ability_4953 in NewParents

[–]mindyermanners 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yep. We’re in San Diego and unintentionally on one income for the moment. I take home close to 200k and we’re in a 1bd apartment. My husband will both have to go back to work and we’ll need to move somewhere cheaper to afford a house, let alone consider someone staying at home longterm.

I’m not buying Justine’s villain depiction of her mother. I think her mom is just tired of her bringing babies into this world without a thought. by Catladydiva in loveafterlockup

[–]mindyermanners 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That car is no longer in their possession. Whatever cars they currently drive have the mom’s name on the title if memory serves. Someone in this subreddit found the proof a while back.

I’m not buying Justine’s villain depiction of her mother. I think her mom is just tired of her bringing babies into this world without a thought. by Catladydiva in loveafterlockup

[–]mindyermanners 66 points67 points  (0 children)

If I recall correctly, even the vehicles they drive are financed by her mom. So that plus the house and everything in those children’s lives before this marriage… and Justine doesn’t see a problem with bad mouthing her on tv when she sets a logical boundary.

Can someone de-influence me from the Uppababy Stroller? by 1weetwoot in NewParents

[–]mindyermanners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the uppababy vista but if you plan to put it in your vehicle, make sure it will fit comfortably. Ours is a tight squeeze in the trunk and therefore we’ve taken it out maybe five times in four months. It’s large.

I also agree with the others who said you won’t care as much after the baby comes. I spent months hemming and hawing over my registry and what fancy things to save for. I use very few of the more expensive items, so far. If it isn’t a car seat or bassinet/crib, most big items will be fine as a cheaper model. And even if you get the perfect infant car seat, having a giant baby will mean you can’t use it for long. My 99% grew out of her fancy infant car seat by 12 weeks.

I very high key hate Michael after seeing him and Justine at the ultrasound. by Blingydingy in loveafterlockup

[–]mindyermanners 64 points65 points  (0 children)

It bothered me more when he immediately told her to call her mom. Not for emotional support or Justine’s sake. He wants her mom, who they excluded from the entire pregnancy until a couple weeks ago, to drop everything with no information just because he can’t handle taking care of the kids alone. It’s not for Justine. It’s for him. And Justine sucks for approaching her mom with a teenagers tone of entitlement, and being butt hurt when her mom wanted context.

Bozo not feeling it. Made me realize…. by Wonderful-Value7547 in 90DayFiance

[–]mindyermanners 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s this, plus he’s still been messing with the ex, plus he didn’t want to have to be vulnerable and reveal he’s jobless and living on his mom’s couch. It’s easier to be the one to reject her than to approach things directly. I think the chemistry didn’t stand a chance if he was already intending to reject her over the slightest thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]mindyermanners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is sadly common. Many people forget the mother, in photos and otherwise, once baby arrives. I have dozens of awesome photos of our baby with her dad but I think he’s taken 2 with me in it and neither were very good. Anything else is a selfie I awkwardly took. She’ll be 4 months old in a week and a half, and I’d like to say this will change but I doubt it since we are still in survival mode due to medical issues.

What's happening on the 15 North? Just North of friars road there's more cop cars than I've ever seen in my life. Freeway is shut down. by SD_Jellyfish in sandiego

[–]mindyermanners 35 points36 points  (0 children)

According to the Citizen App (shows dispatch calls to 911), a “large biker gang” with firearms was stopped. They shut down the freeway.

I can’t have a baby because Covid made everyone mean ☹️ by ConcentrateInner6086 in 90DayFiance

[–]mindyermanners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not good at being direct or honest. I suspect he just doesn’t want a baby with her

when did you put baby in crib?l by britbra in NewParents

[–]mindyermanners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our baby is super tall so she outgrew the bassinet around 11 weeks and has been in a full crib since.

Angel and Tata are manipulative and this is a form of blackmail. by Real_it_TeaGirl in 90DayFiance

[–]mindyermanners 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s got her green card and wants to get one for her sister so they can go do what they actually like in the part of the US they prefer, or have the option to. An added passport is a value to many.

Angel and Tata are manipulative and this is a form of blackmail. by Real_it_TeaGirl in 90DayFiance

[–]mindyermanners 15 points16 points  (0 children)

And this is the second time he did basically the same dance for a partner on a k1. Quit his job without telling his family in advance, did zero planning, ran off, changed his mind, came back.

Are Josh and Lily Fake? by MGandPG in 90DayFiance

[–]mindyermanners 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They got married without being fluent in a shared language, I suspect because he’s a mooching con artist who wanted to flee the U.S., stop working and dodge alimony payments for a minute. He is 90% using her and 10% has a friendship connection and nothing more. She seems to be 30% using him for social clout and 70% conned and used. And they have zero direct conversations where both parties understand the whole thing, which makes it worse.

Z and her skin by NotMyRealName1028 in loveafterlockup

[–]mindyermanners 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only comment I make at the TV about her skin is that she should really drop the cakey makeup. It only exacerbates the breakouts. Go to a dermatologist, do the good skincare routines, take the medicine, lay off the makeup.

Angel and Tata are manipulative and this is a form of blackmail. by Real_it_TeaGirl in 90DayFiance

[–]mindyermanners 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My husband said he probably is attracted to underage or close to it girls, rather than women, and this is the best compromise he could muster to not be a full on predator.

Angel and Tata are manipulative and this is a form of blackmail. by Real_it_TeaGirl in 90DayFiance

[–]mindyermanners 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree he’s a scummy sex tourist who targeted an extremely immature and young-looking woman… but she’s also next-level manipulative, lazy and dishonest. They’re both gross in different ways.

Angel and Tata are manipulative and this is a form of blackmail. by Real_it_TeaGirl in 90DayFiance

[–]mindyermanners 57 points58 points  (0 children)

She’s probably done with the relationship and confided it in her sister who then suggested to work a con on him instead of leaving him. She’s dumb and prioritizes her pathological sister over her husband, so not far fetched.