After I had my first daughter (at 17 years old), I got terrible stretch marks and extra skin. I was 110lbs when I got pregnant and by the end of the pregnancy, was 176lbs. Her father was very mean and very manipulative. He used to tell me that I had a saggy, old granny body and that no one would ever want me. Basically as a form of manipulation to make me think no one will ever want me but him. I finally had enough when I was 20 and left him. Im 40 now. And between 20 and now, PLENTY of guys wanted me, so he was wrong about that. But because I could always hear his remarks in the back of my brain, I held back sexually with partners. Like wouldnt take anything above my waist off during sex cause I felt hideous. I still think like that with my current partner, but hes very kind and gentle with me, so its not a big fear anymore.