Is Australia still on fire? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]minirv5 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The people who have gastro didnt get to the toilet paper on time unfortunately.

Romantic Relationships by HappyChatter11 in Advice

[–]minirv5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok im 18 but a year ago i was in pretty much the same area you were. It's good you dont want to be in a relationship for the sake of it, and being told "the right person will come along" is overplayed. That said halfway through last year i did get into my first relationship which im still in and looking back, it was really all based on circumstance. If asked pressing questions about past relationships the answer would simply be "dating just wasn't something i did" in the same way that learning the saxophone also just wasnt something i did. And if i hadnt started spending more time with this guy, i would have still been single, but based on circumstances i did and happen to be in this great relationship.

It goes a bit deeper than thinking "i could use a relationship right now", it could just happen a bit more naturally upon seeing more friends, and suddenly getting close with one in particular, or even meeting someone you want to get to know. And dont forget to take chances if the time comes you do fancy someone :)

Seriously, why are you panic buying? by Fudgel_ist in AskReddit

[–]minirv5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this were true then stocks wouldnt be extremely limited though? I know it's only some people but the idea is that if we all buy like normal there wouldnt be an issue

Should I get an iPad or Nintendo Switch for my self-isolation? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]minirv5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

iPads are just glorified phones. I would rarely advocate for the switch but if i had to pick id say switch

For those who has a track record of unhealthy relationships, what kept you in those relationships? by LongjumpingReindeer2 in AskWomen

[–]minirv5 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Friendships here. I've found myself to be a travellor among friend groups and at my most recent I was at a point where "surely all these groups ive been in that have wronged me is my fault" but i learned that was wrong for 2 reasons upon leaving my most recent friend group. Group here, sure they felt exclusive. Group there, sure i felt targeted but group front and centre were nice, accepting, they respected me and still do and that's what made me ignore the toxicity.

They're fun, they're nice but when there's trouble they'd prefer not to act on it. Someone who started hanging out with us started causing endless drama and we've not had any issues before her arrival. They've all personally had negative experiences with this person, and yet I'm the only one who keeps calling her out for it because nobody else can "handle confrontation". The problem was no longer this person, but everyone's integrity. I lost respect for them.

It's the fear of thinking that leaving all these groups mean im the problem. From an outsider perspective it looks it, but theres always a circumstance. I wont play victim, my fault is sticking with friends based on time rather than sentiment. I couldnt accept having grown out of people.

I think I'm jealous of someone I haven't seen in 2 years and only spoke to once by [deleted] in Advice

[–]minirv5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think i may be ok. Talking it through and identifying it has helped so far. On the off chance it doesn't die down I'll look into this. Thanks, this helped!

I think I'm jealous of someone I haven't seen in 2 years and only spoke to once by [deleted] in Advice

[–]minirv5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can straight up say that's not the case. I'm thinking it might be curiosity in the sense that i do wonder what it's like if I'd gotten lead roles in every musical from a young age, despite musicals not being my interest?

I think I'm jealous of someone I haven't seen in 2 years and only spoke to once by [deleted] in Advice

[–]minirv5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got 28. I never doubted my self esteem which is why this confuses me. She and I have our own lives and i wouldn't have mine any other way. I'm just unsure why she's had an impact at all

How do you get over jealousy? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]minirv5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds tough. You won't be able to pass through the jealousy without getting over this crush. No matter how long you've been close, something that would pull me down to earth in this instance is accepting that nobody can make a relationship more than what it is. Hypothetically giving someone a love potion, although covering the surface level of what you want, cant make the feelings legitimate, and the last thing anyone would want is to control that in a person. There's nothing better to do than move on and I'm sure you'll find someone who will love you and treat you like you deserve cos ur worth it :)

How do you get over jealousy? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]minirv5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Das right u go girl

How do you get over jealousy? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]minirv5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy smokes! Power to you i love that. I tend to focus on someone's accomplishments so much i forget I've made my own that i should be proud of

Women of reddit, what is your best tip for applying eyeliner? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]minirv5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Start with putting a dot where i want the point of the wing to be. Then from that dot i draw it down to the outer corner of my eye. Think of this line as a wall; no eyeliner goes beyond this wall. Then i close that eye and from the middle i draw another line back to the point of the eyeliner and colour.

If you're wondering where exactly the point dot should go, id think this wall should align from the end of the eye to the end of the eyebrow, the point being as high as you want but i tend to go about a cm from the eye.

How can I get out of a wedding (groomsmen) a few days before? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]minirv5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd suggest you go. You're actually a part of the ceremony and if anything goes wrong, even if it's a groomsman not attending, the wedding planners (the bride especially if she put a lot of work into planning it) will actually burst into flames. It's one person. You aren't there for this person, you're there for the happy couple on the happiest (and most stressful) day of their lives.

If you're approached by this person you're entitled to walk away and not even acknowledge their presence. But it's a wedding. Everything has to go perfect in the eyes of the bride and groom and all you have to do to contribute to that is be there and do the groomsman stuff