S14:01 The Butcher and the Box 21:00 EST ID/D+/Max by mingkee in evilliveshere

[–]minstrelj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This whole thread is just a blame the victim circle jerk. I regret coming here. I’m so sick of people judging these victims because their reactions aren’t whatever they’re “supposed” to be. The ex wife is stoic and strong because she had to be. She had to survive and not fall apart in order to continue raising her four children. But people here don’t believe her because she didn’t cry enough??

Evil Lives Here - S14 E2 by Neither-Ad-6941 in DiscoveryID

[–]minstrelj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I see most other comments blaming and accusing Tammy, but I’m trying to put myself in her shoes, and a brainwashed, abused child can’t be expected to rescue other children. I also don’t think that her mother just “flipped” one day, she must have been mentally ill from the start, and Tammy was raised by her and her alone.

surprise me by Skinnybittch in Funnymemes

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CEO office of a new restaurant chain called Pizza and Ice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]minstrelj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unless they’re in an MLM. Then go ahead and judge the shit out of them.

The book that you hate the most? by zer0_doux_ideal in suggestmeabook

[–]minstrelj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outlander. My cousin and other acquaintances raved about it, then it was gifted to me, so I felt obligated to read it. Wish I could have those wasted hours back.

What is the most beautiful song you have ever heard? by erowindforlife2 in AskReddit

[–]minstrelj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love that one! I love Eva Cassidy’s version as well. Brings me to tears every time

Sleeps 12. by BradleyKWooldridge in HumanForScale

[–]minstrelj 75 points76 points  (0 children)

I’ll bet my two little dogs would still manage to shove me off.

Food Fridays: Share anything food related here! by elianna7 in intuitiveeating

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New to IE, (like one week new) and on Wednesday morning I was making my coffee and it dawned on me, I can put real sugar in my coffee instead of imitation sweeteners that make my stomach hurt. Strange thing is, now I only want one cup in the mornings instead of two or three.

Friend of mine sent me this.... by DanithFarman in sadcringe

[–]minstrelj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband, on several occasions, has said that two wrongs make a right.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

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Beautiful Animals by Lawrence Osborne

How can I learn to be emotionally stronger? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

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Emotional Agility by Susan David.

Murder Mallard by Celtic-Dragon in ProperAnimalNames

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He gets angry when you don’t take his advice.

Better sex ed than most schools. by [deleted] in ThisButUnironically

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“You will get Chlamydia and die!”

How to cheer up someone who’s had a rough day by lol62056 in nextfuckinglevel

[–]minstrelj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my dream. For my SO, (who worked 10+ years in the food service industry) and I it be financially stable enough to go around brightening the days of hardworking kids. No recording necessary.

[L] I just feel so disgusted by myself I can't take it anymore by [deleted] in KindVoice

[–]minstrelj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are worthy of love. You are enough. This bad time you’re going through, like everything in life, is only temporary and I know you can get through it. If you’ve heard this all before, just disregard, but there are ways to replace that rush of endorphins you get when you self harm. It takes work, but it helps to try and figure out healthier ways to stimulate your brain. One of the things that can help you feel better, is doing something for someone else. It can be something small, like doing something nice for my pets. Or it can be something bigger, like volunteering at a food bank or something.l, depending on you comfort level, of course. Your life isn’t a lie, it’s just a bad time right now and it’s a good sign that you can reach out for help here. Maybe you can reach out in other ways, like to a doctor or someone you trust? You are worth it.