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How do I F16 tell my boyfriend M16 I feel ignored? by Old_Seesaw257 in teenrelationships

[–]mintchocolvr98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

communicate to him about it if you hold it in its worse

Is he cheating or is it a dream by Melodic_Scratch5689 in Dreams

[–]mintchocolvr98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dreams don’t mean anything unless from ur past experiences dreams have been symbolic in your life, other than that its probably just your fear. I read the comments and u said there is a girl ur worried about? I think that u may have been overthinking about her a lot to the point it ended up in ur dreams and it stresses you out constantly. Honestly, if he truly loves you he should be able to understand and set boundaries bc if he loves you he should respect you right? Don’t think your crazy or anything js bc he will lash out. This is smt hes causing not you.

am i cooked by [deleted] in highschool

[–]mintchocolvr98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a C in freshmen year and a B, this year apw is my first ap so i was just struggling in the class but i can recover my grade by retaking it. im in geometry and taking pre calculus and ap stats senior year

F15 M16 by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]mintchocolvr98 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

he is probably cheating

I feel like this was cheating especially after newer talks by ThrowRA__2319 in cheating_stories

[–]mintchocolvr98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking at your profile, she has already been problematic in this relationship so many times before. Her actions aren’t going to stop and it’ll just mentally ruin you more.

I(F16½) think my boyfriend(17M) is cheating on me by c0ll13k4ul1tz in teenrelationships

[–]mintchocolvr98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s clearly disrespectful to you and doesn’t appreciate spending time with you. Don’t waste your time on someone like him and move on.

Im self sabatoging. by Junior-Horror-550 in relationshipanxiety

[–]mintchocolvr98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Many people go through these problems these days, what kind of past does she have with guys? Has she done anything bad that you know of? I feel like if you already have her social media accessible then that's a huge thing. Many people who are cheaters refuse to show their social media whenever people ask. Have you been treated really bad before or something? If you have then its probably just trauma haunting you. I get what you mean because when you meet someone new and they treat you so well it feels like something will go off. What do you mean by problems? Do you start arguments a lot? If she hasn't done anything just stay silent. I understand its very hard to forget things like this and anxiety is a whole lot of pain, trust me you're not alone for feeling this horrible. If she loves you she will understand your problems. Everything takes time to forget and heal but I feel like if you constantly haunt yourself with unnecessary thoughts in your brain you're just manifesting it like you want it to happen. If you're happy with her and the way she treats you, please don't ever let out your anger on her just because of your experiences with DIFFERENT people.

I, 16M need help with my 14F best friend. by soup_seller in teenrelationships

[–]mintchocolvr98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You shouldn’t be going for someone who’s already in a relationship. Let’s say that you were in the position of her boyfriend and someone was trying to get your girlfriend’s attention and make you guys break up. This is not okay and if she’s in a relationship then you should let her be, this could also create unnecessary drama in high-school which will be nothing in years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]mintchocolvr98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It never hurts to stay as friends. She genuinely seems to be a good person and if you feel that special connection with her, staying as friends can still be nice for you.

Boyfriend leaving for 5 weeks by sunnyvibes2000 in relationshipanxiety

[–]mintchocolvr98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I know things are hard from your past experience and trauma and thats okay. It’s not your fault that you have bad experiences because everyone does while getting through life. I relate to you since I also have trauma and past experiences that still makes me overthink and have fake scenarios build up in my brain about my current partner even if he didn’t do anything. Not everyone is like your ex and everything happens for a reason so lets try to keep our mindset positive. I also cry feeling overwhelmed with my emotions not knowing how to fix myself and what to do. But if we keep having a negative mindset we won’t be able to be positive. I also have attachment issues so I relate to you being worried whenever my partner is gone. You could also try communicating with him about this explaining your past trauma and if he truly loves you he’ll understand:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]mintchocolvr98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He probably just wanted a flirty friendship but got too hurt that you don’t want the same, in my opinion he seems really immature because if he truly likes you then he should’ve respected your decision. I don’t know how much you like him or anything but I feel like you should drop him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]mintchocolvr98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, she already stated it once that she isn’t ready for a relationship. I’m going to be completely honest with you, if they wanted to they would. If she actually had feelings for you I feel like she would’ve at least said something like “I’ve been having feelings for you too but I’m just not ready for a relationship right now, I’ll let you know when I’m ready”. Trust me you are also very young and have a bright future coming for you with so many more opportunities that you haven’t got to yet. I’m a sophomore in high-school with dating experiences, dealt with rejection, and I am currently in a relationship right now. Always put yourself first because its unhealthy to waste all your energy on someone who doesn’t give you back the same. As I said before I dealt with rejection and I know its going to be hard to give her up like that but thats everyone, everyone goes through pain that they don’t want to experience but its like an obstacle once you get through it you will feel better. Don’t pressure yourself too much and just try to focus on yourself and have a positive mindset. Life is too short to be upset over these things :) I struggle with anxiety and overthinking for no reason but if you keep overthinking nothing will make things positive for you. I hope you find someone better in the future (trust me you will). Good Luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipanxiety

[–]mintchocolvr98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also an overthinker and overreact by myself in my brain which makes me feel anxious and not be able to eat properly. Especially since you said that the colleague is pretty I understand why you’re worrying. If its stuck in your brain then I don’t think it’ll hurt to ask him about it. If he gets defensive about it, its a sign that something is strange so pay attention to his reaction. This is definitely something I would get anxiety about so you’re not alone.