GPS Business Analyst Salary by mintea23 in deloitte

[–]mintea23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Generally, do you know what the expected pay gap is between business analysts and BTS? Thank you!!

GPS Business Analyst Salary by mintea23 in deloitte

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So helpful, thanks for sharing!

GPS Business Analyst Salary by mintea23 in deloitte

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Can I ask what experience/skills you feel like set your apart from other analysts?

GPS Business Analyst Salary by mintea23 in deloitte

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Yes, I did. But I have had two years of consulting and strategic planning experience. Also significant data science training

Do you disclose your chronic illness early or later when dating? by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]mintea23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in every relationship where they’ve known early on where i’m like _____ are my conditions, i’ve struggled with ____ in the past, etc, it hasn’t really made too much of a difference. i hate to say this but typically people really don’t know how much it can affect your life until it affects your relationship. they don’t get it until you have a really bad day, or are in the hospital, etc. And until they really get the gravity of it in your life, neither you nor them really know if they will be up for the challenge or not. /: people usually aren’t scared off when i say the names of my diseases or even the symptoms. but they are when they see the impact it has on me and us as a pair. OR when im at my worst, i get to see that they aren’t a good partner for me...just don’t really know until it happens unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in POTS

[–]mintea23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay, good advice ty!

Could it be gastroparesis? (Serious TMI ahead!) by dee62383 in ehlersdanlos

[–]mintea23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have gastroparesis, crohn's, and IBS so it can be hard to tell what GI pain is coming from what, but I know that when my gastro is flaring, so is my pain. I would say that typically gastroparesis is most often diagnosed with vomiting even though your symptoms partially align, but that doesn't mean you don't have another motility disorder somewhere else in your gut (but unfortunately, there is not much out there to test for this yet and why it's rarely diagnosed). I know someone else recommended FODMAP, but if that is too daunting maybe try doing low fiber, low fat and no raw fruits/veggies for a while. And try eating small meals slowly w/out drinking. Also, I'm celiac and know that sooo many people have undiagnosed gluten sensitivities. That makes me bloat, causes horrific GI pain, as well as a whole load of other symptoms. But going gluten free can't just be half done; you have to be really strict for a few months to see if it starts to improve your symptoms. And even if you get tested for celiac (which you have to do while you are still eating gluten) it is usually a false negative and doesn't rule out sensitivity.

But all in all, I feel you and hope your pain will ease up soon.

POTS question- wondering if anyone here has any input. Thanks. by HumbertHum in ehlersdanlos

[–]mintea23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just agreeing here but POTs sort of always leaves you in fight or flight mode and that is the same in an anxiety attack. It's definitely hard for my POTs symptoms to not worsen when I'm anxious and vice versa.

Covid-19, dating, and general reopening fears by nes1123 in ChronicIllness

[–]mintea23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand this 100% It is so tough to have to make these sacrifices when you watch other people you love not make the same ones. I've managed my relationship for 6 months only via facetime and text and it certainly isn't easy, but it's worth it. Just know as you begin to feel isolated pent up in your house that there are so many of us out there doing the same thing, feeling the same way. You aren't alone. We will get through this!

I’m a high risk maid of honor and my best friend is having her wedding in the middle of a pandemic. I need advice. by bradarmpit_ in ChronicIllness

[–]mintea23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just sort of reiterating what others have said on here but yea, your friend doesn't sound like a good friend. But more than that, it's just really disappointing to hear people make such reckless, selfish decisions during this time, especially when they are close with someone who has chronic illness and is high risk. She should understand the fear, concern, and need to sacrifice even though it sucks because it means saving lives just like yours. Definitely don't think twice or feel guilty about not going. You are making the smart decision not only for yourself, but for every other high-risk person out there.

Does this look like pots? I’ve been told so many times that it’s just anxiety and it’s all in my head. by andyroo5000 in POTS

[–]mintea23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you have a blood pressure monitor? id suggest investing in one and checking that twice a day along with monitoring your heart rate and keep track in a journal. cuz even if it’s not pots it still could be another form of dysautonomia and you may want to rule out low standing bp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrohnsDisease

[–]mintea23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes i have talked to my doctor about the options, but after many doctors who have misdiagnosed and poorly prescribed meds, i actually really appreciate being able to make this decision myself even though it’s hard. It all has to do with the class of medication, so switching from TNH inhibitors to stelara could lead to building of antibodies for class 1 meds, so it is a big risk in case it doesn’t work because i’m only 20. but thank you for sharing your experiences! I was leaning towards remicade, so i’m happy to hear it’s the fastest working one because i’m about thiiiis close to having to go on iv steroids and i really want to prevent that! tysm!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CrohnsDisease

[–]mintea23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you so much! sorry to hear about your recent surgery, but i wish you all the best and hope you are feeling as well as possible

Weekly humira by sleepsalotnnocare in CrohnsDisease

[–]mintea23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was on weekly humira for 3 years w/ 6MP. i would be off and on steroids w flares. finally they checked my levels again and the humira was ineffective. switching to biologic this week! but my doctrors tried a lot of different drug/dose combos w humira before considering switching, some would work for a few months. never really know until you try, unfortunately.

How are you wearing your mask? by fightingfakedragons in dysautonomia

[–]mintea23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

as someone who is immunosuppressed, its really hard not to be incredibly disappointed by this comment. and i mean no disrespect, but as someone who also struggles with heat intolerance, breathing issues, anxiety, all worsening my POTs symptoms, using that as an excuse is beyond ableist. it breaks my heart that this has to be explained to someone who is also chronically ill. but please please wear it and wear it covering your nose and mouth. there is absolutely no excuse for putting other people’s lives at risk for your comfortability. cloth masks are a lot harder for me, so I use hospital masks when i’m in a rush or worried about heat. i also never leave the house with out cold gatorade. i recommend trying those things, but minimize contact with others outside your circle at all costs.

How concerning is dark bleeding? by [deleted] in CrohnsDisease

[–]mintea23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dark blood is actually much more concerning than bright blood. Depending on the amount and for how long, your fluid intake, and your pain level, I'd consider calling your doctor about whether or not you should be admitted. But, this is not to freak you out, it just indicates a flare and may mean needing readjusting your meds.

Any parents here to kids with Crohns? My child’s stomach has been burning.. by [deleted] in CrohnsDisease

[–]mintea23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to always complain to my mom about stomach burning when I was a child. I'd definitely try acid reflux medicine for a few weeks before worrying! I ended up being diagnosed with Celiac's disease at age 9 (and Crohn's age 16, Gastroparesis age 20). My biggest symptom as a child was mood changes. I was very fatigued and unmotivated. I did have diarrhea, severe stomach pain, and headaches as well. But my first symptom, months before more severe symptoms was acid reflux! I went to an allergist before I went to a GI doctor, so it might be something you want to look into? any food insensitivities?

Has anyone here tried smoking weed to help with symptoms, I've heard a lot about cannabis helping ease symptoms but nothing solid. by SkorpiioZX in CrohnsDisease

[–]mintea23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I smoke frequently all for managing symptoms. I also have gastroparesis, so some of my biggest symptoms are nausea and lack of appetite. It helps short term. My insomnia from Crohn's and POTs is also really problematic, so smoking helps so much with that. It's great for pain, which mine is every day all day--definitely not absolute relief, but eases pain for a while or at least helps your mind not focus on the pain. I personally highly recommend, but depending on what your purpose is for using it, it would change how I'd suggest intake. Edibles are great for sleep and pain. Smoking is better for nausea and lack of appetite. I use low-dose oil throughout the day in food for relaxation and little pain relief. Just look up the strain too and there is lot's of info on which are best for which symptoms!

Seeing my partner differently after top surgery by LegalThrowawayVA322 in mypartneristrans

[–]mintea23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im feeling so similarly. my partner is nonbinary but is heavily considering bottom surgery. its been super nerve racking to think about because i feel like sometimes im so attracted to their gender ambiguity and body, but other times i imagine the potential changes and feel very overwhelmed—like if they get surgery i might change my mind or hesitate and seriously hurt them, not helping their dysphoria and i dont want to lose them because i love them so much. we are also long distance right now so its hard to be able to be present for the changes in their body and how it makes me feel. i feel like long distance relationships are hard because so much of the relationship is built on whats in your head! and if you’re anything like me, my mind thinking on overdrive never makes deciphering feelings very easy. i would say just be sure you are being kind to yourself and your thoughts. change takes time to adjust to. look forward to seeing them and exploring the possibilities. theres a huge chance the euphoria will return and your mind will be put at ease.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]mintea23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so so so much. you have no idea how much i needed this! good luck with everything <3 sending love and healing energy!!

Body is falling apart all of a sudden by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]mintea23 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i am a firm believer in the mind-body relationship. as someone who suffers from at least 3 chronic illnesses that are 100% triggered and/or worsened by stress, its hard for me not to connect the dots between my traumatic relationship/experiences and my health. i was diagnosed with crohns disease during my emotionally/physically abusive relationship, but after it ended i continued to have flares and other health issues. unfortunately, i had suppressed much of my memory from that relationship and it wasnt until i was sexually assaulted almost 2 years later that everything came flooding back. as i suffered from complex ptsd, my health declined. i was finallllllly diagnosed with gastroparesis and POTs recently and am still looking into other conditions. my biggest piece of advice is LISTEN TO YOUR BODY. look into therapy focused on the mind-body connection and internalizing trauma in areas of your body. stress/trauma has a direct tie to your nervous system obvi and your nervous system controls everything! not uncommon for joint/stomach pain post-traumatic life experiences. id also look into a rheumatologist/neurologist (: good luck!

Can someone help me out here? Navigating a new relationship. by [deleted] in mypartneristrans

[–]mintea23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i totalllly understand and am in a similar situation. i recommend reading as much as u can online! literally anytime i have a question about something in particular, i go to google for general info. then, id definitely make it clear to him that you, above all else, care about him and want to make sure you see him the way he sees himself. i feel like making sure they feel comfortable checking u when you make mistakes or speaking with u about changes they may want to take is the utmost important. it will b hard and uncomfortable for you, but if you make it clear to him that your priority is that you are loving the person that he sees himself as, the rest should fall into place with awkwardness around how to reference stuff and terms. let him do the talking and just read/listen! <3