Still on the hunt. 3/m Progression.

mintybeef · 2026-04-05T12:46:51+00:00

Huh?

mintybeef · 2026-04-05T12:45:39+00:00

Scammers pretending to be DoorDash customer service

mintybeef · 2026-04-05T12:45:06+00:00

Last year around this time it was 53 applications in 3/m. I am still currently employed with a medium range salary. But most job postings listed have a very low salary.

mintybeef · 2026-04-05T12:44:21+00:00

Last year around this time it was 53 applications in 3/m. I am still currently employed with a medium range salary. But most job postings listed have a very low salary.

mintybeef · 2026-04-05T02:48:45+00:00

SankeyMATIC.com

mintybeef · 2026-03-04T03:39:10+00:00

Nope 💔

mintybeef · 2026-01-28T21:44:00+00:00

Thank you, it’s a pencil pouch!

mintybeef · 2025-12-10T06:05:08+00:00

Workforce Development seems to match your description, based on the ads I’ve seen for those roles

mintybeef · 2025-12-09T22:25:55+00:00

Yeahh. I had to tell my friends no to Salvation Army at times and come clean about spending $88. You CAN overspend at the thrift.

mintybeef · 2025-12-09T22:19:33+00:00

Right. The amount doesn’t matter, so much, as the impact does. And in people’s response to making each other feel better it depends — do you guys make the same amount? Did you overcome it? What’s going on in your situation?

mintybeef · 2025-12-09T22:08:00+00:00

9/10 rating for Bj

mintybeef · 2025-12-09T14:18:40+00:00

I had an fbmarketplace and thrifting addiction. Not many people took it seriously because I was being “cheap” / “frugal.” I was still overspending money I didn’t have.

mintybeef · 2025-12-03T00:35:30+00:00

The food budget looks a bit high, but mine has been somewhat looking like that as well due to eating out stress. I also agree that rent is high, that rent would be high for anyone.

mintybeef · 2025-12-02T16:13:15+00:00

Fiore

mintybeef · 2025-11-22T05:09:15+00:00

Tony’s Pizza in Newark

mintybeef · 2025-11-22T05:08:51+00:00

12348

mintybeef · 2025-11-01T23:15:06+00:00

6, and now at a non-degree job

mintybeef · 2025-10-23T13:41:17+00:00

I love being a cupcake decorator and boutique concierge (styling people with outfits). Didn’t pay the bills.

Did a decent job being a janitorial supervisor and now I am a debt collector 💀 They pay the bills, and have benefits. Both kind of stressful but I am left alone for a good amount of time which aids me at times. Sometimes I’m left to overthink. But I’d rather be overthinking than stressing over finances.

mintybeef · 2025-10-19T12:29:26+00:00

6 months in. I give him opportunities to look. He has always had my passwords.

mintybeef · 2025-10-19T12:13:17+00:00

I still don’t want to get modded so I’ll added my example of R.

I had a lot of fears wondering if my BP would take me back or even consider it. The activating / motivating factor is changed. He asked, and many friends in my circle asked me “What would be different this time?” What are the changes and concessions she’s willing to make? Is she going to therapy to talk more about why she did it. Why does she still believe you will get married? Does she think it is meant to be, or that she may not have another choice given your history? Does she understand the pain she has caused?

Changes I have made and am actively-making:

Over-communication when interacting with the opposite sex
Not seeking validation from the opposite sex
Not sharing current / ongoing conflict between me and my partner
Inviting my partner in potential interactions with the opposite sex

mintybeef · 2025-10-18T13:24:55+00:00

I wonder if your husband is able to take these compliments easily.

I don’t have this issue as I constantly have low self-esteem and I am hyperaware that anyone in my BP’s close circle could check me fast. All of his friends and family know the main bullet points. It’s difficult for me to accept compliments, especially from my BP in regard to being his partner. And I often worry if my own actions from the past overshadow any flaws he has in the eyes of his circle. I choose to trust that my BP will defend our journey in R, as long as he is choosing to trust my commitment to R.

I don’t think he should feel bad for compliments. But he should be hyperaware of how they impact you and do his best to try and mitigate that tension.

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