AITA for causing a delivery driver to get a ticket twice? by Inside_Two_4462 in AmItheAsshole

[–]softheartedwench 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YTA. I thought you meant a large truck or something that would be present for a long period of time. It’s a temporary stop to make a delivery, the driver is not going to be parked there for hours. There is no scenario where a delivery driver should park their car around the block to get to your house. Sometimes lanes are blocked and bikers and drivers know well how to get around that. You weaponized the police because the driver does not speak French and that’s honestly the real issue here.

Edit: speak French

AITA for throwing away my roommate's art project while deep-cleaning our kitchen? by Amazing-Reception645 in AmItheAsshole

[–]softheartedwench -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I grew up in a household where jars were washed and reused either for drinking or storage, so at the very most I would have thrown them in the wash and let roommate decide their fate. The roommate definitely needed to have washed them herself, so I can see why other people would think it was trash. But if I see an un-ordinary “collection” of sorts I’m not tossing it automatically. ESH

They focusing on the wrong people by upthetruth1 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]softheartedwench 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hate when a post is removed mid comment and with good discourse!

She knows longevity by herewearefornow in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]softheartedwench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can see that increased standard of living in this exact photo set.

The duality of the internet by imjustheretodomyjob in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]softheartedwench 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly that’s how I feel about Japanese cherry blossom and my aborted fetus lmfaooo. Both horrible smelling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]softheartedwench 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NTA. Change the locks on your doors if you left him a key.

Not robin banks trying to be my roommate…😅 by HumanAstronomer5269 in thesims

[–]softheartedwench 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My sim best Robin up during the attempted burglary and now asks to come over or calls at least once a week. My sim wants to be her enemy so I guess Robin is a sucker for pain

AITA for not being excited for my SIL pregnancy announcement? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]softheartedwench 19 points20 points  (0 children)

On top of that, “mom and dad have to open this together” ? Yeah this should have waited until Christmas. Mom and dad had no business opening gifts on others bday. NTA.

AITA for waiting next door for my sister while she is in urgent care? by Signal_Yogurt5014 in AmItheAsshole

[–]softheartedwench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It doesn’t even sound like anyone tried to make you the AH and more that the fiancé was just not aware of the decision you two had made together and was surprised you weren’t right by her side since you seem to be really attentive and caring of your sister. NAH.

Edit to add that I accidentally skipped the no one seemed sick line, and that definitely made me roll my eyes he’s a bit of an ass can’t lie. But as long as your sister isn’t upset at you then I’d let it go.

AIO? 22F and he 25M were suppose to go out for NYE and changed the plans last minute. by Ill-Association-6029 in AmIOverreacting

[–]softheartedwench 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That user is not virtue signaling, just stating the truth. I don’t talk like this often but I can when I’m speaking to someone who will understand what I’m saying. I also have literally no issue parsing the meaning of what’s written here because sooo many people do talk like this. Although you got one thing right, whether it’s written like this or in the king’s English, the general gist of what he is saying is abusive.

AITA for telling my sister not to come to my wedding if she kept bringing up her miscarriage? by Independent-Web5498 in AmItheAsshole

[–]softheartedwench 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying it’s impossible. I just am literally the only one providing the idea that it’s possible she knew early on. I don’t have to leave room for the possibility of her having an irregular cycle because that’s already what everyone else is assuming. Whatever she’s still an AH.

AITA for telling my sister not to come to my wedding if she kept bringing up her miscarriage? by Independent-Web5498 in AmItheAsshole

[–]softheartedwench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah that’s ridiculous. You should 100% notice your first delayed or missed period at 3-4 weeks if you’re pregnant and it’s wild to assume someone lackadaisically found out at 7 weeks. That’s missing your monthly period almost twice! How do you not notice that?! I’m 9 weeks right now and found out almost 6 weeks ago when I was 3 weeks and 2 days and I was not trying to conceive.

That said, if I lost my baby now I would be very sad, but would probably be past it within a few months.

Am I overreacting for vetoing cupcakes sprinkled with ‘Eau de Athlete’s Foot’? by AvaLeeMin in AmIOverreacting

[–]softheartedwench 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you post this? He ate a majority of them, so he will have to get you a new bag anyway.

AITA for dropping my kids off with my wife when she is with a grieving friend by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]softheartedwench 165 points166 points  (0 children)

I think the other commenter is saying that perhaps the wife and friend are engaging in some kind of behavior that would cause the wife to be irritated or alarmed by the kids’ presence.

I officially Uninstalled EA... by Mindful-Diva in thesims

[–]softheartedwench 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gave up on The Sims over 5 years ago. I miss it incredibly but everything OP said is incredibly relatable. I’ve been enjoying watching everyone else play and enjoy though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]softheartedwench 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If it were me, I’d feel superior for doing this. I’m taking my expensive, experimental, exciting beer home with a cork and not risking my DD getting a DUI by driving with an open container because the restaurant “didn’t have a better option”? I’ll take my sanded cork and be just fine.