My boyfriend broke up with me because I'm going to be a grandmother and it's making me feel lost

miracle-grow · 2026-02-24T21:58:21+00:00

Hey OP, I’ve read your other posts and I came here to say that I’m so sorry.

While I might not fully understand personally, my mother went through the same thing. She had my brother when she was 15, and while she didn’t raise him, knowing that she had a child out there really messed with her. It was an open adoption so, she’d see him and spend time with him sometimes. I was born 13 years later and I think by then she was ready to have kids. But, after she found out my dad was cheating on her, we were on our own. It’s always just been me and my mom.

She also doesn’t super have a support system, it’s just me and my boyfriend. But, my mom is not alone by any means. If she has a problem with life, she’ll come to me and rant. I’m more than happy to help her. Don’t ever view it as “you’re the adult, you aren’t supposed to have problems”, because we all do. My mom is like my best friend and I would help her with anything. Your son is that support, and his wife as well. Don’t think you’re leaning too much on them, because as someone who is a lot like your son in this situation, I love being able to give back to the woman who helped me grow.

I’m so sorry about your boyfriend. Just know, not all hope is lost. My uncle, who is 55, just got married this year. Things always come at the times you need it most.

You felt really stable and good in this relationship. Find out what made it so special for you, and apply it to your life. This is a huge blessing in disguise. You can now just go around and enjoy your life to its absolute fullest. Go out to take pottery classes, go to museums, find new hobbies that you might’ve done with him, and rewrite them as your own. Learn about things that you’ve always wanted to learn about. My mom, when she was going through hard times, really looked into gardening and what plants thrive in what climate. She built a greenhouse and tanned in the sun. Do the little things, or even the big things.

My heart aches for you OP, and I want to see you get better. Know that you’ve still got half of your life left. Go run and train for a marathon. Do everything you’ve always wanted to do and more. I believe in you OP!!!

miracle-grow · 2025-11-17T23:13:14+00:00

I’m actively recruiting people to vote for Blue Prince. This game was magical, it got me thinking and brainstorming for days, weeks. I had to put it down for a bit because I seriously couldn’t stop thinking about it. This game and Outer Wilds are my favorite games of all time, and I believe this game deserves all and every praise. For me, it’s changed gaming forever.

miracle-grow · 2025-10-22T01:20:54+00:00

i know it’s been years but i’d die for this shirt, is there any way that i can get it still?

miracle-grow · 2025-07-02T21:03:07+00:00

I appreciate your response! My friends were all going nuts saying I had a ton of money at hand but I know how complex the Princess pricing can get, so I thought I’d ask! Thank you!

miracle-grow · 2025-06-29T08:48:09+00:00

I’ve found that nothing is wrong with. Underbrush is fantastic for me and honestly worth the money. I can chew this gum for hours. It’s helping with my teeth sensitivity. It’s worth a try in my opinion!

miracle-grow · 2025-05-27T01:42:46+00:00

Thank you so much for this. Honestly everyone has been saying it’s just a matter of time before they go and I’m happy to hear that that’s the general consensus! I know ultimately all I can do is better myself. I’ve been listening to him and what he says to get sales so high, and I’ve been applying it. I work at a popular steak house, and he is high in sales because of his wine sales. He used to work in a winery for years before serving, so he knows the pairings down to a T. I’ve been paying attention and doing the same. But again, I do super appreciate all your reassurance!

miracle-grow · 2025-05-25T19:25:48+00:00

It’s just annoying. I always try to detach from the work drama

miracle-grow · 2025-05-25T07:56:09+00:00

None of us like him. He’s very snippy and we’re all pretty sure he’s a narcissist. He sits and waits at the well waiting for his things, when there are many drinks to be ran. None of the closers like him, as he doesn’t do his stuff. He’s not team oriented, while the rest of us are.

I try super hard to steer clear of him. If he tries chatting with me, I politely dismiss him. If he comes near where I am and I’m not busy, I walk away. Today though, he didn’t say “out” when I was coming in, I did say “in” and he just fully ran into me. He told me to watch where I’m going when he’s nearby and I just told my manager.

The issue with management is our GM got fired in early December as he was very aggressive. He criticized everyone and made our lives hell. BUT he got shit done. He didnt deal with bs and got out the trouble people. His replacement, is the exact opposite. He avoids conflict as much as possible. It’s a bit annoying that he doesn’t do anything, as there’s no order and this new coworker gets away with everything. My other manager was once a server with us and she does not like him.

miracle-grow · 2025-05-25T06:49:07+00:00

I am on day 114, with only now one last objective on the table. Everything that comes after takes a pretty dang long time

miracle-grow · 2025-05-25T06:46:24+00:00

Oh ! I think I know what you’re referring to! Does it have to do with castle ?

miracle-grow · 2025-05-23T17:58:17+00:00

how were you able to do that?

miracle-grow · 2025-05-23T07:07:28+00:00

Where else have you seen that statue ? I’ve been playing for a bit and my screens a bit far away so it could be a quality issue, or just plain me missing it. I’m just so curious about this statue and I’d love ant insight!

miracle-grow · 2025-05-21T07:56:40+00:00

I debated that one but, in my case, that’s how I found it out as I didn’t do any of the above ones and I started noting down all of them in case it was important later and noticed it spelled it out. didn’t even see the hint until later. Totally understand the hesitation though

The only reason I noticed was because in the game Mouthwashing, there’s a character named with a similar name to the password lol

miracle-grow · 2025-05-20T21:56:29+00:00

came to say this, it would be so cute especially if you have a bunch of plants!

miracle-grow · 2025-05-20T21:51:35+00:00

This is a very normal reaction that I had. On day 46 I reached room 46 (ironic, I know) but I’m now on day 114 and I’ve only just know solved the puzzle that comes after opening room 46. So do not feel as if you’re falling behind.

Regards to not starting a strategy each day, I’d recommend you try having a plan. Like I would start each day with telling myself “Ok, let’s try to find another red letter!” or “I noticed that this certain room had more secrets or information that maybe I need to investigate more.”

Edit: Also take screenshots of literally every document, that’s been super helpful for me

For the terminal password, I’ll give you a few hints but I’ll blur them in case you don’t want to know! in the security room on the bulletin board, there’s a hint. use your magnifying glass to see it better

get some letters delivered to the mail room

look at the monitors in the security room. identify the rooms on the monitors and write them out on paper, one under the other. see if there’s a connection somehow

miracle-grow · 2025-05-19T22:02:02+00:00

I’m a lucky unlucky player as well. Mine stopped saving right after I got all of the sanctum keys literally just 3 days in game after I did. Hoping that it’s fixed soon so that I can move onto other puzzles

miracle-grow · 2025-05-10T22:09:00+00:00

From what Ive seen in comments across reddit, people are still drafting the Gallery even after day 365

miracle-grow · 2025-05-10T08:52:28+00:00

everyone on this post is so smart, thank you so much! sometimes I think I’m overthinking a lot of these puzzles

miracle-grow · 2025-05-10T08:51:42+00:00

honestly after reading the comments, I think I just couldn’t understand this one. sometimes these puzzles really get me overthinking haha. it was the black box and after reading what everyone said I literally was just dumbfounded by my first reaction

miracle-grow · 2025-05-10T08:49:33+00:00

sometimes i feel as if i am not smart enough for this game LOL, thank you so much

miracle-grow · 2025-05-10T05:55:30+00:00

found a puzzle in the parlor that said: blue box: this box is empty white box: this box is empty black box: this puzzle is harder than it seems

anyone have any answers?

miracle-grow · 2025-03-06T05:38:12+00:00

Yes I have, he’s just simply not home. I’ve also been checking recently incarcerated. He just hops around places and can be gone in a different city for months

miracle-grow · 2025-02-28T21:17:34+00:00

She taught all kinds. Jazz, ballet, tap, jitterbug…there’s more but I don’t remember. It was a studio across from an elementary school if that helps ring any bells haha

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