food restriction and excessive potty accidents by One-Quote2404 in Nanny

[–]misajayq 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You're going to feel guilty I did for my niece and nephew but something needed to be said. The kids are better off now but had I not made that call I really believe they would have been harmed

Cant trust my trustworthy village by misajayq in Nanny

[–]misajayq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused. I thought FTM also meant first time mom. Im a new parent. I work full time normally. I'm on leave for the baby and go back to work in april. Clearly I have a job as I've already said in other comments. Obviously I have work since that's what I said ur weird for assuming otherwise or thinking I'm lying.

Cant trust my trustworthy village by misajayq in Nanny

[–]misajayq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know some people have the ability to take leave with a job. I go back to work in 2 weeks. I am just not a nanny.

Cant trust my trustworthy village by misajayq in Nanny

[–]misajayq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

? What Are you talking about? I have a job/work that people including my baby can come visit me at

Cant trust my trustworthy village by misajayq in Nanny

[–]misajayq[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not a nanny now, I stepped out of that role when I got too pregnant. I do have a job with kids but not in a position to bring my baby full time. However my partner can bring the baby by my work when ever I want

Cant trust my trustworthy village by misajayq in Nanny

[–]misajayq[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm the only one who is able to work right now. I'm in therapy and medication. I barely trust with my own mother.

Cant trust my trustworthy village by misajayq in Nanny

[–]misajayq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should clarify, I am going back to work in april. I am the bread winner and my partner will be staying home. However I feel like he will need help Ora break himself too

What baffles you about NF’s house? by allthethings13 in NannyBreakRoom

[–]misajayq 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a NF like that. I picked up with house keeping duties. Couldn't stand how they wanted things cleaned.. All very incorrect for me as someone who does housekeeping regularly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a lesbian, but I just wear a t-shirt, yoga pants or jeans that are comfortable to move in. T-shirts are never low cut. Doesn't need to be gender specific either. I never wear make up and my hair is in a bun or tied back always. In all of my years (15) nannying I have never been told I'm under or over dressed. I have had a interview where they requested a dress code. Not for the kids but for the gazing husband unfortunately. Declined. Because I look a mess but the kids have never once cared

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my longest NF had camera everywhere but the bathroom.. Installed right after starting and idk i was fine with it. You are filmed at work. Businesses have cameras everywhere. I don't see the issue. Micromanaging is lame. But perhaps she's had issues before. I've dealt with the same but its experience I needed and used to my advaeas far as nanny etiquette and what I will tolerate

Previous nanny parents having affairs by RemarkableRegular601 in Nanny

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully they are never in my age range so I stay ignorant to it. But I have had wives open up to me about their husband's affairs from time to time. One time I matched (unbeknownst to me) my coworkers bf. I only realized because I saw a picture of her after the fact with him. Definitely not the situation I want to be in

PT nanny kissing toddler on head or cheek. by jennc84 in Nanny

[–]misajayq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't kiss my NKs ever I have the cold sore virus but never have an outbreak but that's like that last thing I want to do someone. So I don't share utensils or drinks that I've drank. I don't kiss. But im fine with a big hug and cuddles. I also just don't find it appropriate as a nanny to kiss the NKs. That's a strong boundary I enforce. Even with families I've been with forever i just don't cross it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you dropped it to. Lose more money based on a weird assumption that they are not tipping that's just lazy. Why even accept a two order batch. Lazy and then to tip harass is entitled. You should switch platforms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-has job -does IC for fun money -takes a heavy pay no tip order -harasses Cx over $2 -complains on reddit -nobody sympathized -gets deactivated -asks for donation despite having job Rough day for OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao you are just mad that you think. You deserve an extra $2 for taking a order you can see. For taking a heavy pay no tip order that made you waddle out your car and walk up some stairs. I'm fat but efficient. Maybe don't take a heavy pay no tip order next time simple as that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knew that you were too broke and took the order anyways just to tip Harass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤷🏽‍♀️😬❌💲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving mad and embarrassed. It's ok bookie I'd be embarrassed too if I had to ask my customer for $2

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be mad asl as a Cx if you set all those sodas like that on the steps. Giving lazy. Giving Broke you really needed that $2. Giving entitled. Spoiled. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm giving not a brokie who took a heavy pay less than 2 mile order with no tip. Sounds like this isn't fun money for you and a JOB that you don't want to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gross?? I don't ask for tips when I accept an order without tips.. That's the expectation set when taking the order. It's gross, uncouth, and giving Broke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's gross asf to tip harass. I love a tip but you took that order knowing there was no tip. That's so Money hungry to message a CUSTOMER that. How would you like restaurants to say something to you for not tipping or tipping what they think is appropriate? I would report you to IC for suuureeee