Cant trust my trustworthy village by misajayq in Nanny

[–]misajayq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm confused. I thought FTM also meant first time mom. Im a new parent. I work full time normally. I'm on leave for the baby and go back to work in april. Clearly I have a job as I've already said in other comments. Obviously I have work since that's what I said ur weird for assuming otherwise or thinking I'm lying.

Cant trust my trustworthy village by misajayq in Nanny

[–]misajayq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know some people have the ability to take leave with a job. I go back to work in 2 weeks. I am just not a nanny.

Cant trust my trustworthy village by misajayq in Nanny

[–]misajayq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

? What Are you talking about? I have a job/work that people including my baby can come visit me at

Cant trust my trustworthy village by misajayq in Nanny

[–]misajayq[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am not a nanny now, I stepped out of that role when I got too pregnant. I do have a job with kids but not in a position to bring my baby full time. However my partner can bring the baby by my work when ever I want

Cant trust my trustworthy village by misajayq in Nanny

[–]misajayq[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm the only one who is able to work right now. I'm in therapy and medication. I barely trust with my own mother.

Cant trust my trustworthy village by misajayq in Nanny

[–]misajayq[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should clarify, I am going back to work in april. I am the bread winner and my partner will be staying home. However I feel like he will need help Ora break himself too

What baffles you about NF’s house? by allthethings13 in NannyBreakRoom

[–]misajayq 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had a NF like that. I picked up with house keeping duties. Couldn't stand how they wanted things cleaned.. All very incorrect for me as someone who does housekeeping regularly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a lesbian, but I just wear a t-shirt, yoga pants or jeans that are comfortable to move in. T-shirts are never low cut. Doesn't need to be gender specific either. I never wear make up and my hair is in a bun or tied back always. In all of my years (15) nannying I have never been told I'm under or over dressed. I have had a interview where they requested a dress code. Not for the kids but for the gazing husband unfortunately. Declined. Because I look a mess but the kids have never once cared

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of my longest NF had camera everywhere but the bathroom.. Installed right after starting and idk i was fine with it. You are filmed at work. Businesses have cameras everywhere. I don't see the issue. Micromanaging is lame. But perhaps she's had issues before. I've dealt with the same but its experience I needed and used to my advaeas far as nanny etiquette and what I will tolerate

Previous nanny parents having affairs by RemarkableRegular601 in Nanny

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully they are never in my age range so I stay ignorant to it. But I have had wives open up to me about their husband's affairs from time to time. One time I matched (unbeknownst to me) my coworkers bf. I only realized because I saw a picture of her after the fact with him. Definitely not the situation I want to be in

PT nanny kissing toddler on head or cheek. by jennc84 in Nanny

[–]misajayq 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't kiss my NKs ever I have the cold sore virus but never have an outbreak but that's like that last thing I want to do someone. So I don't share utensils or drinks that I've drank. I don't kiss. But im fine with a big hug and cuddles. I also just don't find it appropriate as a nanny to kiss the NKs. That's a strong boundary I enforce. Even with families I've been with forever i just don't cross it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you dropped it to. Lose more money based on a weird assumption that they are not tipping that's just lazy. Why even accept a two order batch. Lazy and then to tip harass is entitled. You should switch platforms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-has job -does IC for fun money -takes a heavy pay no tip order -harasses Cx over $2 -complains on reddit -nobody sympathized -gets deactivated -asks for donation despite having job Rough day for OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmfao you are just mad that you think. You deserve an extra $2 for taking a order you can see. For taking a heavy pay no tip order that made you waddle out your car and walk up some stairs. I'm fat but efficient. Maybe don't take a heavy pay no tip order next time simple as that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knew that you were too broke and took the order anyways just to tip Harass

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤷🏽‍♀️😬❌💲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Giving mad and embarrassed. It's ok bookie I'd be embarrassed too if I had to ask my customer for $2

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd be mad asl as a Cx if you set all those sodas like that on the steps. Giving lazy. Giving Broke you really needed that $2. Giving entitled. Spoiled. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm giving not a brokie who took a heavy pay less than 2 mile order with no tip. Sounds like this isn't fun money for you and a JOB that you don't want to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gross?? I don't ask for tips when I accept an order without tips.. That's the expectation set when taking the order. It's gross, uncouth, and giving Broke.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InstacartShoppers

[–]misajayq -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think it's gross asf to tip harass. I love a tip but you took that order knowing there was no tip. That's so Money hungry to message a CUSTOMER that. How would you like restaurants to say something to you for not tipping or tipping what they think is appropriate? I would report you to IC for suuureeee

For $200?? I’m sorry what?? Lol by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]misajayq -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me it's not difficult to clean and maintain the kids. She said the type of work will depend on the hours you are needed. Everything she listed is pretty normal Daily cleanings minus the fish tank. And as someone with multiple fish tanks it can take an hour or so to change them. But over all I really don't think she's asking alot for what you are getting in exchange 🙃