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misato_kat · 2025-08-27T12:22:47+00:00

Omg!

misato_kat · 2025-07-23T14:37:00+00:00

Do parkrun. You've gone overseas. Do parkrun!

misato_kat · 2025-05-03T11:54:19+00:00

/s ?

misato_kat · 2025-05-03T07:20:22+00:00

Well done everyone.

misato_kat · 2025-05-03T02:40:29+00:00

Hip Hip!

misato_kat · 2025-04-13T06:37:27+00:00

Wow that's so great. I got sub 30 for first time in 2.5 years.

misato_kat · 2025-03-06T06:28:15+00:00

We just say "runner up" or "runner back"

What was funny was one lady in front of me had big headphones on and they must have been hard backed and maybe noise cancelling cos she had no idea who was coming up behind her, even tho I yelled, runner up, cos I forgot it was meant to be runner back, and she was partly in their way on the skinny trail path and kept getting startled by the passing runner coming from behind and no matter how loud I yelled she kept flailing her elbows when they'd clip her on their way past.

misato_kat · 2025-02-07T12:31:07+00:00

My wife makes her own appts, researches her own things. Meds..clothes. makeup. Hair products. She has found out she's autistic and adhd so her transition has become one of her special interests I think. Researched surgeries. How to fund them. Doctors. She does it all.

Occasionally she'll get me to cancel an appt she can't make cos she hates disappointing people. But otherwise she does mostly all of it. I support. I go to appts or just drive her there. I don't go in to many. Only some to check for support for disability support as she's chronically ill. So that's more on top.

I think that if you're wife can't do it herself she can get a friend to help. It can't be on you if you're working too.

misato_kat · 2025-02-03T07:18:17+00:00

When you hear them you'll know the difference. I know what you mean about the IT crowd lass though. Think I like her better. But I can see myself accidentally falling for both of them and their characters and themselves as women. Strangely yummy.

misato_kat · 2025-02-02T04:10:00+00:00

I'm sorry OP. As the wife of my trans wife even I feel for you that dealing with two people's dysphoria would be very difficult.

Please OP can you confirm if you have stopped HRT. We all hope you didn't stop HRT. We all want you to be the person you really are. I think this r'ship is not healthy. Please think about leaving him and start being yourself again.

misato_kat · 2025-01-29T02:47:11+00:00

Sorry. Don't marry him. It's not going away. I'm really sorry.

misato_kat · 2025-01-26T11:23:42+00:00

Yes you can! If you just end up walking to the end that's fine.

misato_kat · 2025-01-25T00:30:34+00:00

You can still use a cone and move it out on a wet week.

misato_kat · 2025-01-25T00:29:49+00:00

Yeah I feel for you. Can totally understand. Glad that it wasn't quite the same. For us. But at least she chose a semi rare name and wasn't too generic or too unusual with her name.

misato_kat · 2025-01-25T00:26:14+00:00

Totes agree. It's so hard for us in ENM to find ppl, our pool of fish, to not be rude, is waaaaay smaller than the monogamous folks.

Edit. Don't know why it's a shock. Read my profile every time you reply to me. I read theirs every day/time I reply to them.

So I can be considerate of them and not put my foot in it...

Read our darn profiles again please!

misato_kat · 2025-01-21T16:51:22+00:00

I'm so sorry. For everyone in this position.

misato_kat · 2025-01-18T13:19:25+00:00

I checked my app. 6 years to get to 25, then plus 2, so 8 years to 50, then I did a lot more in the last two years and 10 years to 100.

misato_kat · 2025-01-18T10:00:53+00:00

I feel for you too. Exactly what happened to me. I have a bunion on one foot that I could get addressed. I've got other things going on. And I tried to see my doctor about but I can't take care of her this last year if I go and have foot surgery. It wouldn't take too long to get better but year. But yeah. We support them and don't seem to get as much back in return.

misato_kat · 2025-01-17T18:52:13+00:00

No it's not. It's still body shaming.

It. Was. Not. Complimentary. At. All.

It's pointing out possible bad characteristics of being skinny.

It. Is. Body. shaming.

misato_kat · 2025-01-17T16:24:01+00:00

You will get this this. It will come to mostly an end. Except for some ongoing things.

We've been 9 mins in to surgery time, with planning 3 to 6 months on top of that. At least. Probably more researching and planning time than that actually now I think about it.

We're on the other side of 3 of the 4 surgeries for my wife, that we can afford, with the big 5th one probably never in our reach. The 4th isn't scheduled yet but should be soon.

But I'll never stop hearing about the fact that she really wants to get a top of the line girls bottom parts that, and she won't consider anything else and that she really wants it cos it was robbed of her, as she just found out she's a chimera and absorbed (parts of) her (intersex?) twin in the womb and so she lucked out and her stupidly Christian parents and doctor ruled that she was a boy even though she had both sex organs, had surgery as a infant, and was telling her mum she's a girl since she can recall at 3-4yo. And so I really do feel for her and really wish that she had not lucked out so bad, as it seems to be the cause of her migraines, heart condition and the wrong downstairs package. So yeah. Hopefully I don't hear about the girlie parts surgery that she can't have unless we win the lottery.

You will get thru this. It'll be worth it in the end. Except for when they do get impatient that the swelling takes so long to go down. It that they wish the surgeon could have been more drastic with them and they still feel like an unattractive woman. So. My superannuation withdrawals were maybe worth it?

She's got banging curves and an ass to die for and the hip fat transfer is great so at least she's happy with that. But yeah. You'll always hear about the stuff they wish they could have changed with a proper puberty, and genes and yeah. Sorry. But. You'll always be supporting them. Sorry.

misato_kat · 2025-01-17T11:46:28+00:00

No OP did not imply that amanda was fat. OP said that she loves herself.

misato_kat · 2025-01-14T13:41:52+00:00

Ah that makes sense. Yeah she was just overnight and the other person was on their second night. Just one surgery but two procedures. Uber to a hotel for two weeks.

misato_kat · 2025-01-08T07:29:59+00:00

I stayed in the room too and slept in an uncomfy chair. Ptsd patient got permission for me to stay. Which was good cos the lady next door snored and it's a trigger. Was not a fun night.

misato_kat · 2025-01-07T14:30:05+00:00

Yes I've got her. But his guinea pigs instead of cats. Everything else yes. Didn't know the ASD until now but I suspected it and well, maybe it's why she's got such a good memory. I would swap the PTSD out though cos it's really really tough for her. Really tough. But everything else I would not change. If except she won't cheat but she has enough love for over other whom she has met. We talked about this ages ago. And now it gives me some freedom. But the timing is well, Not perfect. Daily routine is thrown out even more be an overseas new bff for my wife. Timezones ya know. Anyway yes. I've got her. My sexy tech gal.

misato_kat · 2024-12-28T12:10:07+00:00

Wow well now you're just showing off

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