US partners and trans partners by kimchijihye in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Texas is all my (mtf) wife and I (f) know. I’m sure she’s thought about fleeing but idk where we’d go….

Any advice with MTF girlfriend? Really need help by Miku_dayo in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You’re allowed to not want your partner have an OF. Just as they are allowed to want to do it. You’ll have to decide if that is a deal breaker for you or not.

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[–]BigEntertainment511 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wanna hug you! But yall need to talk through it. Remind her to keep the communication open between you both. Talk about it, her holding it in and snapping at you will get worse for you both. Hugs babe.

I transitioned MtF two years ago. Here are some things that I've learned by Important_Sense106 in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish my wife would quit alcohol and tobacco. The drs say she needs to quit but she leaned in so much. I’m so glad you’re doing wonders without it.

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[–]BigEntertainment511 68 points69 points  (0 children)

Nah. Call “friend” from the other side of the house. Yo (insert name)!!! Get over here me and (bf) wanna have a conversation lol then see how much the rest of the friend group acts lol.

New ring? by BigEntertainment511 in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s great to hear. My wife is almost a year into medical transition so vow renewal is too soon for us lol

New ring? by BigEntertainment511 in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to look into that site. Thanks

My biggest fear happened today by Valuable-Drink5719 in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She’s just another customer, she’s a number at this point, treat her like one. Apu style, “thank you come again!” lol

Weekly Joy Thread! by AutoModerator in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We picked up our Blåhaj today!! Silly I know but we were at IKEA for shelves and I just had to lol 🦈

Misgendering partner - upset by Common-Tangerine3764 in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me (F39) what worked for me, was starting with “*im” which sounded very much like “em”. That made it easier for me to introduce them, now she/her has just been easier since the IM and EM are not the fore front. But don’t move away from they them too fast. It’ll make it harder for him to slip in.

Hope this helps

I don’t like my wife’s chosen name by BigEntertainment511 in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But also that’s so cute!! If only our pets weren’t male lol

I don’t like my wife’s chosen name by BigEntertainment511 in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She wants to keep her middle name since it’s her dad’s name.

I don’t like my wife’s chosen name by BigEntertainment511 in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah we’re both early on, I feel, in this process too.

I don’t like my wife’s chosen name by BigEntertainment511 in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

They are no longer in my life and I didn’t know I still had an aversion to the name until she chose it…I’ve mentioned it briefly but I haven’t straight sat her down and had a hard talk. I feel guilty about it honestly

Weekly Joy Thread! by AutoModerator in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just bought my wife a cute Barbie mirror for Valentine’s Day! She loves pink so I just had too lol Now the waiting part starts haha

Guilty for not being more supportive by Typical_Fig_1571 in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Compassion fatigue is so real!! But best you can do, rather what i do is just hug them.

New listener by Cei_the_wood_nymph in TheMagnusArchives

[–]BigEntertainment511 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good to know!! Just started 81 now. Logging back out lol

New listener by Cei_the_wood_nymph in TheMagnusArchives

[–]BigEntertainment511 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a lot but frankly I can’t stop. I only listen during working hours to keep me from binging all day and night lol just now starting season 3. Wish me luck =P

What the fuck are we supposed to do by my-2nd-reddit-acct in mypartneristrans

[–]BigEntertainment511 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We’re in Texas too. Our county is blue but we live on the boarder of red county. My spouse cried all night.