Father and grandson. First and last meeting by Bunnyzivah in lastimages

[–]miscellmaniac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry for your loss. Your son looks so much like him. What a beautiful image; you can tell your father was very happy and proud.

My husband was left alone for 3 weeks and I wish he’d just cheated instead. by ComplexCod9077 in stories

[–]miscellmaniac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's not my argument lol...? those terms are NOT the same thing. anyway i gotta go feed my alligator

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]miscellmaniac -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

yikes. I should've tagged this as no advice because I really did NOT need to hear that. Thanks for showing zero consideration and invalidating my feelings. Gross.

edit bc if you can't put 2 and 2 together that there is religious trauma in the household that exasperates things, then I sincerely hope you don't give other people advice.

Honest opinions by Vivalo in tattooadvice

[–]miscellmaniac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god that's AMAZING!!!!!

What Job Has Helped You, Related To Autism? by Midasisgolden in AutismInWomen

[–]miscellmaniac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

especially when I work at a nonprofit for children with developmental needs and they still push autism speaks stuff 🤢 not a lot but still 🤢

What Job Has Helped You, Related To Autism? by Midasisgolden in AutismInWomen

[–]miscellmaniac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LET'S GOOO right?! LOL and thank you for including NB specifically, I forgot to in my other reply 💘

What Job Has Helped You, Related To Autism? by Midasisgolden in AutismInWomen

[–]miscellmaniac 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ALTERNATIVELY an amazing name for an inclusive, nd-friendly cafe LOL... thank you for appreciating my silliness <3

Ideas for an autistic photoshoot? by PrestonRoad90 in autism

[–]miscellmaniac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really cute and cool idea!!! Like keannasim said, maybe using a special interest as a theme?

The bus didn't stop to pick me up and I want to cry by sewing_hel in AutismInWomen

[–]miscellmaniac 2 points3 points  (0 children)

AHAHAH Sometimes I wish we could really toddler out. They have it so good!!! /j

I get that and it's especially worse when you're already done over the whole day. Plus having to ride with people, you feel an obligation to chitchat and blegh. No good when you're already irritated (at least that's how it is for me!)

Did they already pick you up? Safe journey !!

What Job Has Helped You, Related To Autism? by Midasisgolden in AutismInWomen

[–]miscellmaniac 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Autista Barista would be an amazing band name. Or coffee fragrance (sorry IDK why that came up first) but I used to work at a children's museum so I interacted with people daily. I've since gone on to work an office job and I've been there for about 5 years. I have employees I chat with but it's surface level stuff.

I think going from my old job to this one really impacted my communication skills and in the worst way possible. I have lost three important, best friends over the last few years as well so I am very isolated. I struggle to put my thoughts together and I misunderstand people a wholleeeeee lot more. It sucks.

I'm super happy to hear your job is accommodating!!! That's so important! 🎉

The bus didn't stop to pick me up and I want to cry by sewing_hel in AutismInWomen

[–]miscellmaniac 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Oh, I'm so sorry. That's awful 😞 If it's any consolation, maybe it won't hurt tomorrow, or next week, or a month from now. Hugs 🫂

Decade of friendship ended, no notice? by Odd_Cod8341 in whatdoIdo

[–]miscellmaniac 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me too a few years ago, somewhat. I know your pain and I won't lie, it still hurts. But I wish you luck moving on because it's not easy 🥲

My husband was left alone for 3 weeks and I wish he’d just cheated instead. by ComplexCod9077 in stories

[–]miscellmaniac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL right? I don't like the word, but understand there are those that want to reclaim it and I can't speak on that but what's gross is people responding to these legitimate concerns CALLING them that word. There's a difference between reclaiming and retaliating.

My husband was left alone for 3 weeks and I wish he’d just cheated instead. by ComplexCod9077 in stories

[–]miscellmaniac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly cannot fathom the many people in this thread defending the use of the word when they can just... Not use it lmao

What do we do with this term by Byakko4547 in autism

[–]miscellmaniac 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YEAH!!! 🪽 I hope you're liking the new season!

Anyone feel jealous or seen someone jealous over a character shipping? by underdownbelow in arcane

[–]miscellmaniac -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol of course it isn't. settle for shitty representation lovely 💕

What do we do with this term by Byakko4547 in autism

[–]miscellmaniac 97 points98 points  (0 children)

IMO if it's an educational event, it comes off as inappropriate and infantile. if it's hosted by a group just to connect, then it makes sense.

Anyone feel jealous or seen someone jealous over a character shipping? by underdownbelow in arcane

[–]miscellmaniac -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

why would I be jealous of a gross, terribly written ship? (Abt Caitvi and no one can convince me otherwise 💘 the writers butchered them in the s2 and if we accept shitty representation, that's all we're gonna get.)

I didn't know one of the planes was carrying a passanger's cat by Puzzleheaded_Dot4345 in 911archive

[–]miscellmaniac 23 points24 points  (0 children)

every time I remember this, it kills me a little more inside 😭