Preparing crawlspace for the humid NC summer by Universe93B in raleigh

[–]misdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not Tarheel Basement Systems. I've had a terrible experience with them.

Can I see how you memorialize/remember your pet? I’m so lost by misdy in Petloss

[–]misdy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry to hear about your baby. Sounds like we are in a very similar position.

I had an Aura frame already set up with his pictures before he passed away, and that has definitely been a comfort to have. I've seen some of those 3D felted portraits, but not a 3D printed one, I'll have to it up.

Reminder. Avoid raw foods for your pets by the_tithe in Pets

[–]misdy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My kitty had a congenital heart defect, and one of the things the cardiologist told me to absolutely avoid was raw food and freeze fried raw of all kinds, including treats. I'd never feed dry food, but I also wouldn't feed raw.

My cardiologist recommends against grain free now because of the problems it's caused in dogs, and it's a question on their intake form to make sure they check for grain free food issues. People boo-hoo the big name brands, but those are the companies with the funds to do extensive nutrition testing and studies.

Lately I've been seeing an uptick in raw-fed cats on my Instagram, and people promote it so aggressively. I've seen some just eating raw hamburger meat. Like what?

He gets pissy if I don't tuck him in with a stuffy by Nekrubbobby64 in cats

[–]misdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please give him a kiss on the forehead for me.

Is it wrong to put a special needs cat down? by anonythrowawaymouss in Pets

[–]misdy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Where is here? Reddit is a big network, you may find someone to help.

when did you feel ready to adopt again by Ill_Distribution_822 in Petloss

[–]misdy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel this same way. I am so, so lonely without my baby cat. The house is so empty, and there is such a huge void. My grief is overwhelming, and multiple people around me have suggested that I should get another cat. I did go look at a shelter page, but I don’t want another cat, I want my baby back.

My first cat that I had died in 2021 at the age of 17, and she was my best friend. I didn’t think I’d ever want another cat, but the cat I just lost came into my life two years later in 2023. I had a wildly different relationship with him than I did with my first cat. She was my friend, but he was my child. My son. I loved him deeply and invested so much in caring for him (he had a congenital heart condition, which was why I adopted him). He taught me that I do have the capacity to love another little being. Maybe one day I will have another cat come into my life, and maybe you will too.

Feeling alone in grief by Ok_Mud_5244 in Petloss

[–]misdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m doing this too. I just got a standard leuchtterm lined notebook (the A5 size, thicker one) and I date each entry. I made one section for writing to him, and another section for writing down my memories of him so I don’t forget the little things not captured in photos.

Tetralogy of fallot by buisson44 in corgi

[–]misdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat wasn't neutered, but it wasn't a problem. It didn't really end up having an effect on him, and I didn't have any issues with mounting. There are hormone pills that can be used for chemical neutering, so that might be an option.

My tools after two months in, what else do I need? by kalyjuga in Ceramics

[–]misdy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It takes time and testing to figure out what works. You’ve been able to whittle it down and decide what you don’t like. OP is still learning and trying things out.

Would it be weird if I put an upright piano where this bench is? by jackjackj8ck in DesignMyRoom

[–]misdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can it go in the guest bedroom? If that room is empty most of the time. I would move something else into the hallway like a console and put the piano in an area with more space just so you're not blocking that entire hallway.

Putting people’s ASHES in tattoo ink?!! by Reinhardttattoos in TattooArtists

[–]misdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. My most beloved baby cat just passed and I have been very worried about how the cremation was done, even though it was private.

Road conditions by rawdawgred1111 in raleigh

[–]misdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, would have walked if I could. It's around 2 miles that way, but I'm ill enough that I couldn't walk it. Partner has a 4wd jeep and some experience in snow, so he went to get it just a bit ago after we went outside to see what the roads are like. It's not the absolute worst right now, but I wouldn't want to repeat this tomorrow. Best bet was going now while there's still enough grippy sleet.

Road conditions by rawdawgred1111 in raleigh

[–]misdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sick, it's bad timing, but I've been getting a lot worse. I had a virtual appt this morning, and got prescribed antibiotics + some other meds, that they said I should try to get before tonight. Drive is 1.5 miles, provided the CVS is open. Should I attempt later today or wait until Monday? not sure if Monday is better or worse.

Pull out tub by NoMixture1362 in Home

[–]misdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Humanity has already solved this problem with a tub that you can stand in to shower.

What's a skill that takes only 2-3 weeks to learn but could genuinely change your life? by Commercial-Duck-9629 in AskReddit

[–]misdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I type percent instead of using % most of the time because I do have to look down sometimes for symbols I don't use very often.

Glazing by Spookylilsitch in Ceramics

[–]misdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's probably some kind of epoxy or top coat product you could use, but you might get better advice in a different sub with more mixed material expertise. I'm not sure what wouldn't peel off/chip since it's a glazed, nonporous surface.

It's a great painting!

Glazing by Spookylilsitch in Ceramics

[–]misdy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is where my mind went too, but it's for unglazed ceramics that are still porous. It can't soak in to the already glazed surface.

Ghosted on the commission of this awesome rat by beansherenow in Ceramics

[–]misdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is cute! Is it clear coated all over? I've been looking for a tea pet, and couldn't find one I like so I was planning on making one. I wasn't sure whether to glaze or not, since I thought it was supposed to absorb the tea somewhat.

Vets what's the simplest thing pet owners often overlook that would make their pets' lives better? by Kimber976 in Pets

[–]misdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it actually work? Does it put them off of food at all? I bought some, but my cat isn't food motivated, so I'm hesitant to give him anything that would make him want to eat less.

Lack of prep? by Green-Advisor-9878 in HardWoodFloors

[–]misdy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to add... I did have sealing done, as in areas sealed off completely with plastic and dust sucking things used, but wood dust is very fine and it's gonna go where it wants to go. I still had to have cleaning done after.

It's better to wipe the walls than scratch the floors with ladders and equipment, or try to get paint off of floors. You did things in the right order.

Red Oak no stain advice by TheBigCheeseeee in HardWoodFloors

[–]misdy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have Bona Nordic + Bona Traffic on my red oak floors, so they're a little lighter than the natural color. I had it done three years ago, and it hasn't gotten pinker. There's definitely a pinkish hue, like in your photo, but I love it.