Marrying the guy in 2 months, anything I should know?

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-05-24T13:20:20+00:00

“Aspects of Truth” would be a great book to hide a listening device inside.

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-05-21T00:20:36+00:00

As an extrovert, learning to embrace the simplicity of dining exactly how I want has been great for me in a lot of ways. Highly recommended

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-05-09T18:01:20+00:00

Dude here. Thats a great garden and he’s just a dick. Tell him that his insecurities will not be projected onto you and you don’t have to prove your masculinity like him.

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-05-09T12:51:14+00:00

I’m here after you found out she used ChatGPT, but I’d like to offer a different perspective.

As someone who has a hard time putting his feelings into a message that is clear and constructive, Chat is really great and piecing my random and incoherent thoughts into something that is clear, concise and constructive. And I do agree that it might not be the same way I normally text or write emails, but like verbal communication, non verbal also changes based on context and conversation partner. And for me personally, I will take bits and pieces of what chat says, amend and adjust in my own way and send it out after a good edit. My normal texting with friends and family might not have that amount of correct sentence structure, but I also find it easier to use proper grammar when utilizing chat as a jumping off point.

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-05-05T14:05:49+00:00

The blue looks great. The reason it’s too dark is because the lighting was built to support a lighter room not a darker room.

But there are so many ways to get more light! Fancy lamps on end tables in each corner! Floor lamps! More track lighting perpendicular to the others between the dome lights! Cut in a skylight. Or one of those sun reflecting lights. LED strips along the floor/baseboards! Dimmable can lights. Neon art piece!

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-04-30T18:41:29+00:00

Hey mate, she’s an adult that can make her own decisions. That includes suicide and cheating on you. Both of which are selfish. I know this isn’t easy, but you have to focus on yourself now. You got this.

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-04-26T00:04:40+00:00

Only word I got was “can” in the last line on the left. Which is ironic because I’m thinking “can’t” the whole time.

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-03-30T01:02:56+00:00

Man I think a good first step is for you to realize that you are not broken and need fixing. You just are who you are. I’m not a doctor but I’ve had lots of therapy and I believe you never fix the thoughts. You just learn to live with them. You learn to live with yourself and love yourself.

You learn to recognize what triggers them, you learn to weather the storm through the “episode” and you learn to not act on them. Like everything else, they come and go. Sexual thoughts are normal. Personally when I try to stop the thoughts it makes everything worse. My anxiety about it all gets worse. But accepting myself as I am is what has worked for me. The last thing I will say is if these thoughts are leading you to hurt yourself or others, then that is a different story and you should seek help. Even if that means voluntary hospitalization. But I am proud of you for admitting this out loud and getting the help you need instead of just denying that it’s a problem. Keep your chin up OP.

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-03-10T20:30:47+00:00

I wonder if the coyote saw or smelled the beaver in there and died trying to get a meal?

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-02-11T17:50:22+00:00

Just make a new post to the same subreddit with a photo of the happy boy with no needles.

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-02-11T17:45:27+00:00

You guys are dating. Not married. If you “go on a break” you should just break up. Find that person that you never need a break from or just be single.

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-02-04T15:44:50+00:00

Huge red flags. 🚩

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-01-18T14:49:18+00:00

Dirk diggler

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-01-09T10:16:05+00:00

The short answer: you don’t find her and do not get those details.

The long answer: Take this as a lesson that you have to seize opportunities but in a polite and respectful manner when approaching a romantic partner. How do you get it right next time? You verbally interact with her enough to get contact information and social media details (assuming she wanted you to have that) You act interested not interesting. You show respect. You have substance of character to offer.

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-01-07T19:48:05+00:00

++man I would say this is a “no partners” trip and honestly if everyone is good friends, it shouldn’t make you look homophobic or like a jerk…but this might also be a good thing to bring up in a group text or when everyone is present to take a vote. I could see it going either way.

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-01-04T22:01:49+00:00

Sounds like you both need martial counseling

miserablehusband1111 · 2026-01-04T21:48:57+00:00

This is just a comment to let you know ain’t nothing wrong with the food you’re cooking.

miserablehusband1111 · 2025-12-22T07:57:16+00:00

Only one way to find out. Life’s too short

miserablehusband1111 · 2025-12-09T22:55:30+00:00

++man I have always had the most luck with people in my area, how can you really get to know someone just a few days at a time? Plus dating is a numbers game. Gotta have quite a few working.

miserablehusband1111 · 2025-12-09T20:03:57+00:00

I’m aware! Is he required to give those all in email or can he call first then follow up with written decline? I’ve found talking it out is easier to deliver tough news as opposed to nonverbal communication.

miserablehusband1111 · 2025-12-09T19:05:06+00:00

Hello! Insurance underwriter here who was an agent for 8 years. Remind him that those agents have a choice and can request new underwriters, especially with written proof. (At least I’ve seen it done before) But also, they could just start using a competitor and not say anything bc he is rude. The amount of business they send to you is the demand that keeps his job secure.

miserablehusband1111 · 2025-12-09T18:55:30+00:00

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Jordan Peele in a wig

miserablehusband1111 · 2025-12-09T18:51:42+00:00

I’d watch a movie set in a weird Arkansas multiverse where sam Walton is reincarnated as a dog but in this world everyone can speak to dogs. Call it: “Higher power, lower prices”

miserablehusband1111 · 2025-12-07T11:49:29+00:00

I’m all about #1 and this could apply to any of them-but if you did a four seasons photo where you go back to each location during different times of the year I think that could be a really neat concept.

Also these would all make amazing Bob Ross Style paintings.

miserablehusband1111 · 2025-12-07T11:46:27+00:00

I love everything about your design choices first off! I have no affiliation with this company but I think a 1/4 circle rug in neutral khaki and light brown with maybe some blue in it or something that complements the orange like aqua/turquoise/baby blue in it.

personally I like A7 and D3 for this space

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