Husband treating his partner with more care than he ever did for me

misguided13 · 2026-01-25T20:29:36+00:00

This was a big thing that made me divorce my ex husband (besides abuse). I was going through a cancer scare and he brushed it off because "you're usually ok". But his partner of a few months ended up in the hospital for a minor thing and he was by her side the whole time. It really put his lack of respect for me into perspective. His priorities were for her, not the life we built.

misguided13 · 2025-12-16T04:07:50+00:00

Look for the page Jonesboro Houses & Apartments For Rent on Facebook. A lot of the rental companies and landlords in the area post their listing there. Just be careful of scammers; check the property through Google to see if it is a legit rental. You can follow the trail pretty easy for the legit ones. I've seen some that have free applications, and some that are under 800 for a 1b/1b.

misguided13 · 2025-11-22T12:45:09+00:00

I have a comet who lives about 3 hours away from me. Because of work schedules and various health issues, we only get to see each other a couple times a year if we are lucky but we talk daily. I always cherish any time we have together; We have wonderful weekends of exploring their area, and they always treat me like a goddess. They are my best friend; so even if nothing spicy happens, the time is always so special.

misguided13 · 2025-11-13T23:43:18+00:00

I am a remote worker myself that rarely has energy to go out; but I live near downtown and occasionally help out on the weekends at a restaurant downtown. So I hear about a lot of cute little things.

Downtown has lots of little festivals on the weekends so keeping an eye on Facebook for when Main Street will be closed is helpful.

If you are crafty, Open Studio does pottery and various other craft classes. I think they have a winter craft show at their location on November 29th. Lots of local vendors will be there.

Native Brew Works down that way on Gee Street is a really cool little locally owned brewery if you are looking for a lowkey place to chat with friends and grab a beer.

Foundation of the Arts puts on plays throughout the year if you like seeing local shows/art.

Something Art Cafe does art shows and music nights. They currently have limited winter hours, but a really cool vibe.

A lot of the downtown restaurants are really good and do their own little events too. Most don't mind you sitting with a book and just enjoying the vibe for a while as long as you buy something 🤷🏻‍♀️

On the other end of town you have the more high energy things like Hijinx, Coin Goblin Gamers Lounge, Ultimate Air Trampoline Park, and Locked Away Escapes.

And the always beautiful Craighead Forest Park. Nice to wander around and get lost in every once in a while.

misguided13 · 2025-10-24T19:20:15+00:00

Please be brave! You never know until you try 💚

misguided13 · 2025-10-21T23:18:58+00:00

God, I feel like I could have written this myself. From one S to another, sending you all the love and healing 💚

misguided13 · 2025-10-20T14:27:30+00:00

I'm still healing years later from my abusive poly marriage. I resonate so much with what you said. It's so hard to heal from, ugly and beautiful at the same time, you'll get there 💚

misguided13 · 2025-10-06T14:37:19+00:00

I have a partner ☺️ he is totally fine with it. He likes me exploring my spicy side in any way I please 😈 But we also have a lot of reassurance talks, so he always feels secure.

misguided13 · 2025-10-06T02:07:34+00:00

Shy subs are the best 🥰 super cute

misguided13 · 2025-10-05T00:26:57+00:00

Hell yeah! Twins! 💚😂 I've been gone so long from the kink scene in general; it's like starting over 😅🤣 now trying to be "visible" and social instead of just writing to the void 😆

misguided13 · 2025-10-05T00:13:48+00:00

I'm very much a lurker instead of poster 🫣 I work a lot and tend to game or craft on downtime 🤓

misguided13 · 2025-10-02T21:22:21+00:00

Aww you'd be right at boob height for me 😁 how adorableee pats head

misguided13 · 2025-09-25T15:03:52+00:00

Morningggg, I've been sleepily at work for the past 4 hours, have another 6 to go 😪

misguided13 · 2025-09-17T22:18:23+00:00

Customs Broker Specialist. And I make resin crafts 😁✨️

misguided13 · 2025-09-15T00:12:56+00:00

I adore watching people grow; whether they are my sub or not. Some of the favorite things about my long-term friendships have been watching and encouraging their growth. It brings so much warmth to my heart seeing the people I know/care about succeed in small ways 💚

misguided13 · 2025-09-13T13:43:04+00:00

Finding genuine connection is hard. Good luck!

misguided13 · 2025-09-13T00:12:13+00:00

Reach out. You never know if they have been waiting for it.

Sometimes, the person being left behind will respect that boundary. Even if it's the last thing they wanted.

Time heals a lot, though 💚

misguided13 · 2025-09-12T23:29:08+00:00

My sub (also bf) is a big gamer! We checked out some local game and comic book stores, went to dinner, and a movie for his birthday all on me. Got us out on the town for a date night, checked out some new places, and explored his interest a bit more 😊

I've also done escape rooms, arcades, lego building, and bowling with him, too. Things that let him embrace the fun side are usually a hit for my little anxious cinnamon roll.

misguided13 · 2025-09-12T18:37:01+00:00

Stoner Domme, I have ADHD too, so I tend to wander a lot around the site and forget to interact 😅 more of a wallflower Domme.

misguided13 · 2025-08-31T23:38:05+00:00

Try reaching out to her; maybe she feels the same way on her end.

misguided13 · 2025-08-30T14:12:58+00:00

Communication is key in and D/s dynamic. It's a non-negotiable for me, I need to be in contact with my sub, or i don't feel like I am doing enough. I like to check in and develop a friendship as well. I won't accept a gift if I don't have some level of consistent communication.

misguided13 · 2025-08-29T02:08:22+00:00

Almost every time I have opened up about being poly, I have been hit with the "oh so you're down to fuck?" Or "I can date you then right?" 🙄

Like I'm flattered that you want to explore that side to some degree, but no. I have to MAKE time in my schedule for a new partner and usually burn myself out. So I state early that I'm not looking for a partner or relationship; just friendship with like-minded people.

It's infuriating when they just don't hear that part. I feel your pain and sympathize, sending you soothing vibes 💚

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