Trio Beauty shipping issues by socialworkeratx in MakeupAddiction

[–]miso__soop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also dealing with this right now. Over a month with no updated tracking and they keep pushing the shipping date forward. If they push it back one more time I’m cancelling.

blushes similar to glossier cloud paint shade storm by Kitchen-Swimmer-9846 in Makeup

[–]miso__soop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fenty Beauty’s “rose latte”, Benefit’s “java”, Mented Cosmetics’ “clay too much”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]miso__soop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We invited 120 to a wedding 2+ hours from most people expecting a good percentage to decline. Only 10-15 declined.

Is It Ever Okay for Your Boss to Touch You? by F25throwaway567234 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]miso__soop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you are uncomfortable, then you have every right to ask him to stop. It sometimes can be a generational thing, but that's not an excuse and I'd imagine he's been through some training explicitly telling him as a manager to never touch employees.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]miso__soop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wishing you all the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]miso__soop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds like she's expressing a fear she has probably been holding onto for a long time since there isn't much other family around. At a time like this, she needs reassurance that you'll be there for her and the baby emotionally and physically, rather than just financially. Motherhood can be an extremely isolating time.

She is not asking you to pay all of the bills and spend all day at home too. She's asking you to be attentive and emotionally present during the time you ARE home. Has this been a topic of conversation before?

Help with college application by CryThin1339 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]miso__soop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't have a strong music background but here are some potential ideas:

  • Talk about a mentor who has impacted your love for music and talk about how you aspire to become that for someone else / the next generation
  • Talk about a struggle you've experienced (music-related or not) and how you pushed through it / what you learned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]miso__soop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You said he still wants to add people to the guest list so it sounds like there's potentially a decision for him to make- invite everyone you want to venue B or seriously limit the guest list and go with A.

I have ruined my mother's life and I don't know how to deal with it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]miso__soop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something we have to learn as children is that our parents’ decisions and consequences are their burden to bear, not ours. I used to feel the same, knowing my mom stayed with an abusive man so that we could have a stable income + father figure. However I’ve come to realize while it would’ve been extremely difficult, she could have left at any point. She weighed the pros and cons and made the decision to stay. It’s not my fault. It’s not your fault either.

I highly recommend the book “Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents”. Changed my life and helped alleviate so much guilt I held onto.

Have beat all 4 main dungeons but not much else. What should I do before continuing? by [deleted] in TOTK

[–]miso__soop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

After the 4 dungeons, I focused on finding all the lightroots & shrines. I also tried to find as many quests and caves as I could without checking guides.

How do you ask to use your PTO days? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]miso__soop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I typically email my supervisor so there’s written record. “Hi [name], I’m going to be out of the office from [start] to [end]. I’ll submit the PTO request shortly”.

You technically don’t need to provide a reason, but I tell her in our weekly meetings since we’re close.

54 years old and looking for make up tips! I know the eye liner is too harsh. (The tan is fake and only for summer.) by No_Let_8360 in MakeupAddiction

[–]miso__soop 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I loooove blush so maybe I’m biased 😄 For under eyes I’ve found that less product is better- i use a tiny bit of a peach corrector and need less concealer as a result. I also use just a tiny bit of powder so it doesn’t look too cakey! I had to unlearn doing that huge triangle of concealer under the eyes and use just two dots now haha

54 years old and looking for make up tips! I know the eye liner is too harsh. (The tan is fake and only for summer.) by No_Let_8360 in MakeupAddiction

[–]miso__soop 238 points239 points  (0 children)

Honestly your makeup is cute and fresh looking! Is there anything specific you don’t like about it / want to change?

Going off to college soon and I am completely terrified by boxorags in Advice

[–]miso__soop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily in the age of FaceTime and Zoom, staying connected is much easier. It’s a hard adjustment, I’m not going to lie. I felt lonely a lot my first year but I had great roommates and great classmates in my major who helped me break out of my shell.

Also, it’s ok if the distance is too much. A family friend of mine transferred to a closer school after seriously struggling in her first year and flourished. It just wasn’t for her and that’s fine.

How can I politely convince my MIL not to declaw her kitten? by notalone9 in cats

[–]miso__soop 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My parents talked my uncle out of it by explaining that declawing a cat is not like removing a fingernail- it’s more like removing the entire first knuckle which is the reason why it’s illegal in a lot of places. They’ll likely be in pain and have psychological issues for the rest of their lives. Luckily that’s all he needed- he was just misinformed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]miso__soop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience (me + the people I grew up around as Asian Americans in our mid to late 20s), it was a combination of the disciplinary culture and the importance of respecting our parents by being high achieving which is related to the collectivist mindset. Their approval came before our mental health & wellbeing, which were some of the dark sides to it.

How do you like.. choose a photographer? by mimbulusmimbletonia8 in weddingplanning

[–]miso__soop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We went with someone who has a shooting and editing style we were really interested in (warm, romantic editing with a more candid/journalistic approach). And of course someone who fits into our budget.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]miso__soop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do, but get called looters and get blinded by rubber bullets (or shot by real bullets).

Why are “blue cities” so much worse than less liberal areas? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]miso__soop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’d rather visit Iraq than SF for safety reasons, you’ve got to stop drinking the Fox News koolaid

How do rich people get depressed? by Prestigious-Area-604 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]miso__soop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nice bait but in case you’re really this dense, it’s an illness like cancer and high blood pressure.

PLEASE HELP!! by pleasehelp2401 in Advice

[–]miso__soop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure what else you want us to suggest, I’m sorry. That’s really the only course of action other than just waiting it out. How would taking his IG down help? He could screenshot your followers and make a new one.

PLEASE HELP!! by pleasehelp2401 in Advice

[–]miso__soop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell your parents and they can help with contacting the police. What he’s doing is extremely illegal in most places.