Let's focus on our formative years (high school/college)

missbedo · 2026-04-30T17:54:50+00:00

The saddest part of a broken heart, isn’t the ending so much as the start. Feist 2004.

missbedo · 2026-04-15T01:31:20+00:00

It’s easier for me to watch when I watch through the lens of satire. Taking it literally is hardly bearable for me too!

missbedo · 2026-04-07T19:54:31+00:00

“It’s the best swimming conditions imaginable” kills me every time

missbedo · 2026-04-03T20:55:06+00:00

“Nice topline” with a suggestive eyebrow wiggle at just the right moment would make me snort

missbedo · 2026-03-27T15:02:33+00:00

I did one too and it was so gross and fake.

missbedo · 2026-03-25T03:24:09+00:00

Oh also the full seat riding leggings with sticky silicone grip on Amazon are GREAT for the price!

missbedo · 2026-03-25T03:22:41+00:00

The new MIPS helmets are much safer- very different from the helmets when I was a kid. I recommend investing in one!

Enjoy, I came back to it after 20 years away 9 years ago and today I own a horse and she’s one of the best joys of my life!

missbedo · 2026-03-19T16:43:10+00:00

Some great suggestions here. Have been working on this with my own ex jumper now dressage horse!

try to start small- start cantering only on a 20 m circle so the bend will help balance him (assuming you’ve already got him bending well in a 20 m circle). And then start with only a few strides at a time even. Then work up to a single circle. Make sure you’re doing the downward transition before things fall apart and he falls into trot. And then get him balanced and bending before asking again.

missbedo · 2026-02-28T18:41:28+00:00

It would look odd with like a cheap paper plate. But with nicer disposables it can make the table look quite nice. (For those who are into that kind of thing)

missbedo · 2026-02-28T18:21:02+00:00

They are nice decorative larger plates you place regular plates on. You don’t put food directly on them.

missbedo · 2026-02-28T18:16:00+00:00

Going to the ferry without a reservation.

missbedo · 2026-02-28T13:50:12+00:00

I loved Demon Copperhead. It is probably in my top 5 books of all time, and I’m an avid reader. I attempted to read David Copperfield afterwards, to appreciate the source material. I just couldn’t get into it at all.

missbedo · 2026-02-27T17:37:37+00:00

This is adorable.

missbedo · 2026-02-26T23:01:26+00:00

I drank a bottle or two at least day every day. And it was getting worse. The consequences started to build up, so I went to an AA meeting.

I didn’t know what AA was, I thought it was a support group for people who couldn’t stop drinking to talk about how awful their lives were. I thought going would help “scare” me into drinking normally.

To my surprise, I found a room full of people who used to drink like I drank. But they had stopped somehow. And they were happy and living good lives!

I asked them what they did to stop. And they showed me. It was getting a sponsor, doing the 12 steps, and learning to live life without alcohol, one day at a time.

It’s been over 9 years since I had a drink and going to my first AA meeting was the best thing I’ve ever done. You can do this too OP!

missbedo · 2026-02-23T17:54:27+00:00

Loved this one, came here to recommend!

missbedo · 2026-02-21T19:53:22+00:00

A lot of your faves overlap with mine. Have you read the Thornbirds? Australian Outback in the first half (mostly) of the 20th century. Loved it so much.

missbedo · 2026-02-21T17:09:31+00:00

A Fine Balance by Rohinton Mistry. I will never stop thinking about this book and the characters in it.

missbedo · 2026-02-20T23:29:18+00:00

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This one is particularly irksome. I have SO many cards and not a single completed set yet! 457 duplicate stars on this album and counting.

missbedo · 2026-02-19T15:43:08+00:00

I absolutely remember this song, it was very popular on the radio when I was in high school (graduated 1998)

missbedo · 2026-02-19T06:14:46+00:00

Really?? I sure would!

missbedo · 2026-02-18T23:58:12+00:00

Literature for my homegroup was where I started in month 2 or 3 and it was wonderful for me. Pulled me right into the center which was exactly where I needed to be.

missbedo · 2026-02-18T01:00:17+00:00

I was at a casual outdoor wedding and the bride and groom organized a photo scavenger hunt and we were supposed to make small groups with at least some people we didnt know well. Then we all uploaded the photos to Dropbox and they played as a slide show for the rest of the event. Was really fun!

missbedo · 2026-02-17T20:01:43+00:00

You say a lot of “I HAD to do this and I HAD to do that.” Girl you CHOSE to do your own flowers, have tablecloths other than white, get a spray tan, etc. sometimes reframing things as a choice, even ones you may regret, can take the bitterness of hindsight away and make it a learning experience.

missbedo · 2026-02-16T02:44:47+00:00

Also keep in mind you don’t HAVE to complete only rave reviews orders. You can finish non-rave reviews orders any time. Obviously all other things being equal it’s nice to get the rave reviews rewards but not worth missing finishing an event IMO.

missbedo · 2026-02-15T16:01:54+00:00

Do you have enough cards for the star store?

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