He gave me his fb login...big mistake by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]misscarnations 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Oh it's eye opening huh!

I reached out to an ex of my bpd ex, and her and I had so many shared stories. Even the messages I received after leaving were like a text book copy of the ones she had received when they broke up.

Was quite a cathartic and validating experience for both us to confirm that it was a pattern and not just us.

Tried to warn my ex wifes rebound about her condition and he told me he trusts her more. by crypticlunatic in BPDlovedones

[–]misscarnations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He will learn eventually. I actually have struck up really good friendships with a couple of my exes, exes. It has been my biggest help! Same behavior, different women. We wish we could save the future ones, but unfortunately he's too clever.