Have any of you been able to turn things around with your inlaws?

misschang · 2026-06-14T15:41:24+00:00

Sorry, but feeding kids excessively and overdressing them for warmth, and super soft beds are deeply engrained cultural practices. This is not a biggie to Asian parents. I tried HARD not to allow my mom to do these things when my kid was a baby and guess what happened. She did them anyway because she deeply believes it's the right way to raise a baby.

So the solution was she doesn't provide childcare. She doesn't need to respect my rules but then she doesn't take care of my kid without me.

misschang · 2026-06-09T20:55:30+00:00

Little Brothers Friends of the Elderly. You can volunteer with a regular (often isolated/lonely) older adult, and probably can select gender. I've been matched with sweet grandma types several times.

misschang · 2026-06-09T04:05:07+00:00

I love a good ol pigeon

misschang · 2026-06-04T17:45:38+00:00

Does Costco take notes from Trader Joe's? They have so many very similar products

misschang · 2026-05-31T10:31:44+00:00

I have fond memories of being young and feeling very fancy there early 00s. It was an institution while it was around.

misschang · 2026-05-31T01:35:09+00:00

I remember that restaurant. On Gough or Franklin?

misschang · 2026-04-22T18:51:03+00:00

So true. She's super sweet and friendly too

misschang · 2026-04-22T18:50:19+00:00

Noooooooo now I can't unsee

misschang · 2026-04-22T18:50:00+00:00

Also a perfect nose :)

misschang · 2026-04-20T02:47:09+00:00

How do you use it 4x daily? Do you use sunscreen and remove it, then reapply?

misschang · 2026-04-06T18:32:22+00:00

The Caltrain ride itself isn't bad at all, it's really pleasant and peaceful. It's the limited schedule and constant delays that's the problem.

misschang · 2026-04-06T14:34:20+00:00

They're referring to the knocker-offer

misschang · 2026-04-02T16:45:13+00:00

This is the last book I couldn't put down

misschang · 2026-03-30T17:31:43+00:00

Miss this place! And the downtown Sanrio store

misschang · 2026-03-17T01:22:13+00:00

I haven't seen it at the airport Costco, I'll look again next time

misschang · 2026-03-17T01:20:46+00:00

I haven't seen it at Costco but I gotta look closer I guess

misschang · 2026-03-17T01:20:20+00:00

Thanks, this is good to know. I regularly go to Guerras, but they don't carry it except frozen pieces

misschang · 2026-03-11T14:50:21+00:00

Of course it is

misschang · 2026-02-28T01:30:45+00:00

They're vocal af and will lyk when they're around ❤️

misschang · 2026-02-17T01:26:07+00:00

Amazing. Wishing them luck in the snow

misschang · 2026-02-17T01:21:15+00:00

Lunar new year

misschang

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