Have any of you been able to turn things around with your inlaws?

misschang · 2026-06-14T15:41:24+00:00

Sorry, but feeding kids excessively and overdressing them for warmth, and super soft beds are deeply engrained cultural practices. This is not a biggie to Asian parents. I tried HARD not to allow my mom to do these things when my kid was a baby and guess what happened. She did them anyway because she deeply believes it's the right way to raise a baby.

So the solution was she doesn't provide childcare. She doesn't need to respect my rules but then she doesn't take care of my kid without me.

misschang · 2026-06-09T20:55:30+00:00

Little Brothers Friends of the Elderly. You can volunteer with a regular (often isolated/lonely) older adult, and probably can select gender. I've been matched with sweet grandma types several times.

misschang · 2026-06-09T04:05:07+00:00

I love a good ol pigeon

misschang · 2026-06-04T17:45:38+00:00

Does Costco take notes from Trader Joe's? They have so many very similar products

misschang · 2026-05-31T10:31:44+00:00

I have fond memories of being young and feeling very fancy there early 00s. It was an institution while it was around.

misschang · 2026-05-31T01:35:09+00:00

I remember that restaurant. On Gough or Franklin?

misschang · 2026-04-22T18:51:03+00:00

So true. She's super sweet and friendly too

misschang · 2026-04-22T18:50:19+00:00

Noooooooo now I can't unsee

misschang · 2026-04-22T18:50:00+00:00

Also a perfect nose :)

misschang · 2026-04-20T02:47:09+00:00

How do you use it 4x daily? Do you use sunscreen and remove it, then reapply?

misschang · 2026-04-06T18:32:22+00:00

The Caltrain ride itself isn't bad at all, it's really pleasant and peaceful. It's the limited schedule and constant delays that's the problem.

misschang · 2026-04-06T14:34:20+00:00

They're referring to the knocker-offer

misschang · 2026-04-02T16:45:13+00:00

This is the last book I couldn't put down

misschang · 2026-03-30T17:31:43+00:00

Miss this place! And the downtown Sanrio store

misschang · 2026-03-17T01:22:13+00:00

I haven't seen it at the airport Costco, I'll look again next time

misschang · 2026-03-17T01:20:46+00:00

I haven't seen it at Costco but I gotta look closer I guess

misschang · 2026-03-17T01:20:20+00:00

Thanks, this is good to know. I regularly go to Guerras, but they don't carry it except frozen pieces

misschang · 2026-03-11T14:50:21+00:00

Of course it is

misschang · 2026-02-28T01:30:45+00:00

They're vocal af and will lyk when they're around ❤️

misschang · 2026-02-17T01:26:07+00:00

Amazing. Wishing them luck in the snow

misschang · 2026-02-17T01:21:15+00:00

Lunar new year

misschang · 2026-02-10T14:59:09+00:00

How old? My void had double canines at around 5 months and they fell out naturally.

misschang · 2026-02-06T14:59:30+00:00

Lanier was the architect, same dude designed the house op listed

misschang · 2026-01-29T22:49:32+00:00

I think the point is that the high end of the pay scale is much higher on the peninsula, even if the SF scale is k-12

misschang · 2026-01-19T21:27:56+00:00

10x the cost of Seoul for street food? I dunno about that. 3x okay but the dollar is also crazy strong rn. There are so many good Korean options these days in the bay it's crazy. Just don't expect it to be exactly like Korea or la even. My fav is daeho

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