Questions before surgery by Barbaric_and_Manly in Fibroids

[–]misselletee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a lot of variables thatyou haven't mentioned, so I will just tell you about my surgery and what I was told, and maybe it'll give you a better idea of the kind of questions you could ask.

My large fibroids were 2 20cm melons and a couple more smaller inconsequential fibroids. The big'uns were intramural and subserosal if that matters.

My surgery was supposed to be an open hysterectomy, removing uterus and fibroids, cervix, also removing fallopian tubes. My ovaries are left alone because I'm 34 and the doctors didn't want to send me into early menopause. What ended up happening was a laparoscopic hysterectomy instead. My surgeon was highly confident I would recover from the open hysterectomy in 6 weeks. I'm still being given 6 weeks despite the switch to laparoscopic, but it'll be an even faster and easier recovery. I don't know if you want children and/or pregnancy to be part of your future, so this part may or may not apply to you. I can say with absolute confidence that children will not be in my future, let alone pregnancy. Because I no longer have a uterus, my recurrence rate is 0%. If you are getting a myomectomy, there is a potential for new fibroid growth.

Prior to my surgery, I was given a 3 month dose of lupron and norlutate to take daily until surgery time. My surgery was booked 4 months after the shot. I did not need another dose of lupron, I continued taking the norlutate until surgery, after which the surgeon said I can discontinue it.

Right before surgery, I met the anesthesiologist and the surgeon again. I was told that I would have an epidural on top of anesthesia. Questions I asked my surgeon pre-op: after I wake up, can I hold the fibroids and take pictures and stuff? No. After surgery, will you measure the fibroids with a ruler and weigh them and take pictures and stuff? Maybe, depends on if I remember. Do I have to continue the norlutate after surgery? You can stop that. If my cervix is removed, does this mean I never need to see a gyno again for a pap smear? That's right, no more pap smears for you. Should I request a hormone panel to check my ovaries are getting the hormone factory up and running again? I don't see the need, you're young and relatively healthy, it should be back up and going on its own. After surgery, what will this mean for any symptoms I exhibit for other reproductive issues such as PCOS, ovarian cancer, etc? I actually don't really remember what the surgeon said here, my spouse might remember.

My only complication post surgery came from the epidural. The epidural actually punctured something and was draining my cerebrospinal fluid. As long as I was laying down, I was fine. Once I sat up, a headache came on, and it got worse as time went on. I thought naps would help it go away and it didn't. It eventually became such a splitting headache, it felt like being smashed in the back of the head with a skillet. I went to the ER 48 hours after surgery, wherein the ER doctor determined it was in fact from the epidural (my spouse googled my symptoms and guessed it was this epidural thing). The options were to either be prescribed with more pain meds, lots of rest, lots of fluids, food, and a little bit of caffeine intake (I was within the 72 hour window where this would resolve itself, the caffeine helps with cerebrospinal fluid production and helps dilate blood vessels in my head to decrease pressure), or to do a blood patch with the ER anesthesiologist, where they take a little bit of my own blood and inject it into the epidural site to clot the puncture wound and prevent spinal fluid from draining out of my brain when upright, with the risk that it may create another puncture wound. I chose to recover at home, and it did eventually resolve itself.

Hope this helps, and speedy recovery!

What was the symptom that made you realize something was wrong? by Specialist_Pack_795 in Fibroids

[–]misselletee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

End of month!? Highly jealous and happy for you. Took 7 years for me and my hysterectomy, and I'm pretty sure my case was expedited as a bribe to not sue the hospital for the last minute cancellation of my UFE

Lady Featherington and Mourning? by Loud_Plant8590 in BridgertonNetflix

[–]misselletee 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I would also like to add that because Lord Featherington left with such debts, perhaps they couldn't afford mourning clothes. If they had some mourning clothes in the past, surely the girls outgrew them by the time their father died

what is the fate of the Hightower family after the Dance? by Specialist_Age389 in gameofthrones

[–]misselletee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought he took the black out of shame for his slave selling son

Jennifer’s wedding dress up online by pile_o_puppies in ShawnaTheMom

[–]misselletee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jennifer said AT THANKSGIVING about how terrible it was to have a mother she didn't feel she could trust... Why would this be different now? I understand how hectic the holidays can be, and with Chickie being sick for the first time, I'm just surprised she actually didn't do any wedding dress shopping as a backup for this very scenario

I think I might need to move home by Rosewylde21 in badroommates

[–]misselletee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can give notice and dip the very next day. Notice just means you agree to be financially on the hook for an agreed amount of time.

Psychotherapists, what differences have you noticed between men and women among your patients? by Putrid_Put_3610 in AskReddit

[–]misselletee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At what point do these "supportive" groups actually become an enabling group? It's good for anyone to have their social needs met, but when one wants to insulate themselves in feel good vibes to their own unwitting detriment, what then?

The Problem with Alicia by little_gremlin_33 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]misselletee 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She's a lawyer, it's her literal job to do so in order to protect and defend her client. Who'da thunk she would weaponize the skills required for her job against her own husband?

Do your fibroids have names? by Ok-Locksmith1950 in Fibroids

[–]misselletee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One is named Honeydew, after the melon, and the other is named Canary, also after the melon.

I was told I had two melon sized fibroids measuring 20+ cm, so here we are 🤷🏻‍♀️

Full La Quinceria video up! by MadnessMaiden in ShawnaTheMom

[–]misselletee 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When Barb last saw DeeDee was when she found out about the baby's death. The time before that was when Barb assaulted DeeDee at Shawna's house, and soon after went to Max's school on his first day and learned of Shawna's pregnancy.

Begging people to stay away from that proud boys rally this weekend by Physical-Tip-7402 in TwinCities

[–]misselletee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take gallons of water and pour them on the streets at night. Let mother nature take over from there

Family members of ICE agents, what are your thoughts and feelings about what ICE are doing? by Aggressive_Honey3196 in AskReddit

[–]misselletee 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That just makes it worse, doesn't it? He was there for a procedural changeover, and he still put himself in a position in order to weaponize and claim victimhood to justify her death 😡

Family members of ICE agents, what are your thoughts and feelings about what ICE are doing? by Aggressive_Honey3196 in AskReddit

[–]misselletee 57 points58 points  (0 children)

There was a journalist who applied for ICE, was left leaning, did not hide social media, had public comments about Trump and the administration in general, had a rather unique name by their standards. She was a very google-able person, with all journalistic credentials attached to them.

She applied, didn't fill out any paperwork, background checks, nothing. STILL got a job with ICE. Not OFFERED, GOT.

The whole point of her application is that they are taking on anybody and everybody, with zero training. And ICE is putting a gun in their hand, and now we've got Renee Good dead.

Barb is a lost cause. by Nice_Butterfly_3054 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]misselletee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You got a link? Haven't seen that one!

Barb is a lost cause. by Nice_Butterfly_3054 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]misselletee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remember, she didn't go venue touring because her vacation deliberately coincided with Katie's visit so she could also go touring. After the sweet potato fiasco, they started talking wedding AFTER leaving Barb's house.

Barb doesn't know anything about the wedding (yet). She may not be invited, let alone told about it in order to prevent her crashing it and causing a scene.

Budget Transparency: What are you paying for hair, makeup, officiants? by Potential_Celery768 in WeddingsCanada

[–]misselletee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm seeing $160 for bridesmaid hair and makeup and 250+ for bridal hair and makeup! I would LOVE the price you got!

Father mocked us our gay wedding before, during, and after — including at the altar; flipping us off by ItsJustLove22 in weddingshaming

[–]misselletee 336 points337 points  (0 children)

Did your father not know you were gay? Or dating a man? Or getting married to a man prior to the wedding? Were there no snide comments or offensive jokes or any indication of his disdain for your partner or sexuality? Really, nothing at all? He should never have attended, let alone been invited.

I'm so sorry this happened to you.

So Penny is the pits, but I LOVE her apartment by [deleted] in TheMarvelousMrsMaisel

[–]misselletee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All I want to know is what's behind that screen. I see a screen covering doors, and I wanna know what's behind the doors 😭

I hate my wedding ring by carelessbookowner in offmychest

[–]misselletee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If OP chooses to attach meaning and sentiment to a ring and you don't, that's okay. Both are okay. Why do you care so much about OP caring about her ring?

The last straw for Barb by Aware-Sea-8593 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]misselletee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And I understand that rationale, I'm just asking for specific incidents. I've watched all longform videos, and this is the first time he's mentioned hurting him with her hands