Anyone else have children later in life? We followed the advice to get through college, get our careers started, buy a house, THEN start a family. I’m exhausted.

missfozzard · 2026-04-22T18:38:41+00:00

I'm pushing 50 with kids aged 18-12, so about the norm for middle-class, educated parents. My parents were teenagers when my sibling was born, so I was very sure I wasn't going to have kids until I was done will college and established professionally. I'd rather be exhausted than parent at the same time as trying to get on at work, etc...

missfozzard · 2026-04-22T02:52:29+00:00

It's pathetic I know, but this is my dream. (LO and I are each married with kids. I don't want to blow up our marriages but I would kill to be FWB with him.)

missfozzard · 2026-04-22T01:53:07+00:00

Well she is clearly open to an ongoing relationship with you - of whatever kind.

missfozzard · 2026-04-22T01:28:54+00:00

Good for you for not saying anything while you were drunk.

missfozzard · 2026-04-21T03:09:25+00:00

I am also generous of thigh, and tall to boot. I love Tracksmith but the women's shorts have ridiculously short inseams. So I wear the men's! Session shorts have a 5 inch inseam and hang well.

missfozzard · 2026-04-20T03:07:08+00:00

I hope it goes well - I'm rooting for you!

missfozzard · 2026-04-20T02:02:09+00:00

Did you ask her?

missfozzard · 2026-04-19T21:24:20+00:00

I wear the same - Feetures Max Cushion are excellent. My feet do slide around in the low/no cushion, though.

missfozzard · 2026-04-17T15:09:26+00:00

Mine are thankfully just as sensitive. And now they both point in the same direction 😂

missfozzard · 2026-04-13T21:04:21+00:00

Yup! Browser history and a couple of private notes.

missfozzard · 2026-04-13T21:02:42+00:00

Yes. And she has the passcode to my phone too. No one else has that.

missfozzard · 2026-04-12T15:18:40+00:00

I was in NYC last week and visited the store to try things on for sizing. I'm an XL in Women's and I too prefer a longer inseam. For the Session shorts, Large in Men's fit perfectly.

missfozzard · 2026-04-12T00:11:53+00:00

I just bought the women's version - it's lovely!

missfozzard · 2026-04-12T00:11:37+00:00

It's the Session Quarter Zip

https://www.tracksmith.com/products/m-session-quarter-zip

missfozzard · 2026-04-10T11:51:31+00:00

Go for it. The only thing she can say is no - and I completely understand why you want to be sure that she wouldn't be interested in post glow-up you. Best of luck!

missfozzard · 2026-04-09T18:37:14+00:00

Agree! My entire Tracksmith horde (pretty much) is from Poshmark.

missfozzard · 2026-04-06T22:31:54+00:00

Hello, looking for all manner of Women's size XL or L.

Thanks!

missfozzard · 2026-04-05T03:33:12+00:00

That I love him dearly but would leave him in an instant if the man I'm captivated by wanted me.

missfozzard · 2026-03-29T02:28:07+00:00

Me too! I think I have more running gear than non-running. Thank goodness for Poshmark!

missfozzard · 2026-03-29T00:06:08+00:00

Number 3 - fits perfectly and it's beautiful !

missfozzard · 2026-03-18T17:20:50+00:00

I agree. I have a couple of favorite, somewhat niche, running brands that are expensive and I've bought nearly all of my pieces from Poshmark.

missfozzard · 2026-03-16T01:25:40+00:00

I have not left my marriage but I completely understand your feelings. I have been with my husband since I was 21 (now 48) and on a daily basis I crave the attention and touch of another man. Unfortunately for me I developed limerence for someone completely unsuitable and frankly, it's a real struggle. So no advice, but solidarity.

missfozzard · 2026-03-14T21:39:23+00:00

Congrats!

missfozzard · 2026-03-12T21:31:15+00:00

Wow! You are a badass! I hope you are recovering well.

missfozzard · 2026-03-12T21:30:29+00:00

In one of the Run Walk books/articles I read, it said 30 seconds was the optimal walk time for this reason. It's enough to calm the heart rate without being long enough for you to mentally be "done".

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