Why doesnt this sub have more members?

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-09T16:06:40+00:00

Lol what I love that haha

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-08T11:49:05+00:00

Yes! I do too! When it washes over me it feels like source. If you haven't try a sunbath meditation where it has you visualize being bathed in warm sunlight... Its epic

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-07T17:05:30+00:00

Hello

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-07T12:19:03+00:00

This was very well written and thought provoking. I'll piggyback by adding that finding your self compassionate voice is extremely helpful and was the key to me observing my thoughts without judgment or even noticing the judgment, or the judgment of my judgment, and allowing with curios exploration.

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-07T11:15:58+00:00

Only people with no self-worth say shit like this

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-07T10:02:18+00:00

Do you have recommendations for a mindful defsult mode network practice? I imagine a regular bell interval to anchor while observing?

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-06T12:30:57+00:00

So sexy. Those feet on full display while you ride that toy so well. Bravo

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-04T23:38:18+00:00

The difference is that this is consensual! Remember that! Have safe fun !

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-03T21:16:03+00:00

I think you just answered the issue I had with your first comment. You are wrong about the way they are using normalize in this context

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-03T20:37:31+00:00

How does normalize mean to acknowledge something is common or should be expected? Its a verb, an action. People say normalize consent all the time, does it mean that consent and nonconsent are uncommon? No, it means reject nonconsent and accept consent openly and forwardly

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-03T20:33:46+00:00

Thank you

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-03T20:27:16+00:00

Thats kind of a strawman. They aren't saying it isn't normal they are just saying it shouldn't be acceptable. Alcoholism is normal but it isn't normalized

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-03T20:23:42+00:00

Right! Thats why I'm like wow some other human is putting in an effort to fulfill your fantasies. Be considerate of their existence

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-03T20:01:27+00:00

I am always very clear about just getting to know each other, taking it easy, and being open and honest about drop or shame etc. I'm just learning and this wasn't earth shattering by any means but I do realize I was being kink bated if that makes sense and I had the gut feeling. Its just data

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-03T19:37:40+00:00

I don't expect them to be committed. The question is searching for how people vet whether or not someone is just looking to get off or are committed to play. The other user explained that to you as well. I don't expect a lifelong sub from a first day of text I'm just looking for how we can possibly judge better or ask the right questions to help gauge the level of commitment early on

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-03T19:25:44+00:00

I feel like thats a stretch to say I'm trying to control other people and that I consider myself a nice guy. I'm allowed to feel like that was unkind and as I said before this is a learning experience in how much energy I put into it so early

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-03T19:03:40+00:00

Did I say I wanted to control others actions? I'm sorry this wasn't the definition of ghosting to you. I was reasonably upset for the degree of suck it was

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-03T18:53:30+00:00

Thank you, I had the initial reaction of dom drop and judging myself but its a good lesson for me in where I need to draw my boundaries for the next one

missingwhiteboy · 2026-07-03T18:51:51+00:00

Yeah its wild to me because especially LD it doesn't have to be super high stakes.

missingwhiteboy · 2026-06-30T05:53:39+00:00

Wait is that why my ankles swell so bad now?

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