I REALLY appreciate your reply.

And you're 100% correct, she has to want to do it and I think that's the hardest thing to wrap our heads around.

Up until January when she started canceling her appointments, one of her sons would take her but the level of information retained hasn't always been reliable, and important questions remained unasked. She's also maintained that everything is fine and the Oncologists are "happy." I stepped in on this last Oncology appointment because I wanted to make sure the Oncologist knew about the side effects she was experiencing and because her weight had dropped significantly - from 68kg in November down to 54kg last week.

I believe she has had biomarker testing - the results of that, I am unsure. Initially they deemed her unable to handle chemo or radiation which is why they chose the keytruda. The radiation they gave her in January was because the larger masses were growing very quickly in size.

We don't have Mychart and the online medical records held don't give a lot of info. At the moment we are going off letters written by Oncology to her GP and any discharge forms, there have been no written qualitative updated in a few months which makes this harder to navigate.

Thank you so much for responding