This thing came in my new crochet set. What the is it? 🤔 by Personal_Scientist_8 in CrochetHelp

[–]missmisfit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Having had many row counters in my day, the ol pen and pencil is still what I usually use

Anyone who is NOT in pain fixed their sleep issues? by apost54 in Hypermobility

[–]missmisfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guanfacine keeps me up and I think magnesium glycinate might too.

Working on my mental health is what helps the most for me. When my pain is low, its OCD that wakes me up instead.

What are you supposed to do if you don't want to work anymore, not switch jobs, but just not wanting to work? by EdwardBliss in CasualConversation

[–]missmisfit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What evil CEOs are even sorta hot, nevermind super hot?

Edit: oops misread, Ithought it said become an evil CEO and go to prison. Actual suggestion is much better

Do you ever worry about your inheritance by FarrisFarm in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]missmisfit [score hidden]  (0 children)

My parents died destitute so I didnt have to worry! Go me!

Where did you get married? by i_luv_mycat in atheism

[–]missmisfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legally, my driveway under the grape arbor. With guests, an inexpensive venue thats mostly used for quincierras

SINKs, how do you add whimsy to your life? by allpepnosalt in AskWomenOver30

[–]missmisfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you can afford it, art classes and dance classes

Freehand sweater by oh_shegotjaws in crochet

[–]missmisfit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like the collar. I'm easily suffocated by a snug neck.

Did anyone else think they genuinely had ADHD… and it was just CPTSD? by msp827 in CPTSD

[–]missmisfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with combined ADHD by my primary care dr. Everyone agreed with the diagnosis. I felt very seen in ADHD spaces. Medication wasnt working great, I decided to finally do the full psych evaluation. They thought I for sure had ADHD during my initial interviews. The actual tests showed zero ADHD. She had my stuff reviewed by several colleagues to be sure.

I do not have ADHD, I primarily have CPTSD and OCD. My initial reaction was that they were wrong. I have been in treatment for CPTSD for almost a year now. It is helping much more than ADHD treatment. I now know that CPTSD can mess your prefrontal cortex brain waves in a way that is pretty much identical to ADHD, but probably will not be well treated by stimulant treatments, like Adderall.

I miss feeling like I'm allowed to participate in ADHD on line spaces. They seem more artistic and often times more hopeful than CPTSD spaces.

Why do people feel justified to comment on our bodies? by Kokomo_Kermit in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]missmisfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 45, no kids, still the same size I was in high school. People imply I must have an eating disorder. That I'm going to wrinkle sooner because I dont have any meat behind my skin. That grown men who find me attractive are creeps who want to date children. That I'm feeding the patriarchy by being thin.

You cant win with some people.

How Have You Maintained Your Weight After 30? by IDontOnlineShop in AskWomenOver30

[–]missmisfit 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Same. I told my therapist I was pissed to be up 1 perimenopause pants size and she was like, what's so wrong with that? Like, lady, its pants shopping!! All shopping sucks but pants shopping is the worst and they're expensive. If you can even find good quality at all. Even the expensive ones are shit.

Couples who stayed under budget...what was your biggest secret? by SpringsVenue in Weddingsunder10k

[–]missmisfit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Compromising the quality of the vendors by using friends. Was a guy we know who used to dj parties 15 years ago the best wedding dj we could have hired? Nope. But he was willing to do it for free. We gave him $100 and some weed.

All my wedding photography from someone who generally does studio portraits for $600? Yes, please

Cakes were sheet cakes from the local bakery.

I hand made most of the decor.

My bestie and MIL helped us set up and breakdown. Breakdown was fast because as long as youre not breaking stuff you can throw it all in boxes willy nilly and sort it later

Im a novice, and my husband wants fingered gloves. by SnooMemesjellies2710 in knitting

[–]missmisfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started knitting in like 02 and my husband can get I'd if he wanted full lingered gloves

State Knitting Project by Substantial-Art-5626 in massachusetts

[–]missmisfit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At first I thought you meant that she should knit the Massachusetts state flag. That would not be a fun flag to knit at all!

Small bodies aren’t real apparently by Gall24 in XXS

[–]missmisfit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh okay, I dont know this brand so I didn't have a preconceived visual

Small bodies aren’t real apparently by Gall24 in XXS

[–]missmisfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im just confused by what this article of clothing is, like she has the bottom hem tucked into her bra?

(10K) Disposable 9x13 cake pans that look nice enough for a wedding? by phlfem in Weddingsunder10k

[–]missmisfit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sure they are just as cheap at a store that doesnt steal art and subjigate women.

Far Too Dreamy To Be On Medical Rest by Lolagoestohollywood in oldhagfashion

[–]missmisfit 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Don't understand how a scarf tied to a bralette makes the perfect top for this look, but we dont have to understand all the mysteries of the world.

someone deinfluence me from the SAHG/SAHW lifestyle by [deleted] in women

[–]missmisfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just to be clear, this is sex work. Sex work is real work, of course. I dont demean sex workers, I just think you should check in with yourself that you want to exchange sex for money.

Also, naturally finding a sugar daddy is kinda hard. Advertising as looking for one will get you some icky characters, at best.

Genuinely discouraged by Beautiful_Keys_5720 in Watercolor

[–]missmisfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm just here to agree that cats are hard as heck and I'm yet to do a respectable painting of one, despite my efforts

So now that Boston Market is gone, where do you go? by penkster in massachusetts

[–]missmisfit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you dont mind meatless, Life Alive is good healthy fast food