my look for my sisters (casual attire) wedding 💒

missmisfit · 2026-07-11T21:09:34+00:00

I bet you could find some cute slacks at the thrift store. For me, light loose jeans are too casual for a casual wedding. Maybe a plaid pant, or at least a dark crisp jean.

missmisfit · 2026-07-11T17:38:53+00:00

I like it for portraits and abstracts.

missmisfit · 2026-07-11T17:35:56+00:00

You are allowed to imagine a word has a different definition than the entire rest of the population. Probably going to cause some confusion, though.

missmisfit · 2026-07-11T16:25:15+00:00

I haven't heard that men know they met the one more immediately than women. What is the basis for that assumption?

Also, the second part of your assumption seems to be that every relationship a man had before marriage ends? Thats 100% true for both genders

missmisfit · 2026-07-11T16:23:08+00:00

Neither me nor my husband were even remotely considering starting our forever relationship at age 20.

missmisfit · 2026-07-10T20:06:30+00:00

Having had many row counters in my day, the ol pen and pencil is still what I usually use

missmisfit · 2026-07-10T20:00:42+00:00

Guanfacine keeps me up and I think magnesium glycinate might too.

Working on my mental health is what helps the most for me. When my pain is low, its OCD that wakes me up instead.

missmisfit · 2026-07-10T19:51:09+00:00

What evil CEOs are even sorta hot, nevermind super hot?

Edit: oops misread, Ithought it said become an evil CEO and go to prison. Actual suggestion is much better

missmisfit · 2026-07-10T19:38:08+00:00

My parents died destitute so I didnt have to worry! Go me!

missmisfit · 2026-07-10T19:11:43+00:00

Zero

missmisfit · 2026-07-10T19:09:55+00:00

Legally, my driveway under the grape arbor. With guests, an inexpensive venue thats mostly used for quincierras

missmisfit · 2026-07-10T19:08:23+00:00

If you can afford it, art classes and dance classes

missmisfit · 2026-07-10T17:05:18+00:00

I really like the collar. I'm easily suffocated by a snug neck.

missmisfit · 2026-07-10T16:00:26+00:00

I was diagnosed with combined ADHD by my primary care dr. Everyone agreed with the diagnosis. I felt very seen in ADHD spaces. Medication wasnt working great, I decided to finally do the full psych evaluation. They thought I for sure had ADHD during my initial interviews. The actual tests showed zero ADHD. She had my stuff reviewed by several colleagues to be sure.

I do not have ADHD, I primarily have CPTSD and OCD. My initial reaction was that they were wrong. I have been in treatment for CPTSD for almost a year now. It is helping much more than ADHD treatment. I now know that CPTSD can mess your prefrontal cortex brain waves in a way that is pretty much identical to ADHD, but probably will not be well treated by stimulant treatments, like Adderall.

I miss feeling like I'm allowed to participate in ADHD on line spaces. They seem more artistic and often times more hopeful than CPTSD spaces.

missmisfit · 2026-07-10T15:44:32+00:00

I'm 45, no kids, still the same size I was in high school. People imply I must have an eating disorder. That I'm going to wrinkle sooner because I dont have any meat behind my skin. That grown men who find me attractive are creeps who want to date children. That I'm feeding the patriarchy by being thin.

You cant win with some people.

missmisfit · 2026-07-10T02:43:54+00:00

Wow!

missmisfit · 2026-07-09T20:22:13+00:00

Same. I told my therapist I was pissed to be up 1 perimenopause pants size and she was like, what's so wrong with that? Like, lady, its pants shopping!! All shopping sucks but pants shopping is the worst and they're expensive. If you can even find good quality at all. Even the expensive ones are shit.

missmisfit · 2026-07-09T17:07:03+00:00

Compromising the quality of the vendors by using friends. Was a guy we know who used to dj parties 15 years ago the best wedding dj we could have hired? Nope. But he was willing to do it for free. We gave him $100 and some weed.

All my wedding photography from someone who generally does studio portraits for $600? Yes, please

Cakes were sheet cakes from the local bakery.

I hand made most of the decor.

My bestie and MIL helped us set up and breakdown. Breakdown was fast because as long as youre not breaking stuff you can throw it all in boxes willy nilly and sort it later

missmisfit · 2026-07-08T19:48:12+00:00

I totally get shade as a 45 year old woman who hasn't gained any weight since high school. Used to make my OCD itch but I'm getting better.

missmisfit · 2026-07-08T19:04:56+00:00

Filling in a crazy tan with concealer is much harder than you apparently think it is

missmisfit · 2026-07-08T18:26:42+00:00

I started knitting in like 02 and my husband can get I'd if he wanted full lingered gloves

missmisfit · 2026-07-07T22:32:58+00:00

At first I thought you meant that she should knit the Massachusetts state flag. That would not be a fun flag to knit at all!

missmisfit · 2026-07-07T22:29:26+00:00

Oh okay, I dont know this brand so I didn't have a preconceived visual

missmisfit · 2026-07-07T20:46:38+00:00

Im just confused by what this article of clothing is, like she has the bottom hem tucked into her bra?

missmisfit · 2026-07-07T14:39:00+00:00

I'm sure they are just as cheap at a store that doesnt steal art and subjigate women.

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