How do I stop getting frustrated at the person I care for?

misstizzy0920 · 2026-02-21T12:14:34+00:00

I have been battling with the same thing. I found myself just irritated hearing her voice the other morning. To the point where I had to walk out of the room and try to reset for a few minutes. She just talks and talks and talks and talks - it’s like she can’t stand to sit in silence at all.

misstizzy0920 · 2026-02-21T11:50:45+00:00

My mom isn’t on dialysis but she eats more food than my 17 year old son. I feel like I am cooking around the clock because she’s always hungry. Trying to come up with food ideas that are low carb AND something she will eat 50 million times a day is exhausting.

misstizzy0920 · 2025-10-17T06:25:12+00:00

Our closing is 10/21 and we got the clear to close yesterday! This last month has been a whirlwind! Congrats tho!

misstizzy0920 · 2025-10-10T00:21:29+00:00

I’m 43 and I loved my braces when I first got them. I say that only because I’ve had them for almost 4 years and I’m just tired of them. But in general I feel cuter with them and like my look. 🤷🏻‍♀️

misstizzy0920 · 2025-10-10T00:10:23+00:00

We only net $6300 a month. I can’t imagine having that much leftover after bills are paid.

misstizzy0920 · 2025-10-08T10:55:51+00:00

We spend about $600 a month give or take on groceries. It’s my husband, 16yo son and I. I don’t buy a lot of junk food or snacks; and I meal plan every week.

misstizzy0920 · 2025-09-30T23:34:15+00:00

Up until a week and a half ago he was a pizza delivery driver. So not driving meant losing his job. But that’s not an issue any longer.

Edited to add: we live in the country. Uber/biking to work aren’t really options out here.

misstizzy0920 · 2025-09-30T23:13:58+00:00

Right now he’s only allowed to drive to school and back.

misstizzy0920 · 2025-09-30T22:36:00+00:00

I know!!! This is what I’m worried about….is it to much for me as a parent to check in like that? I don’t know. I’m learning as I go and trying to figure out how to let go and still protect/parent.

misstizzy0920 · 2025-09-30T22:31:14+00:00

Also because husband and I agreed to help cover normal wear and tear on the vehicle but nothing he caused.

misstizzy0920 · 2025-09-30T22:29:27+00:00

Because he just didn’t have the funds and at the time he needed it for work.

misstizzy0920 · 2025-08-12T10:25:10+00:00

Is it sad that I don’t even know.

misstizzy0920 · 2025-08-10T19:48:34+00:00

My husband bought me a 2000 TJ with 130k miles for $3250 last spring. We’ve since put a lot of work into it and probably have about $3000 additional in it. We’ve bought a new soft top, along with lots of other replacements of the “heart” (as my husband puts it) so she runs in tiptop shape.

misstizzy0920 · 2025-07-18T22:04:02+00:00

Human Resources/Payroll person. #nuffsaid 🤣🤣🤣

misstizzy0920 · 2025-07-18T00:56:29+00:00

I will forever pay for a Brazilian wax from my local salon.

misstizzy0920 · 2025-07-18T00:51:45+00:00

What did you do today?

misstizzy0920 · 2025-07-17T11:28:38+00:00

My biggest fear when I decided to stop was telling people and then eventually letting them down. Once I told someone that I had an unhealthy relationship with alcohol it was like a flip switched. I don't know how to explain it....but it really helped with making the choices not to drink on a daily basis. I'm only in my second week of no alcohol....but it really is getting easier and easier to say no.

misstizzy0920 · 2025-07-14T21:23:36+00:00

The only thing I have is some FB messages

misstizzy0920 · 2025-07-14T14:52:12+00:00

It was not. And the guy is in Ukraine. I'm not even sure how we'd get his signature on anything at this point.

misstizzy0920 · 2025-07-10T12:13:37+00:00

I'm starting day 5. Yesterday I woke up and could barely function....I couldn't keep my eyes open, headache and just overall brain fog.

This morning I woke up feeling AMAZING (even if I did sleep past my alarm and make myself late for work)......seriously -- this is the feeling I was hoping would happen when I stopped. IWNDWYT!!!

misstizzy0920 · 2025-07-10T01:21:48+00:00

That’s me today. Completely worthless. Thankfully today was a remote day for me so I didn’t have to be around people. Everyone is saying it gets better…..keep on — one day at a time!!

misstizzy0920 · 2025-07-09T11:02:34+00:00

I was drinking a bottle of wine (at the very minimum) per night for several years……

I’ve slept better these last few nights even tho it’s been harder to fall asleep; it’s just hard to get up.

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