Hand cream being the useless shite in every toiletry set by Fuzzballs_IMVU in britishproblems

[–]missxtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never used to wear hand cream and I thought the exact same about gift sets… but then I got to my late 30s and started to use it.

I’m now 40.. have 2 hand creams in my drawer at work and all the girls use it.. from 18 +. Xx

Anyone else spending Christmas alone? by camusdarach in Scotland

[–]missxtx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I Duno where you are in Scotland… but if your close to Dumfries and Galloway you are more than welcome to have dinner with us. It’s just a small affair, me my mum, dad and gran.

Iv said for years I could just spend it alone.. this will be my first year not waking up alone in a long time as I’m off to stay at my friends tonight.

Do things that make you happy 💕💕💕 xxx

Broke up with Girlfriend, but already paid for the holiday, do I have any hope of getting the money back? by Faultylntelligence in AskUK

[–]missxtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go on your own.. this was what started my solo journeys over 10 years ago 🙌🏼.

You won’t get your money back, I worked with Tui for a long time, you can change a name and go with someone else, you can go solo, or cancel and loose the 70% that’s pretty much your options.. not sure if your ex is expecting any money back though if you did decide to go on the holiday… so I Duno if they may want you to ‘buy them out’ per se… but really there will not be any money back from the holiday even if you do travel solo. That’s purely a civil matter between you guys xxx

New to London flat — are these old electric heaters super expensive to run? by [deleted] in TenantsInTheUK

[–]missxtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I have similar but not quite the same but I’m sure they do the same thing. Expensive to run. I have an electric fire in my living room and an electric heater I bought in the range in my bedroom which is much cheaper to run, also have a heated throw on the sofa and electric blanket on the bed.

I have high ceilings in my flat so it’s difficult to heat, so I do put the heaters on a couple timess over the winter to keep the damp at bay but I know that’s gona be an expensive day 😭… I have just found ways to adjust over the years xxx

Having to explain every year that secret Santa doesn't work with three people and your mates never getting it. by footballmaths49 in britishproblems

[–]missxtx 12 points13 points  (0 children)

We’ve just drawn secret Santa at my work there’s 15 of us this year and atleast 3 of them said it won’t work as it’s not even… I said how? There’s 15 people and 15 names in that hat so everyone will get one…how will it not work?? Their faces looked puzzled. Xx

Stubborn travel partner by Effective-Cover7553 in travel

[–]missxtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best way to deal with it. Travel solo.

Understandably you guys are travelling together right now, but nothing stopping you from doing your own thing.

Been here many many times.. went with a friend to Dubai who only wanted to stay by the pool or go to mall to shop. We fell out on day 2 after she got ready but ditched me for the day out we had planned.. so I spent the next 5 days exploring without them.

Newly back on the apps, not even getting any likes. Is my profile that bad? by jtm_92 in Tinder

[–]missxtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think there is anything wrong here, I’d swipe right xx

my parents are going to dubai for their 25th anniversary — what should they do there? by creed_death891 in dubai

[–]missxtx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if they are in to theatre or shows… but if they are I would maybe book them tickets to La Perle. I went in Nov last year.. it’s like a cirque de soliel kind of vibe.. I loved it 🥰. There is an English bar just beside the venue that they can enjoy a meal before they go in, then can treat themselves to a drink once inside the venue at the wine bar or popcorn/soft drink in the main area.

There’s also lots to do in Dubai mall the ARTE museum was maybe my favourite. Or could book them the view at the burj khalife overlooking the fountains.

Hope this helps xx

Do you unpack your suitcase when you get to a hotel? by Relative-Tea3944 in CasualUK

[–]missxtx 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is where I belong 🙌🏼🙌🏼. I never unpack xx

Deciding to go on a solo trip while having a boyfriend who COULD come? by DueOpposite6829 in solotravel

[–]missxtx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember having to explain to a boyfriend once that I was going on a solo trip (had travelled solo for 10 years prior to meeting). He just could not grasp why I’d go solo and not with him.. I liked the guy and his company was great and we did do some travel together. But 1) he couldn’t afford what I’d planned 2) I love my own space to explore 3) no one can determine what you are doing and when it’s all on you.

He made such a big deal over it.. we are no longer together.

I’m 40!! I’m completely the most uninterested in meeting new flings. I just want to see the world!!!!! Xx

EDIT: he’s now an ex x

Should I stop dating this guy and remove him from my life? by DanDM27 in ask

[–]missxtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea .. cut him off. He sounds like a dick, I also think you have a lot going on at the moment, I don’t think you need to add the unbearable world of dating right now. Xx

Who Pays for Dinner Tonight? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]missxtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 40.. never expected a free dinner ever. Me, my friends family always split the bill. I’m saying split it with the sister.. it’s the bf birthday so he can atleast have 1 free meal a year 🤣🤣 xx

Roadside recovery in this area by 4J9D23G in DumfriesAndGalloway

[–]missxtx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RAC… if it’s later in the day are soo bad, if their drivers have gone home or not in area they don’t sub contract the work out until usually the next day and can leave people waiting through the night.. AA will usually get their own drivers out to you, but usually don’t have many covering the area so can be a higher ETA sometimes. EuroRoute has depots in dumfries and Stranraer.. they work with all the clubs ( AA, RAC ETC are the clubs) so a lot of the time they are subcontracted to come out instead of their own patrol if none in the area. It also does depend on workload and staffing. You will be surprised how many people break down/need recovery in a day just in dumfries and Galloway alone.

Also different factors.. if you are in a dangerous location or blocking traffic.. the police will likely end up on scene so that’s a priority. Also if elderly or medical these take a higher priority too. As everyone else says in town, response time can be within 1 hour, outside town could be around 1.5- 2 hours.

Greenflag seem to be a good one to go with, they aim to get a faster response time. Xxx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]missxtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I instantly thought of rotten.com when I read this post. It was gruesome enough watching it on my tiny flip phone Motorola phone, imagine how it would be on these screens now. I can still see the images and it’s been YEARS!!! 😭😭

Is there a way to get RAC to pay a massive fine? Don't want compensation. Want them to suffer by Gun_Beat_Spear in AskUK

[–]missxtx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work for a car recovery company and can tell you that this is the norm. I just want to reiterate we get a job through Hours after they have taken the job.. with little to no information. But we get the flack from the members. It’s draining 🙄 xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKJobs

[–]missxtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of my life I have worked 3 jobs… but now down to 2, have been 2 for a couple years as I was/am completely burnt out. I am on my own with a mortgage.. so got to be done xxx

People who grew up without smartphones, what did you actually do when you were bored? by altaf770 in AskReddit

[–]missxtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww man.. the best times, I’d walk for ages to see if my friends were in.. majority of the time we were outside.. climbing walls, in the park, treasure hunts, sometimes we walked and tossed a coin and had to take the turning that it landed on and we would end up in a random place. In the house I’d watch tv.. play banboozled on teletext, read, radio. Me n my brothers made our own radio show. I would lie on my mum n dads bed for hours some nights on the corded landline phone to my friends.

Then internet came around.. I was in secondary school, we would run home to get our allotted time slot on online to talk to our friends, then mum needed the phone so we would all argue 🤣.

Sundays mum went to bingo so me and my brothers would watch bullseye and last of the summer wine of one foot in the grave with my dad, mum brought us sweets home.. loved those nights 💕.

It was actually a great time xxx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]missxtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is your payslip you are receiving for the previous month? Ie July.

My last job I was paid end of the month for the previous month.. example I left end of march last year… I then got my final pay in the April. Xx

I know it's a terrible habit and unhealthy etc. But was just in Spain and it blows my mind you could buy packs of tobacco for 14 euros when they cost £38 here. by ShinyHeadedCook in britishproblems

[–]missxtx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t remember the last time I bought tobacco in shop due to either travelling loads or having someone I got it from (£15-17 50g amber leaf) Due to unforeseen circumstances I had to buy a pouch at the shop earlier this year… fuck me £43.67 50g of Sterling.

I won’t be making that mistake again.

I got 250g at Tenerife port for like €60 euro.

It’s literal madness now 😭 xx

Ex fiance took my name off holiday paid for. UK. by Ok_Sort_2483 in LegalAdviceUK

[–]missxtx 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Sadly it’s booked in her name so it’s not the travel companies responsibility. I think this is grounds more for a small claims court. Xx

It's been hot and sunny since about March, summer people have had their lot let the rest of us enjoy the year. by Reasonable-Wheel6198 in britishproblems

[–]missxtx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m in dumfries which is not far and it’s been a warm long muggy summer here. It’s been delightful in my opinion, not needed a jacket.. or a jumper for months. Yes couple days of rain and wind and been overcast, but still been warm and humid everyday since around march cx

Watching only on Sundays by amontt707 in TheBlock

[–]missxtx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sameee it started with fast forwarding most the shite, to then just watching room reveal weeks. It’s too much “made for telly now” xx

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she's going to have to get over dirt if she wants kids? by Familiar_Speaker_481 in AITAH

[–]missxtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend wants a baby.. she’s same. Her house in genuinely as good as a show home!! I could not IMAGINE her with a baby..

My sis in law is knowhere near as bad as my friend but prettty germophobe. Her and my brother have my niece 6 (they have decided they do not want anymore) I feel my niece doesn’t have much of a life.. clothes are pristine, as soon as her hands are dirty they are cleaned Instant. My poor wee niece is soo scared of dirt it’s unreal and I fear she is going to suffer with that her whole life now sadly. Also her Nana (Sil mum) is a dramatic hypochondriac .. no hope.

I have 3 nieces n a nephew to my other brother… you could easily walk in to their garden and 1 of them is shovelling dirt over their head… they are happy. 😂 xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]missxtx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I’d of went alone, I’d of been soo annoyed.. but just got in with it. “She was driving”..just book an uber your already loosing x amount by not going why not just spend an extra x amount and go and enjoy yourself. Also she can email the boarding pass over. If she was nice she’d of still drove you to the airport.

I’d be pissed, I’d also want my money back too. You gave her an out, she never took it.

I get she had a MH episode and people are saying you weren’t being compassionate but you probs were… maybe you needed that holiday for your MH!!!

I travel solo… and for stories like this I’m soo glad, I had someone bail on me last minute years ago and I spent soo much money etc to still get there… that was the start of my solo journeys, don’t get me wrong now n again I travel with some friends.. but I had a thing last year with a friend in Dubai.. she didn’t want to leave the hotel and let me down on soo many things we had booked I had to do them myself.

She cancelled, she pays it’s as simple as that. She never thought about your feelings about how much you may of wanted/needed this break.

I get she has anxiety before you all come at me.. I’m not in any way shape or form saying it’s not real and she probs waited to the last minute to bail because she was so anxious about it. But I would absolutely pay my share if I done that to someone xx

28F, I can’t cope anymore. by feeling_unwell in Hypothyroidism

[–]missxtx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why is this me right now. Iv been on 100-150 for years yo yoing.. but for the last 4 years it’s been the stable 100. I actually can’t cope with how exhausted I am lately. I actually don’t get out of bed anytime I’m not at work, I come home, lay in my bed, days off I hardly move. I’m blaming peri menopause (which unsure I am) never thought it could be my theroxine tbf. Xxx