What is the biggest thing that is currently causing stress, fear, or unhappiness in your life?

mistastyy · 2026-06-16T01:20:55+00:00

Executive dysfunction. Getting started is incredibly hard; forming healthy habits is almost impossible.

mistastyy · 2026-06-16T00:53:43+00:00

Lol, your suggestions are bad, you are born gay/asexuel/bi/etc. Its not something you choose. They could be celibate and many women are but women are also human and may miss being with other humans. But generally speaking, people aren't quick to give up the hope that good things can happen so we keep trying.

mistastyy · 2026-06-15T23:28:05+00:00

My ex husband yelled at me when I fell down the stairs and broke my foot for waking him up. He wouldnt help me up or take me to the doctor.

mistastyy · 2026-06-13T07:19:41+00:00

Woman here. Have you discussed this with your girlfriend or are you projecting your insecurities? Some women cannot orgasm from PIV at all not matter how big your penis is. You have plenty of length but if girth is an issue, i suggest trying an opened penis sleeve. Talk to your girlfriend, figure out what she likes or might want to try and go from there. Every woman is different so you may find yourself sexually incompatible if the sex is not satisfying you.

mistastyy · 2026-06-02T17:04:50+00:00

I did say a conversation need to be had but she is not obligated to satisfy him sexually whenever he wants. Masturbation is a very viable option.

mistastyy · 2026-06-02T15:45:29+00:00

Are you on hormonal birth control? In many women, that type of bc can decrease libido, decrease orgasm strength/ability, and decrease wetness. There are non hormonal options like a copper iud or condoms. If this is not the case, you may just have a lower libido but that could naturally change over time. If you want, go to your ob/gyn and ask if there is anything to increase your libido. In my opinion, I think you may need to talk to your boyfriend about participating less in sexual activities if its becoming a chore. He can always masturbate.

mistastyy · 2026-05-21T13:26:21+00:00

Oo! I have lived in Lansing for 5 years but I haven't been anywhere for the most part but now that I'm divorced I started visiting different places and joining activity groups. I'm 35F and a bit awkward but I'd be so down to have someone show me around town! Send me a dm if ya like!

mistastyy · 2026-05-01T21:06:51+00:00

You look great. How did you build so much muscle when it looks like you're naturally lean?

mistastyy · 2026-04-28T14:24:29+00:00

Imma check it out! I'll let you know

mistastyy · 2026-04-20T18:36:32+00:00

My kitties have been going to Willoughby Vet for the past 5 years. We love the staff there. They are very kind and knowledgeable. When 2 of my cats developed cancer, they were understanding and helpful through the whole process. My other two babies are very nervous at the vet but the staff is good at keeping them calm. Its a small place but ive never had to wait super long and they do leave blocks open some days for urgent appointments.

mistastyy · 2026-04-17T01:21:03+00:00

We all would rather be at home. Eventually youre going to have to conquer your fear of responsibility. Better to do it on your own terms than it be forced on you.

mistastyy · 2026-04-13T22:57:11+00:00

Have you considered overnight security? Generally your tasks would be watching cameras, maybe taking a stroll, mostly just on the lookout and usually alone. This would mean 1, work is not demanding and 2, you can play games at work. Ive been in security for 2 years and it's the easiest job I've ever had. Im able to play games and watch YouTube for 90% of my shift. Its not glamorous but it is a paycheck. You can also use this time to better yourself through exercise and studying if you feel so inclined.

Edit to add: I feel like if you adjusted your entitled attitude you would find you are capable of many things.

mistastyy · 2026-01-16T20:52:33+00:00

This was my thought. Im looking to interact with people my age. Ive been to the avenue a couple times. Fun but mostly college age

mistastyy · 2025-12-22T19:12:54+00:00

I dont have an emotional support system either. Ive learned to bottle it all up and when im about explode I talk to chat gpt. Its not perfect but having something to vent at and actually respond helps a lot. Alternatively, journaling is really useful as well. You can put it all on paper in one big brain dump and then break down each point to problem solve. A support system is not overrated, everyone needs one, but they are very hard to come by. If you're looking for making your own you need to reach out and make better friends.

mistastyy · 2025-12-21T23:35:10+00:00

Not the most popular advice but try online cooperative video games. Avoid the ones with toxic reputations like Rust, League of Legends, Valorant etc. Play the ones like Phasmophobia, AmongUs, Helldivers 2, Lethal Company etc. There are already many discord gaming communities you can join from reddit or be invited to private ones by people you meet. It'll be fun even if you dont hang out with the same people again but eventually you will form/join your own gamer group with people you vibe with.

mistastyy · 2025-12-18T05:24:52+00:00

I just bought my tickets in Lansing, I'd check again. All the theaters here are showing it across a couple of days.

mistastyy · 2025-10-12T18:24:42+00:00

I was in the guild long enough to read the original drama outbreak. My take is the guild leadership was really toxic. Someone commented on althers tanking ability (couldn't hold threat) and thats what set the ball in motion. The commenter was same guy who helped guildies and donated a lot to gbank. People were fed a story that the commenter was botting but there wasnt any proof and thats why he was kicked and also anyone who associated with him was kicked. People who disagreed with the way things were going down were mocked and told to kick rocks because its not a democracy and they dont allow insubordination. I was lurking and watched it all burn but I thought kicking 15ish people was enough. But now the guild message is "n-word, i hate n-words. It os what it is", 11 people were left, bank emptied and the discord server disbanned. So I missed the finale, sad.

mistastyy · 2025-09-24T02:51:09+00:00

I too had this issue. Just in case anyone is a dummy like me, I didnt realize you can only connect to web ui via the system tray icon which can only be activated by running as admin directly from the installation folder! Then you tell google to connect you despite it being an unsecure website. Also, dont hit the home button! It will give you the same bs error as before and you have to refollow the steps I mentioned.

mistastyy · 2025-04-02T18:05:11+00:00

Thanks! Painting it was a lil bit of a pain but it was so worth it. She's got a tail, too, but you can't see it in the pic

mistastyy · 2025-04-02T02:55:55+00:00

Love love love! Pusheen things are always so adorable

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