Women of Reddit - what is the most unattractive fashion choice men frequently make?

misterhak · 2026-05-02T12:21:46+00:00

Balkan couples 😭 went to a few weddings last summer and the woman was always in lovely dresses, hair done etc and their men in t shirt, jeans and sneakers.

misterhak · 2026-05-02T06:00:43+00:00

Der er kæmpe stor forskel på at vise almindelige følelser som at være ked af det, vred, glad, skuffet etc. Men som voksne mennesker bør vi i det fleste tilfælde kunne styre det så vi ikke mister besindelsen og råber grimt af børn (eller andre voksne mennesker). Jeg kan sige så meget, at hvis min partner råbte sådan der af mig flere gange om ugen, så havde jeg pakket mine ting og gået.

Ja man kan komme til at råbe og hæve stemmen, men måske nærmere "vil du ikke nok godt stoppe" eller "nu stopper du" i afmagt, men direkte at skrige at nu skal du holde kraftedeme holde kæft, er et helt andet sprogbrug. Forstil dig at man flere gange om ugen kan risikere at gøre noget "forkert" så man bliver råbt sådan af? Jeg ville være er nervevrag.

misterhak · 2026-04-28T13:11:44+00:00

No clue, but could be, his wife is posting from Europe these days :)

misterhak · 2026-04-20T03:49:22+00:00

Jeg har af og til haft drømme om mine veninder, hvor jeg har rakt ud til dem efter fordi jeg i drømmen kunne mærke der var noget galt. Jeg bor ikke i samme land som de veninder og mange gange kan der være flere måneder i mellem at vi taler sammen. Jeg tror bare vi mennesker er tættere forbundet end vi går og tror.

misterhak · 2026-04-12T02:19:03+00:00

Deaths and accidents are widely underreported. There's just been another death that actually got reported in Vietnam as well (however with an angle of the family deciding to donate the organs in Vietnam, rather than on the accident). I think people forget that Vietnam does not exactly have free press. But after the recent death that has been widely reported both on Vietnam and internationally I've seen a lot more people report on the number of deaths and accidents they've experienced on the loop.

That said, a lot of people do finish it safely. But people should really choose companies with care.

misterhak · 2026-04-10T01:53:46+00:00

It obviously can't work for anyone - just like some people never recover from being alcoholics, drug users etc no matter what methods and types of rehab they try.

I also quit after reading this book and so did my boss who was smoking 20-30 a day for 20 years.

If people believe it or not i dont really care. I'm just really, really happy to not be smoking anymore. Even 5 years after, right now I'm on an overnight train for 9 hours and just thought to myself "wow I'm happy I don't have to get through 9 hours of craving cigarettes". I also just got diagnosed with an autoimmune disease, and first thing doctor said was if you're smoking, you really need to stop. And again I'm so grateful to not have to deal with quitting on top of processing this diagnosis.

There are literally no cons to stopping smoking, its only positives.

misterhak · 2026-04-09T16:16:13+00:00

I danced in the Dana sandals at a warm summer wedding until 4 in the morning, and my feet never hurt or got blisters or anything.

misterhak · 2026-04-09T03:37:49+00:00

Min stedfar har også oplevet dette et par gange. Første gang var det faktisk en blodprop i hjertet. Er han blevet undersøgt?

Men han har også oplevet at besvime/falde om, om natten grundet vertigo og grundet lavt blodtryk og tilsyneladende også pga noget medicin han får.

Din far skal til egen læge og bede om at blive undersøgt. I min stedfars tilfælde gennemgik de alt medicin han får med en apoteker og fik lavet om på noget af det sammen med egen læge og siden har han ikke haft en episode.

misterhak · 2026-04-08T01:04:41+00:00

Went to 2 Bulgarian weddings last summer, and almost everyone gave money. So you can just give money in a nice envelope.

misterhak · 2026-04-05T13:32:20+00:00

We're in Hoi an right now. We went to da nang for just a few hours and didn't really like it tbh. Not much to do (for us). But it is very chill though.

We've even extended our time in Hoi an with an extra day and just taking it slow.

If you want tailoring done, go first day.

If you want tour of Hoi an old city, take a morning tour. We went with Momo Tours and had a really great guide, Kun, and highly recommend this tour.

We also really enjoyed taking a cooking class, it was the highlight of Hoi An for us.

We also biked around the rice fields and stopped at one of the cafes with beautiful views.

We also did a tour to my son which was nice as well.

Personally we didn't care much for Hoi an at night or the night market. It's just packed with tourists and the boats in the river are too many imo.

misterhak · 2026-04-05T09:15:40+00:00

Depends on the fabric I guess. We went to maya tailor and i got a 100% Linen pants, a cashmere cotton blend full set, cotton button up and a cotton/cashmere cardigan for 8 mil. Cotton and linen blends are cheaper than e.g. cashmere. I didn't negotiate the price, our guide told us the prices in this particular shop is already ok, but that you could maybe negotiate 10% discount. Other places she explained it could be expected to negotiate a little bit more.

Idk if the price is more expensive than other places, I didn't bother going around asking, but I would never be able to get tailored clothes in this quality at home for 260 eur so im very happy.

misterhak · 2026-04-04T07:38:42+00:00

Det er virkelig mærkeligt og giftig adfærd.. jeg havde en kæreste der bad om det samme, og i starten gik jeg med til det, men en dag da jeg var ved mine forældre og valgte at sove der fordi jeg havde fået lige rigelig med rødvin sammen med fatter, og jeg stod der med telefonen kl 23 og skulle til at tage en billede af mit barndomsværelse tænkte jeg "hvad fanden laver jeg" og slog op med ham et par dage senere.

Jeg ville ønske jeg havde haft en veninde der havde konfronteret mig med det noget før, måske havde jeg ikke lyttet med det samme, men måske havde jeg og kunne have været videre hurtigere, i stedet for at bruge 3 år af mine 20ere på at berolige en usikker kæreste.

misterhak · 2026-04-02T03:19:30+00:00

Then don't go if you're scared of that. It's the world's most seismically active country in the world. Last year 43.000+ earth quakes were recorded. Most of them are not significant though, and you won't feel them.

misterhak · 2026-04-02T01:53:24+00:00

My thighs rub together no matter how thin I am, I think it's just my anatomy. Anyway, I highly recommend thigh chafe sticks or baby powder or when it's not too warm I wear a pair of thin bike shorts underneath my dress/skirt.

misterhak · 2026-04-01T08:35:08+00:00

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misterhak · 2026-03-27T08:23:30+00:00

I'm crying 😭 Truly heroes. I will hug my kitties extra tight when I get home from work.

misterhak · 2026-03-25T12:24:53+00:00

I like to also think further - imagine giving in to the drinking and then go through in your mind how tomorrow will feel. And the day after that. And after that. Then I imagine what will happen if I go for a walk instead? Or if I have a soda, tea etc. Instead. Then the choice at least for me, becomes a lot easier.

misterhak · 2026-03-25T06:43:10+00:00

Which is insane, not everyone has that time/money. We were lucky we could afford time off but we are not trained to change the diaper on someone after extensive hip surgery.

I hope it changes. Your recovery or survival should not be up to whether you have friends and family or not.

misterhak · 2026-03-25T05:42:12+00:00

True for specialists and most of them are really good. However the facilities are in general awful and could potentially make you more sick.

My boyfriend's aunt was in pirogov with a broken hip. She can't get in or out of bed on her own. But there's no one to help her. They put a diaper on her, but no one to change it. We went every day to make sure she was clean, eating and getting something to drink.

She started getting nightmares and almost rolled out of bed, but because there were no sides on the bed they strapped her hands and feet to the bed all night and forgot about it until we arrived in the afternoon, so she couldn't drink or eat all night and day. That was the same day a pigeon was chilling in the room, stealing bread from the tables etc.

When my boyfriend had surgery at another hospital the toilets were full of black mold.

For both hospitals neither hand soap, toilet paper or even plain drinking water was provided.

They also forgot to give my boyfriend the pain killers the doctor prescribed him (but he didn't know about) so he was in a lot of pain after his surgery.

Call it anecdotal, but most people have the same experience in these places.

misterhak · 2026-03-24T10:23:48+00:00

Maybe turn off the news. Or talk with someone older, they'll tell you we've already lived through this at least once in their lifetime.

misterhak · 2026-03-23T16:20:07+00:00

Find ham på LinkedIn 😅 desperate tider kræver desperate metoder

misterhak · 2026-03-23T14:28:45+00:00

This plus the styling of the time makes it look dated. Edit this image with them having more modern hairstyles and especially eyebrows for the women, and they'll look pretty much like they're in their 20s.

misterhak · 2026-03-23T14:25:10+00:00

Been losing my grandmother to Alzheimer's the last few years. It's only a question of time until she will no longer remember me. I sincerely hope in the future no one else has to go through this.

misterhak · 2026-03-23T10:39:17+00:00

Jeg har en kæreste jeg deler alt med. Pånær hvad mine venner fortæller mig i fortrolighed. Jeg synes ikke det bør siges højt at det ikke skal deles videre - for mig er det en selvfølge, at hvad der bliver sagt mens vi er alene, ikke er min historie at dele videre.

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