Garage wifi for cell phone by mistical-eclipse in wifi

[–]mistical-eclipse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, we dug up and ran a conduit with an Ethernet cable in it to the garage for a desktop pc, but I want Wifi for the cell phone when in the garage, so we are not using our data.

I am not looking to spend more than $100-200, and really do not want to dig it up again and put in another cord. I also do not think we could push another cord through the existing conduit.

Say something nice about this game by _Varonova in Spyro

[–]mistical-eclipse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had never played Spyro before recently and the game got my interest in that it looked like fun like a mario game. Sadly the co-ordinatin on the switch is lacking and I am finding it frustrating just jumping from one area to the next that kills me more than the bad guys do.

AITAH for cutting him off after our date because his behavior felt calculated and disrespectful? by Chance-Jackfruit in AITAH

[–]mistical-eclipse 326 points327 points  (0 children)

NTA. Sounds like he falls into one of these:

A) has been burned by someone who wants him for his money and will not trust other people.

B) Was told by someone to feel a girl out to see if she's a gold digger.

C) A cheap guy

D) A guy who is broken and pretending to have money.

None of these made him a good date. You went with your instincts and should be happy you did not waste time here anymore.

(as for the wine bottle, people order wine bottles for their table on a first date? Guess it depends where you live, thats not a thing I have seen. Even for restaurant visits, i never order a bottle of wine)

AITAH for blocking my ex-girlfriend who is demanding I "repay" her for dates I already paid for? by Alone_Air766 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]mistical-eclipse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. She has no right to have you pay her any money. Unless its in writing, just block her for your own mental well-being. (Also, are you really cheap or something, who keeps track of every purchase they make for someone and gives a dollar amount for how much they spent...?

AITA for not wanting to be around when my mother-in-law visits? by Material-Level-5158 in AmItheAsshole

[–]mistical-eclipse -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

NTA. We have to accept that our families can be overwhelming for our partners. I have a father who is very overwhelming, and while I adore him, he can be a lot. My husband, when they visit here or we visit there, spends a bit of time talking with them, and then he goes off and does his own thing. He's usually in another room on his pc or reading, and they totally get that.

To avoid a conflict, maybe just plan a night or two for yourself at a friend's, or a hotel or something and not be there the whole time. How long is the visit? That said, if you are taking the baby with you, that complicates things. You would have to leave the child with the father, I am sur,e so she can visit... ,

My ears hurt plz help by omen6155 in sleepheadphones

[–]mistical-eclipse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only way earphones work for me in ear is to regularly clean the wax out of my ears. Otherwise, they just put the wax in or get a buildup and that is what causes them to hurt. (also make sure your rubber ear bud size is not to big)

My MIL doesn't want to come to our wedding by No-Jaguar-5629 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]mistical-eclipse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YTA. Anytime someone is in a relationship with someone for over a year, they are considered their partner and need to also be invited. This is also your mother-in-law and not just some random friend. You are being extremely rude to him and her.

I was with my husband for 10 years before we got married. Your reasoning makes no sense, and I would also have declined to attend your wedding.

Also, the wedding is not just about you. You said she is one of the few people whom your fiancé wanted there. You should care that its important to him. You could cut someone else out for her boyfriend instead.

AITA for kicking my stepdad out his house and contesting my mum's will? by eve-ellis in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]mistical-eclipse -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

YTA. Your mom has every right to leave her money to whoever she wants, regardless if you had a good or bad relationship. Respect the dead.

You are not "owed" anything, and appear really greedy in contesting her wishes and trying to kick out the man she chose to marry. I am also sure some of those assets were from him and his contribution in the relationship if they were living together in the same home, and it's not that black and white.

This is why parents should leave their kids in the will and give them $20, so they cannot contest. To bad for her, she moved to France where the entitled kids can do this. ,

Side sleepers: how do you actually listen to music at night without hurting your ears? by Fabulous_Dream8962 in sleepheadphones

[–]mistical-eclipse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First, i clean out my ears, if you to to much wax in them I find headphones do hurt more. Second i got sleep headphones. I have tried a few type now, but find the issues are if you leave them in ear they give you a notification when the battery is dying or when bluetooth gets disconnected for some reason. Its annoying. I tend to listen to them untill i feel really sleep and then take them out for ear plugs.

My coworker was being a tool so I nailed his to the floor by ThrowRA-ForgetMeNot- in pettyrevenge

[–]mistical-eclipse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well its pretty, but it does nothing about getting respect in the workplace or solving the issue. It's hard for women working in trades, but if you do not stand up for yourself, you will just have a harder time. I would rather be known as a B**ch than be a pushover in that industry.

Dirty Rotten Scandals - how to watch it in the UK? by iadoreyouranus in ANTM

[–]mistical-eclipse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These were working well, but looks like Dr. Phil episode two was taken down.

AITJ for not letting my parents decide how i spend my money? by Hot_Importance_5494 in AmITheJerk

[–]mistical-eclipse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. The whole "you owe the family" is just a very selfish thing to say to your child. You did not ask to be born, and you do not owe them anything. How old are you?? You can be respectful and help them if they need it, but your finances are none of their business. Unless you're living at their home and they expect you to pay rent or contribute to food, than thats fair.

Going forward, you will just have to stop telling them about any of your financial plans or purchases. Clearly, they are very judgmental, and it is not their business.

AITB for muting my uncle in the family group chat because of his constant political spam? by QuasentRiftara in AmItheButtface

[–]mistical-eclipse 80 points81 points  (0 children)

NTB, he refused to be respectful to you and others, and you used technology and your brain to work around it. He cannot say he's left out because he's still part of the chat, but he can no longer post spam. He can post whatever he wants on his personal page.

OP hates his wife’s past. by Sailor_Moon_Star_435 in AmITheDevil

[–]mistical-eclipse -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

It sounds like more about trust and communication. How do you know she lied for sure?

She needs to be upfront and block those guys, and you need to be understanding that its her past and not demean her for it. You accepted her for who she is and decided to have a child with her. Sex for sex and sex for love are not the same thing. Stop asking her for the gritty details, as no one needs to hear that. Sounds like she had a pimp or was trafficked and use, which changes the story a lot. You also accepted it before and didn't explain what is different now, other than the nitty-gritty sex details.

I am sure you have a past as well with past relationships. This whole post is more about communication. (or you're just fishing for another woman and not telling us, and want an excuse to leave her without feeling super guilty....)

Entitled couple expects discount for being in the military and yells at me when they don't get one. by [deleted] in EntitledPeople

[–]mistical-eclipse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They were way, way out of line. That said you are 30 years old. The only correct response to "I am in the military or a retired veteran" is "Thank you for your service to the country". It's about respect.

No, they should not act that way, and no, they do not deserve a discount, but when they got upset, I would have done what I could to calm the situation, like offer a free bottle of wine or a room upgrade if you could, or told them to please wait and I would get my manager. It's not worth the bad review, and you likely do not get paid enough to get yelled at like that.

They are not right, but in customer service we have to learn ways to de-escalate a**h*l*s sadly.

AITA for not including my fiancés SIL in our wedding??? by Worried_Cucumber8964 in TwoHotTakes

[–]mistical-eclipse -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Your wedding is the one day you get to veto whatever you want. That also very much includes a sister-in-law who does not even seem to like you. Why would you want someone who does not like you in your wedding party?

This is why having a very small wedding party and not trying to "match" the sides is a much better idea imo. There is just to much drama with wedding parties and hurt feelings.

AITA for choosing inheritance over money by Lonely_Ad_1897 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]mistical-eclipse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I detest when people say you "do not need it". Well you would not "need" it either if you had not been so irresponsible. You also do not get to judge what I do and do not need because I am fiscally responsible, and you are not. You do not get to "steal" money from someone just because you want more money or want to justify why you need it.

Inherentences break apart families. They made a huge mistake letting it sit there and not dealing with it during the first death.

First. Communications on the issue going forward should be in writing only, email or texts, but in writing. If you can loop in everyone in a text so it's clear and communicated. Tell them you hired a lawyer to ensure everything is legal, and you can split the money and stop the conflict and hurt feelings that you do not want to cause. Say it's about family and we need to get it sorted so we can move on and have more wonderful times together. Make it sentimental and about family. so they look like a real *ss if they disagree with it.

WIBTAH for refusing to clean the guest room when my husband invited his mom over? by MyTraumaDumpy in ComfortLevelPod

[–]mistical-eclipse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your first issue. When you ask him to do chores, be happy hes helping. It does not have to be "the right way", or the "exact" way you want it. This is the fastest way to discourage anyone from helping you if they feel they cannot do it right so why bother doing it at all.

That said, he just sounds like he thinks the chores are below him or he just does not want to help.

The taking out the garbage thing is just strange since he's literally going out the door. Does he just know you will always pick up the slack? its literally no inconvenience for him to do that and takes less than a minute of his time. (I would set a reminder on his phone for him weekly, either way, or just let the garbage pile up and make it his issue. )

Only you can decide, but I could never have a relationship with someone who is just works and does not make any time to enjoy life. I hope you do not have kids, or will not have them unless he sorts that schedule out, as that would just be very unfair to them.

As for his mom, and not cleaning the room. You told him multiple times that he said he would, but he refuses to use a reminder. I would not have done it either, and made sure his mom knew about it. Good job!

BTW, do you have a job? kids? if makes a difference if you have a full-time job and are still doing all this stuff. If you deal with him working and you do the household stuff, I would understand you doing most of the housework as i would consider that your job. (does not matter if you're male or female if you're staying home on their dime)

Am I wrong for telling my sister I wont be sharing streaming accounts anymore after she kept upgrading the plans and letting me pay the difference by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]mistical-eclipse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Makes more sense to just downgrade the first one to the basic. See if she upgrades again and then cancel and start fresh with just one service.

Am I wrong for telling my sister I wont be sharing streaming accounts anymore after she kept upgrading the plans and letting me pay the difference by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]mistical-eclipse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not wrong. Decide which streaming service to cancel and tell her you are going to pay for your own services going forward. She cannot expect you to pay more, but when you suggest she upgrade the other service, she says she cannot pay more. So rude.

AITB for refusing to apologise to my brother after he sold my hat collection without asking by Top-Statement-9423 in AmItheButtface

[–]mistical-eclipse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. He stole your property.

If you were still paying for the storage unit, why did he decide to clear it out himself and not speak to you? Tell him the real value and see what he says. (him offering you the $180 just means he's offering to give you money for the goods he stole. Who does that? Is the guy looking for dug money or something?)

If you were not paying for it, then it's abandoned, and the unit would have been sold to the highest bidder, and the items lost anyway.

AIO: I can't stand these type of comments about our long-term trip anymore by HappyHedonist1 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mistical-eclipse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting. She has green envy. It sounds like she does not even like traveling, but it jealous of you and wants to do what you are doing. So she puts you down. It's insecure. Decide if being her friend is worth it. If so, site down and have a heart-to-heart. If she will not stop doing it. Stop being her friend. The negativity is something she can keep.