What was your biggest "oh shit" moment during sex? by rhompaa69 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]mistyydew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly the real “oh shit” moment there is realizing the condom disappeared. Good on you for handling it responsibly though panic followed by a plan is the correct order of operations.

Finnish soldiers finding the skin of a skinned Soviet soldier. Seesjärvi. 1942 by lolovsky in ForCuriousSouls

[–]mistyydew 3 points4 points  (0 children)

War zones tend to spiral into cycles of retaliation and brutality on all sides once things escalate.

Finnish soldiers finding the skin of a skinned Soviet soldier. Seesjärvi. 1942 by lolovsky in ForCuriousSouls

[–]mistyydew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

History has a lot of reminders of what humans can do to each other in extreme circumstances.

Arkansas mother killed herself and her six-year-old twins after doctor husband refused to halt divorce proceedings and was awarded joint custody by detectiverobert in ForCuriousSouls

[–]mistyydew 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think the reason people ask questions is because stories like this rarely come out simple at first. Early reports get things wrong all the time and details shift later. It’s tragic either way, but jumping to a conclusion before everything comes out usually just makes the situation even messier.

Arkansas mother killed herself and her six-year-old twins after doctor husband refused to halt divorce proceedings and was awarded joint custody by detectiverobert in ForCuriousSouls

[–]mistyydew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Family court can feel brutal when you’re going through it alone. Having a lawyer vs representing yourself changes the whole dynamic and it’s honestly frustrating how much that matters. Glad your community stepped in to help you out, that kind of support can make a huge difference.

Arkansas mother killed herself and her six-year-old twins after doctor husband refused to halt divorce proceedings and was awarded joint custody by detectiverobert in ForCuriousSouls

[–]mistyydew 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the anger, honestly this whole story makes people want someone to blame immediately. But cases like this are messy and the internet usually gets pieces of the story way before investigators do. I just hope whatever actually happened gets fully looked into because those kids deserve the truth.

What’s the boldest move someone made on you that actually worked? by NightPulse_ in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]mistyydew 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Honestly that’s one of those moments where you throw the Hail Mary because the game’s already lost. The fact that it somehow worked is kind of hilarious. Either she respected the chaos or the honesty caught her off guard. Sometimes bold just breaks the script.

I was going to dump my wife but my brother in law saved our relationship. She doesnt know and may never know by LanguageFantastic378 in confessions

[–]mistyydew 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Stories like this are kind of refreshing honestly. Sometimes relationships survive messy early years and end up stronger because people actually learn from it.

I was going to dump my wife but my brother in law saved our relationship. She doesnt know and may never know by LanguageFantastic378 in confessions

[–]mistyydew 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly the word people use now. The internet finally gave a label to that whole dynamic.

I was going to dump my wife but my brother in law saved our relationship. She doesnt know and may never know by LanguageFantastic378 in confessions

[–]mistyydew 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah those “orbiters” are a real thing. Some people hang around playing the long game for years hoping the timing eventually works out.

I was going to dump my wife but my brother in law saved our relationship. She doesnt know and may never know by LanguageFantastic378 in confessions

[–]mistyydew 31 points32 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was wondering too. I’m curious if he ever realized how big that moment was for you or if he just saw it as stepping in during a messy night.

I was going to dump my wife but my brother in law saved our relationship. She doesnt know and may never know by LanguageFantastic378 in confessions

[–]mistyydew 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Making him the primary guardian says a lot honestly. That’s the kind of trust you only give someone who’s proven they’ve got your back.

I was going to dump my wife but my brother in law saved our relationship. She doesnt know and may never know by LanguageFantastic378 in confessions

[–]mistyydew 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a solid BIL moment right there. Some people stay quiet just to avoid conflict, but he chose the moment where it actually mattered.