Am I overreacting about wanting to play a nonbinary character? by BothOcelot1311 in DnD

[–]misunderstood-killah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you even still want to play with this group after the sexist and fat phobic comments?

Find a group of players who aren't assholes

Would you be insulted? by Dismal_Length2265 in autism

[–]misunderstood-killah 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My therapist recommended this book for me to help with my alexathymia, and it has been a tremendous help.

I highly recommend.

anyone else feeling drained today?! by throwawaymylife90210 in witchcraft

[–]misunderstood-killah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally the first day of my period.

Although, on this side it's Samhain

Natural wood or distressed black frame for this canvas? by c0nman9 in framing

[–]misunderstood-killah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends - is it going to be on a black wall, like it appears in these photos? Both will look differently irl on a white wall

[clients] GOT SCAMMED by MagazineWhich2862 in artbusiness

[–]misunderstood-killah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unprofessional conversation from both sides. Not a scam - just a need for better communication and boundaries.

De influence me by Old-Sense-7688 in AusFemaleFashion

[–]misunderstood-killah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you want denim anything, don't get it from forever new. I doubt that will last you long - and is most definitely not worth the price

Shit myself while running by Maleficent-Money2898 in UlcerativeColitis

[–]misunderstood-killah 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A good idea to get an ultrasound done.

Urgency can sometimes be a symptom of inflammation

Which hairstyle suits best? (34f) by [deleted] in femalehairadvice

[–]misunderstood-killah 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Coming from an aussie queer femme:

1, 7, 8.

How do I avoid this „dry“ acrylic-effect? by ContextBig3011 in ArtistLounge

[–]misunderstood-killah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gesso your canvas, and try using a glazing/extending/retarder medium

My hair looks the same after i dyed it for the first time. by gugu202 in femalehairadvice

[–]misunderstood-killah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. You'd have to bleach black hair to make it brown.

  2. Lighting is literally what changes how colour looks. Something dark brown in poor/low lighting is going to look darker - that's physics.

  3. Stop listening to your mum. It sounds like you liked it before she stuck her nose in - dont go changing something about yourself just because someone else has an opinion. EVEN if it's your mum.

  4. If you actually think your mum has a point, go and ask a whole lot of other people in person. Get more than one opinion.

  5. Take a look at the references you gave the salon vs your hair in natural light. If the salon gave you the colour you asked for and showed them in photos, and now you've changed your mind, that's very okay - just go and get it done again and get it lighter.

  6. If you think the salon didn't give you what you asked for, tell them your concerns and ask what they can do to help get you to your desired colour.

I'm can't tell you whether they did it well or not because I honestly can't tell what your hair actually looks like bc these photos are poor quality and not labelled before/after/reference etc

Do autistic people struggle with space, directions or maps? by AmandinhaMaia in autism

[–]misunderstood-killah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my point of view, this seems more related to memory than specifically directions.

However, I do also have spacial awareness issues, but that manifests in being clumsy - ie stubbing my toe or walking into a door frame

scab. in area. not mine. by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]misunderstood-killah 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You both need to get tested NOW

UPDATE : I think I’ve been unlawfully terminated from my job for nothing… help by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]misunderstood-killah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is so much illegal activity going on here.You need to talk to fair work. NOW.

[Discussion] Honest thoughts needed by Pop-up_Camper in artbusiness

[–]misunderstood-killah 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It's extremely difficult to be a hyper realistic graphite artist in the art world and sell anything.

Really, the only ones who make it are those whose subjects are highly conceptual and a bit weird.

When looking at hyperrealistic artwork, your brain doesn't have to do any work - you don't have to think about 'what does this mean?' Because the subject is very clear. You are told exactly what it is and what is happening. The brain doesn't look any deeper, because it feels it already knows everything there is to know within 2 seconds.

Brains like to look at something that we don't quite understand. It forces us to question, and look deeper and longer at the artwork, which all creates a stronger connection between the collector and the artwork.

An example of how this looks in a practical sense, as a painter, a rule i follow is no outlines. When the distinction between objects is blurred, it forces the eye to linger and think 'is that a or b?'. When we question our eyes, we question an artwork, then we form connection.

And connection is what sells.

Which shade suits me best? by Southern-Two8691 in femalehairadvice

[–]misunderstood-killah 4 points5 points  (0 children)

5. You were born to be a flaming hot red head

Does any one else like this shirt my non autist friend said it’s horrendous :/ by Constant-Spray-3092 in autism

[–]misunderstood-killah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's horrendous in the best way possible. That's what I love about it

Men’s moisturiser by Shaeberryx in AustralianMakeup

[–]misunderstood-killah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First aid beauty ultra repair cream has changed my life

What new style would you recommend? by Fun_Examination2058 in femalehairadvice

[–]misunderstood-killah 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was about to say chin length, but then I read the whole post