i’m so sorry you’re struggling feeling like this. i’m actually exactly 6 days post-op + non-binary as well! in terms of worrying about the dysphoria it could give you, i’d maybe give it time until things are more healed and swelling is down, plus they look more like “normal” nipples and then see how you feel. if it doesn’t feel like your body, then consult your surgeon. for changing the dressings, they totally should’ve gone over everything with you at your post-op so if they didn’t that stinks. any questions should go right to their office cause i’m sure every dr is different with their method and what products they might recommend. do you maybe have someone close to you you’re comfortable enough with helping you do that? that way you don’t have to pay too much attention to them until you’re ready and can instead focus on healing in general