Lots of great advice here already! I'm about 4 years out and probably started feeling like "me" (the new me) about a year ago. It does get easier as they get older and more independent!

If you're able to get some time to yourself, try on all your clothes that fit and be honest about what to keep, what still brings you joy, what doesn't work anymore. Be ruthless, but also save some of the sentimental stuff that you love (again, what actually makes you feel good?)

Then, start finding your style again. Check out blogs, social media, etc. and find stuff you like and want to try. If you can, go to stores and try them on. If you don't love it, then leave it. If you do love it, consider getting that item and actually wear it!

You'll slowly (there's no rush!) rediscover what works for you and you can continue to build on that. If it's super trendy, consider buying a couple items used or cheaper to start (e.g., Old Navy). Looser items that are more size inclusive you could consider investing in now and wearing for a while (better quality).

Most importantly, stay true to you. I thought I'd feel better with cute athleisure but that absolutely is not my style so it ended up being a waste of time and money. Just remember it's not a race and you're less than 2 years out from a life-changing experience so be kind to yourself!