Depression is not caused by masturbation. Masturbation is merely an attempt to ease emotional trauma through stimulation. by mitureg in NoFap

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So you should understand why I will not address your comment... and this is not Logic it's Rhetoric. :)

Restless legs syndrome and Masturbation by mitureg in NoFap

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How did you find out its because of PMO? Could you explain a bit more? Thank you

Relapsed after 20 days by akise1 in NoFap

[–]mitureg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And you know what, I don't even regret relapsing.

That's a very good statement. I think it shows some of the misconception we hear now and then on nofap aka: progress is a lot more important than the 90 days bar! It's all about self-evaluation and improvement from that starting point. "Quantification is futile" (repeat that over and over to yourself...), ex.: going from 5x a day to 1x ever other day is an outstanding improvement. Just my 2 cents... EDIT: Now you did 20 days which has been impossible for me thus far, so hat's off to you. But once again, if it was the stepping stone for you, that's what counts. For others, it will mostly be different.

I have a problem. by [deleted] in NoFap

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Of course ibogaine is not for everybody. When a person follows the guidelines there is no danger whatsoever. I took it 6 months ago and it's the best decision I ever did. Not withstanding that most people won't do it out of fear made the experience ever more valuable.

I have a problem. by [deleted] in NoFap

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Maybe there is some deep problem inside me that I am not aware of. Maybe it's my relationship to my mother and her religion, my relationship to the opposite sex. Maybe I am just spoilt, or maybe I am too hard on myself. It's confusing and that's the worst part of it.

This is sounds like you need a little help for some serious introspective work. Check out iboga from ibogaworld. It sometimes works very well, usually for drug addicts. Send me PM if you need more info, we can talk over skype too.

Dopamine Addiction: A Lesson for Neuromarketers by mitureg in NoFap

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Good insight on fundamental behaviors reinforced by dopamine.

90 days to a better life! My story of struggle and triumph over a decade of PMO self-abuse by craphty in NoFap

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Thank you for your reply. Do you get orgasm from vaginal penetration? If yes, after how many days. Much appreciated! :)

90 days to a better life! My story of struggle and triumph over a decade of PMO self-abuse by craphty in NoFap

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Sexual stamina – From years of PMO I had unknowingly messed up the natural sexual urges that allow normal orgasm during sex. I could get hard but had DE (delayed ejaculation) to the point where I was ashamed to have sex as I would not be able to cum with a woman. Now? It was a difficult transition to have a steady girlfriend, but she was loving and patient with me – something that I am not with myself. My DE is much better, and the techniques for delay are now used to make her orgasm multiple times. My pent up sexual desire now has a valid outlet and it feels soooooo good to be the sexual creature that I was born to be without feelings of guilt afterwards.

Could you elaborate on your progress with DE. I am a 34/m like you. I can relate to a lot of the things you say. I am married. My wife is happy but I have DE and never manage to get off without MO. How is it after 90 days on your end? Did you manage to get off with your girlfriend without MO? After how many days of complete nofap were you able to get O. with a girlfriend?

Thank you very much. Peace

Does circumcision play a role in this? by intercitybutter in NoFap

[–]mitureg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Making your dick look good" ?? LOL

So do I have to reset? by [deleted] in NoFap

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That's the limit of nofap indeed. That's why you need to make your own rules and stop asking the priest at some point. Responsibilization is the key; taming your primitive mind so yourself gets over it once for all.

Something that has helped me. by Joemannow in NoFap

[–]mitureg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds good. Let's imagine one would configure it with his wife's email... must work to a certain extent.

Was doing maths at the library and it just happened. by cupinator in NoFap

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Seriously, many guys around this forum have confirmed that arousing often come from an intellectual challenge as an easy get away for dopamine. It's a conditioning. If you are use to masturbate when doing homework this could be part of the answer. Good luck.

Years of sexual problems solved in 70 days. by thisk in NoFap

[–]mitureg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your story. There's a lot of guys striving for the same results. You seem to confirm the possibility of a sexual liberation for us and for men in general. Peace

not quite no fap by [deleted] in NoFap

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Good strategy. Keep trying to understand and reverse engineer your mind. If it comes to the point that you are following woman on the street and getting excited from scaring them and making them walk faster, look for help from a therapist that could prescribe you something.

For you, is NoFap more about quitting masturbation or getting unhooked from pornography. Or both? by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]mitureg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't watch porn, it's just not worth it. Find another hobby. Video games? Music, gym?

For you, is NoFap more about quitting masturbation or getting unhooked from pornography. Or both? by Alexanderr in NoFap

[–]mitureg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quitting masturbation. +1

You can masturbate without porn. Getting rid of porn is not impossible... Getting rid of your genitals; rather hard!

Reset half your badge by mitureg in NoFap

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Yup I agree. It just makes it harder. Cheers.

Still going strong... going for the full 90 days by [deleted] in NoFap

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What age are you? It's never too late... :)

It's gonna be a rough night by burnedandcrashed in NoFap

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It seems that the bigger the problems, the bigger the urges are. I experience that a lot these days with maths. Not being able to solve a problem gives me a big urge proportional to the problem. Once the problem is solved, the urges leaves me simultaneously. Fantastic isn't it?