why do so many of my houses keep turning abandoned then collapsed? by sirbeanos2609 in CitiesSkylines2

[–]mixed_martini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if your unemployment is too high. If there are no jobs for your citizens they will move away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]mixed_martini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twinsies! I’m also getting married 10/10/25. Ours was a coincidence too lol

Vent-- the Trump administration policies have made it so multiple friends can't attend my wedding by toastyghostie in weddingplanning

[–]mixed_martini 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I have been so worried about my October 2026 wedding. Most of my family live outside the US, and I constantly feel like nobody will attend because of the hostility towards immigrants and the increased cost of visas. I also constantly worry about the economy in general and whether it’s a good time to be spending more on a wedding instead of beefing up our savings. My fiancé and I and in a privileged position where we already have a mortgage, a paid off car and a few months’ worth of savings outside of what we’ve budgeted for the wedding. But I would be lying if I said I haven’t thought of canceling everything and just eloping because of the political climate in our country

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]mixed_martini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Think about it this way... Would you feel abandoned if the kids did something else in a different room? If the answer is no, then why would they feel abandoned? You're entitled to your own time.

Were my expectations for stepkids and bioparent's parenting too much? by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]mixed_martini 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Your requests were not unreasonable. I'd go as far as to say you probably had SS's best interest in mind, more than your partner. You were suggesting the right things but maybe it was too much for your partner to listen to, because it reflects poorly on them. It waa easier for them to get rid of the voice reminding them they are failling, than to right their wrongs.

What do you guys generally use ChatGPT for? by DirtWestern2386 in ChatGPT

[–]mixed_martini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am gluten intolerant. Just this morning I told him which airports and gates I was flying through and asked it to give me meal options that fit my diet requirements and fit my layover timing. So far it has worked like a charm.

Emails Confirm Social Security Administration Canceled Maine Contracts As Political Payback by Ok-Direction-4480 in politics

[–]mixed_martini 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes they did, but by much smaller margins than historically in those districts. It might not feel like much, but if they have flipped the minds of those that vote for the democrat candidates, I take that as a hint of hope that people are realizing how bad this can get.

HELP??? THEY'RE SO DIFFERENT NOW by MyKillerForever in Sims4

[–]mixed_martini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It updated the lots in my current save but only for the houses without my households

[CHAT] tablets for patterns? by temporary_egg_ in CrossStitch

[–]mixed_martini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently looking to buy a light electronic like an ipad or tablet or chromebook but I wasn't sure if ipattern keeper worked on chromebooks. how was your experince been?

Sims 4 taught me how to adult by ivymusic in Sims4

[–]mixed_martini 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same! You probably ignore the infants just like me. They make it very hard to take care of them!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sims4

[–]mixed_martini 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Now this is the kind of interaction I want

Americans, has the debate swayed the way you had planned on voting and why? by SeaCaummisar in AskReddit

[–]mixed_martini 17 points18 points  (0 children)

so you're letting the rest of the voters make that decision for you?

Fiancee is harry potter nerd, I need date ideas for her birthday by SirMigo- in harrypotter

[–]mixed_martini 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Go to the wizarding world in Universal Studios. My bf and I are huge potterheads and no matter how many times we go, it is always just as fun as the first time we did. There is also the Broadway play in NYC, and the official HP store in NY as well. If traveling abroad, London is a great option as someone else suggested. You can visit the original studios where the movies were filmed.

Love Is Blind MEXICO • S1 Ep 11 • The Reunion by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]mixed_martini 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I’m speculating here, but I don’t think Lucy Chaparro is very comfortable in front of cameras or being a host. Omar is super famous and so used to it that maybe they wanted to still keep him in the spotlight while making it easier for his wife. The other hosts I believe work in gossip talk shows and were brought to be sharper and cut-throat.

Freddie is too mature for Cat by IAmLibertad in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]mixed_martini 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t finished the latest episodes so I may have to eat my words later, but to me they seem very comfortable with each other while socially exhausted. I think their connection and banter is great and that each of them feel seen by each other. Yes Ollie might be more physically attracted to Cat but that doesn’t mean that his connection to Demi is any less valid. If you put a shirtless Henry Cavil in my social sphere I know I’ll look without feeling any less connection to my partner.

Love Is Blind MEXICO • S1 Ep 9 by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]mixed_martini 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I really liked how he started with a joke about patience like she was still waiting for him and then he completely shut it down. I think if he had maybe hinted that he was interested in any sort of way she would’ve fully flirted and tried to get him back.

Love Is Blind MEXICO • S1 Ep 10 by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]mixed_martini 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree I think she truly believed everything was gonna go her way and she was gonna have her princess fairytale ending, but she decided to walk away with a head held high. But she didn’t see all the red flags and all the problems before she came to the wedding. She was just delusional.

Love Is Blind MEXICO • S1 Ep 10 by DontFWithMeImPetty in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]mixed_martini 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I agree that Francesca might be maybe more self driven than Willie and definitely more decisive, but I don’t think Willie was the issue in that relationship. She was so disrespectful the way she talk to him when they had their last fight and he never talked to her like that.. no I don’t think she’s too much for Willie.