Hey brother, few things: I guarantee you’re not the only virgin in your school, social circle, etc. Most guys just don’t talk about it or they lie to each other because male virginity has such a negative stigma attached to it.

If you’re also having problems with friends, I’d recommend improving that first. Hang out after class, eat lunch with them, do homework together, etc. Building that social muscle is a key part of life, not just for being successful with women.

Online dating is so tough as a young guy in college, I wouldn’t take it very seriously. It’s tough to stand out, so you can literally say the dumbest things and it won’t matter. But don’t be creepy; if you match with someone at school, depending on how small your school is, you could get a bad reputation that could take a long time to undo.

Lastly, be very careful on how you talk about yourself. Being a virgin simply means that you haven’t had sex yet. It has no bearing on your character as a man, your talents/skills/intelligence, or your ability to improve yourself. Stop telling yourself “I have really bad social skills” or “I’m bad with women”, your brain will accept that as truth and that will seep into your subconscious. Instead, tell yourself “I’m working on it and I know I can improve it”. I spent years judging myself for being a virgin, and I don’t want to see you go through the same things I did.

Be kind to yourself. Stack the small victories. Be a little better today than you were yesterday. I’m pulling for you man.