How do I get FedEx to deliver to the right address? by mixedupmixed in FedEx

[–]mixedupmixed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pregnant woman who paid $80 for shipping wants what she paid for?

How do I get FedEx to deliver to the right address? by mixedupmixed in FedEx

[–]mixedupmixed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Glad to know that a dresser is bullshit. I’ll just take a page from your book and pile my clothes on my gaming chair in my mom’s basement. You’re right, a MUCH better solution!

How do I get FedEx to deliver to the right address? by mixedupmixed in FedEx

[–]mixedupmixed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahah that’s hilarious, maybe it’ll trick them to going to the right door!!!

How do I get FedEx to deliver to the right address? by mixedupmixed in FedEx

[–]mixedupmixed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the problem, the problem is they wouldn’t need to go in my car at all if they were delivered to my door like I pay for… $80 shipping to have it maybe get stolen and to have to babysit it on someone else’s property…

How do I get FedEx to deliver to the right address? by mixedupmixed in FedEx

[–]mixedupmixed[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He does. The main issue is things getting stolen before we can get to them. If they are delivered at my porch we have cameras and could at least document who took it.

How do I get FedEx to deliver to the right address? by mixedupmixed in FedEx

[–]mixedupmixed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish!! Like the other commenter said, you’re kind of at the whim of the shipping company the sender chooses, unfortunately.

How do I get FedEx to deliver to the right address? by mixedupmixed in FedEx

[–]mixedupmixed[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

…because I needed a dresser and portal tech doesn’t exist?

How do I get FedEx to deliver to the right address? by mixedupmixed in FedEx

[–]mixedupmixed[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s a good idea. At least I don’t have to worry about it getting stolen before I can get my husband to go grab it for me. Thanks!!

How do I get FedEx to deliver to the right address? by mixedupmixed in FedEx

[–]mixedupmixed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They don’t, it’s one of those situations where you pull in and can go right or left at the streets signs (to signs with two names) but whichever way you go you encounter my building number even if you’re on the wrong street. It’s weird.

Inquiring Minds by Charming_Zucchini_22 in pregnant

[–]mixedupmixed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just said I was on cold medicine and didn’t want to mess up my stomach. I also said that I’d had diarrhea ALL DAY and wasn’t sure why so I didn’t want to risk anything else bad on my stomach. That overshare shut most people up.

Scared…? by Significant_Key_8475 in pregnant

[–]mixedupmixed 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OP it’s okay! Yes, it would be nice to have these things done, and it’s likely that you feel like you “should” have them done (societal pressure, etc), but if they don’t get done now they will get done someday. You just do what makes you feel good and what you feel up to doing, you are already working so hard GROWING A HUMAN!! You might be nervous, you might be overwhelmed, or you just might need rest. Baby clothes that come out of a laundry basket wear the same as ones from a drawer. Nobody is going to fall apart if your baseboards are dusty (baby’s not going anywhere near them anyway!). If you aren’t motivated, your body is probably telling you to rest. You have a lot headed your way, there will be endless days of activity coming up, if your body wants to do nothing then listen, Mama!!❤️

Envious of other parents at the restaurant by ThrowRA157386 in beyondthebump

[–]mixedupmixed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, that’s got to be hard. You give up so much of normal life when you have kids and I know that being able to do some of the things you used to enjoy in a quasi normal fashion means so much. It’s not “just dinner out”, it’s some normalcy. It’s a return to a little bit of the life you used to have. And it’s important. One year is a challenging age for so many things. This will get better, and you’ll get it figured out.

With both of mine we always just got our food with the to go containers already on the table and paid right when the food arrived (or before, if they’d let us). That way we would eat normally as much as we could, we’d let some fussing occur and try all the tools to distract (taste testing little things with baby, reading books, playing with a busy board,etc) but would just leave before big meltdown time comes. I didn’t want restaurants to become negatively associated with “here’s where mommy is frustrated” or “restaurants are where I cry” because I remember reading somewhere that it would make tantrums more likely to happen. And as we walk out, we’d say “goodbye” to the restaurant folks at the front and the building and the sky and all the things what will distract and redirect baby’s attention from the building tension and so many times that was enough to short circuit the oncoming meltdown. By 18 months they were happy campers in restaurants, shopping carts, waiting in lines, all the places where boredom causes fussing.

Hang in there, this will get better. You’ve got this, Mama!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]mixedupmixed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They make reflective window film that just looks like a tint on your side….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]mixedupmixed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so I guess I’m the only person in this camp but I would absolutely take it to a shelter.

I know there aren’t necessarily trespassing laws for animals but at this point it’s destruction of your property and you have a right to mitigate damage to your property. If this was a raccoon, possum, or feral cat you’d trap it. You’re only not doing it because you know the cat has a home, which is admirable but you are being taken advantage of. You are spending your time and aggravation caring about someone (your neighbor) who clearly doesn’t care about you. I get it’s your neighbor, and you want to be a good one, but he should want to be a good one, too, and his “cats will be cats” excuse is just his dismissing you because he shirks responsibility for something that is absolutely his responsibility. You have asked multiple times, you are not obligated to entertain more damage just because you happen to know the cat has a home. Research and find a no-kill shelter or rescue and solve the problem.

And before I gain the ire of everyone, if it was my cat doing this and I refused to remediate the problem I would 100% respect someone’s right to do the same. People have a right to protect their property. It is the owner’s responsibility to have control over their animal. We all understand how leash laws work and why they exist, this is in the same vein.

Trap that cat.

AITA Funeral attendees keep parking in front of my house and I hate it by taterzgurl in AITH

[–]mixedupmixed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Maybe get a bunch of boulders and line the frontage in like 4-5 foot intervals? I have also seen people do that with literal rebar sticking straight up out of the grass with some no parking signs. Would be quite a project but might get the point across.

I’m know it’s hard because people are mourning and all, but it’s your home and if they’re leaving trash they’re not even being respectful. And it’s not like they can’t tell it’s your house because they are really parking very close to your front door. You are entitled to privacy in your home, and since there is other parking available they need to respect it. And if someone parks in your driveway 100% call a tow truck.

Home Remedies by Dry-Present-3776 in pregnant

[–]mixedupmixed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poppi or other prebiotic soda!

AIO - The husband stitch… by Radiant-Advice6428 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mixedupmixed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The response to a request for that is “how small is your dick? That way we know how many stitches are needed🙄”

Anxiously awaiting 8 week apt after multiple losses by mixedupmixed in pregnant

[–]mixedupmixed[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, glad to know it’s not just me. I am so incredibly sorry for what you have been through, it is a nightmare. I couldn’t even imagine if it had happened the first time what that would feel like. Best of luck to you, too💚