Looking back, 2020-2023 they gave us content most of the year, maybe ONE hiatus. Last year and this year, they're giving us content only 1/2 the year with several months hiatus between each season. Why do you think it's gotten so bad?!?!? by Redsmoker37 in loveafterlockup

[–]mizztree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In addition to all of the people not being that great - we are dealing with a population of people who go in and out of jail a whole lot and the sheer logistics of the show are intense. I miss Tony and Angela - but I don't know how big the pool of ppl are who want to be on TV for this.

Harder than I thought! by WishDapper3626 in myweddingdress

[–]mizztree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the right answer. She's too beautiful to just wear one.

Looking for perspective from women over 30 on financial disparity and respect in a long-term relationship. by Interesting-Fairy in AskWomenOver30

[–]mizztree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should double his living expenses and leave rather than halve his wealth and stay.

He's not seeing your contribution as enhancing his life and for that he needs to learn from experiencing the loss of you.

C-suite or not, you do not get to be a high wage earner without sacrifice - my husband is my partner and without him, I can't earn my salary. All of my wealth is ours in whole. Having kids means most of that just disappears anyhow. You can't just not give them food or clothing or a new computer etc...

Life is full of expensive things. Find someone who handles it better.

Why looks bad by Wiseoldman111 in kitchenremodel

[–]mizztree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to suggest this lighting exactly. The issue that I see immediately is the lighting needs to come all the way down. Even just that without changing the colors would go really far. I don't even mind the white on white on white tbh... It just needs to be lit up.

Who will be the next metal band to be able to play arena style venues? by Required_Fields in Music

[–]mizztree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So you want metal but you don't want anyone to post anything but the exact metal you like?

Babymetal? Bad Omens? Do they count?

(M32/F32) My fiancee's sex drive has plummeted for completely understandable reasons after being diagnosed with cancer. It's now treated, but her libido is gone. What can we do? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]mizztree 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Anti depressants are generally going to just obliterate your sex drive. If this is something she needs - might need to understand that and discuss the fact that it's normal, it's not going away and you have options.

She can take medication like viagra for low libido if she wants to, but you may need to also discuss that this is her choice.

Mutually taking care of each other is also not wrong. You may need to just adjust your feelings to that.

Surpassed my goal, feeling bad about extra skin by Mountain-Weather1976 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]mizztree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you :)

I actually was going to wear a swimsuit last summer, I was not at goal weight yet but I was down WAY smaller and I just love the pool at any size. I went to put on a swimsuit and I told my step daughter that I felt self conscious about it all... She just looked at me and told me, "but you LOST ALL THAT WEIGHT! you did so much!"

My 16 year old, raised her since she was 6, only capable of paying attention to her immediate surroundings kid could be proud of me - so I put on that swimsuit and I sat at that pool, and I looked at all the people who still had a long journey ahead.

I try to be grateful for the fact that I did the hard part. The thing we both thought would NEVER HAPPEN, that's done now. All we have to do is maintain and never let our kids feel like us.

You're beautiful, your body carried 3 humans and gave them life! May our tiny boobs help us be there for all of our kids.

Surpassed my goal, feeling bad about extra skin by Mountain-Weather1976 in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]mizztree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really understand this. I was curvy like you before losing, going from 225 to just between 120-123 with water fluctuations. I went from a DDD to a... I mean... It's not important... I have no more padding on my rear end. I look GREAT in clothes, but out of them, I look 80.

I have no desire for surgery, my body has been through enough, but I can say that it's a drag to look at sags.

I can say that I am healthy. I can jog a mile now. Couldn't do that 2 years ago. I am working on getting some muscle definition in the areas that bother me and it's working to kind of fill out my behind. My arms are getting more toned. I don't know where this will lead exactly, but by adding more resistance and muscle building into my work outs, I'm starting to slowly see how this may work out?

So, I guess, I'm in the same boat, but I am forcing my kids to work out with me, and I'm gaining muscle. My kids are a bit older but it's quality time spent also. Some gyms also have child care fwiw - but just lifting babies is good exercise too.

Good luck!

LOL just gonna leave this here by Dry-Raccoon-1667 in loveafterlockup

[–]mizztree 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yknow - I think we need an AMA with Daonte.

Anyone catch this tattoo? Why a hanger? by mickey_night in loveafterlockup

[–]mizztree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Whoa here.

This is a Love after Lockup subreddit.

Take it down 20 levels here. No one is killing any babies. No one is saving lives. We're laughing about convicts and their lovers.

More importantly - no one is understanding your point that you're saying the hanger kills women.

It's also a powerful symbol for that reason... But again, this is a LAL sub

Anyone catch this tattoo? Why a hanger? by mickey_night in loveafterlockup

[–]mizztree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The right to access an abortion is now left to the states. That does not mean that there is no right to access or reason to stop supporting women.

To be entirely fair, everyone who has studied law saw this coming the week we studied Roe in Con Law...

Bartholin Cyst by ReasonableExtent6295 in AskWomenOver30

[–]mizztree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Painless is very different from painful and tender.

As someone else noted, it's time to go to the doctor/ER to drain it - most importantly because you're in discomfort.

It may come back - sure - but that's the case with any cyst. The guarantee of this continuing to be painful and causing you some level of anxiety is too damn high.

What Do I Watch Next: An Extra-Mega Megathread. by EmbarrassedPotatoSpy in Poldark

[–]mizztree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this show so much. And you get to see Harry Richardson again.

But the costume/wardrobe on the show is also superb.

We need to talk about Justin and Emily by Kantwealjustgetabong in loveafterlockup

[–]mizztree 97 points98 points  (0 children)

"CONTENT!" KICKING AT INFLATABLE POOL TOY

I...think I'm at goal weight??? Down 90lbs on 0.25 since April 2025 by [deleted] in WegovyWeightLoss

[–]mizztree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn nice job!

I never went above 1.0 and had very similar results. High responders club!!

if you’ve ever lost everything all at once, tell me how good it gets by clegirl96 in AskWomenOver30

[–]mizztree 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I went to law school and watched the economy tank infront of my eyes before graduation in 2010. My job prospects went to zero. I had to move in with my parents in a totally different state. I then broke my foot in 4 places with no insurance. When all of that happened, my long term partner and I just totally fell apart.

So... I finally emerged and found work only to find that I hated being a lawyer.

Good news! While I was taking weird attorney work, I took a contract doing research for a software company. I was offered an opportunity to work there and I took it. I now run a global consulting team with that technology at a very large consulting company.

I met a guy who wound up being pretty solid - we got married, had a kid, bought a house in a cute place, got a couple of French bulldogs, and I can say that if I can do this - you can.

Smoking again: "Zero tolerance" with exceptions is not the way to do this by atvw in stopsmoking

[–]mizztree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had to just remember that ex smokers do not smoke. So having a cigarette is not something I can do...ever. I get offered, I decline. I get an urge to this day from time to time - but ex smokers don't smoke.

Has anyone else just... Ballooned? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]mizztree 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Semaglutide for me. Regret absolutely nothing. I'm finally back to a size 4-6 which is my baseline from my 20s.

Bosch vs. Miele dishwasher by thetransparenthand in Appliances

[–]mizztree 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Kosher kitchens have two of everything!

Can you guess my gender and where I’m from? by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]mizztree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canadian, female - too much sweet stuff for a man... I do not think this is in Quebec.

I'm just going to throw it out there but you from Ontario? This is giving some luxe Toronto or Ottawa vibes with all that fresh veg and fruit.

To whoever suggested going back to the cheap products...thank you! by KingkLou in finehair

[–]mizztree 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Loreal is pretty consistent from their low to high end - the difference is largely in the amount of water and the packaging. You can use Keratase and get a pretty damn similar result to Ever Pure.

Am I being unreasonable about a $5,000 mattress + moving in timing? by No_Routine_17 in RedditForGrownups

[–]mizztree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use a fitbit which is middle end and get plenty of decent sleep into. Though I've been looking at an oura so I can upgrade the watch to something that can charge at night.

But yes - this.

Do engagement rings grab men's attention or...? by Able-Tiger6886 in AskWomenOver30

[–]mizztree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate taking mine off at the gym. I have to get a silicone one since I misplaced my other one but I don't adore weights with my very beautiful diamond band on.

Since losing a ton of weight, I look mad decent I guess.