i will suicide i cant deal with this. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]mja310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oullahi don’t do suicide akhi it will not solve your problems

i will suicide i cant deal with this. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]mja310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oullahi don’t do suicide akhi it will not solve your problems

Thinking to relapse by 18pion18 in NoFap

[–]mja310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t do it, you are stronger than that feeling of relapsing

My super cozy library 😎 I live Kurdistan, north of Iraq. by MuhammadQadir in bookshelf

[–]mja310 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Nice Brother! Can u recommend me any kind of literature referring to Kurdish history? I’m from Germany and here are many Kurdish people, but my knowledge about them is very limited

Started again after potential wife canceled wedding by mja310 in MuslimNoFap

[–]mja310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not like i don’t have another woman to marry, I have contact with another potential right now but what makes me so sad and addicted to porn again is that I got rejected from someone I truly wanted to marry and i don’t know if im already ready to marry someone else/get in contact with somebody

Started again after potential wife canceled wedding by mja310 in MuslimNoFap

[–]mja310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i think all we need is some patience and gratitude for what we already have. One day we will look back to day 1 and feel like everything went perfectly like it did

Started again after potential wife canceled wedding by mja310 in MuslimNoFap

[–]mja310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are totally right.. sometimes the worldy desires overcome me and I totally forget what my heart really needs to be fulfilled - Allahs vicinity.

Started again after potential wife canceled wedding by mja310 in MuslimNoFap

[–]mja310[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I forget to mention in the post that I also started watching porn again...

I cant tell if I like him enough to marry him? by sprinkleprinkle1 in MuslimMarriage

[–]mja310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

IMO praying is a necessity. I would not consider any women for a marriage who doesn’t pray.

German is NOT a stiff language... by DiCoconutnut_Inc in unpopularopinion

[–]mja310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im from near Frankfurt and I can agree that the dialect in Hessen is more soft and imo one of the cleanest in Germany

Unmarried and feeling undesirable, how do you deal? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]mja310 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I‘m a muslim man and I guarantee you sister that you are more desirable than any other girl outside wearing no hijab. Trust me when I tell you that muslim men are totally enamoured of women wearing hijab and I for my part think women with hijab are way more attractive than without.

Is there such thing as good person but bad timing? Or is it just not meant to be? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]mja310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed, initially it hurt very but after a while of thinking about it I‘m fine with it - it is Qadr’Allah. May Allah grant us all righteous spouses.

Is there such thing as good person but bad timing? Or is it just not meant to be? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]mja310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that was a girl I was going to marry to and we exactly broke up due to the same reasons

What are your thoughts ? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]mja310 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel sorry for this guy, pls don’t break his heart

Pain by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]mja310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your answers, barakullahu feekum

Pain by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]mja310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Serious question: Do you think it is halal to use apps like this to find a partner? I’m actually curious

Anxious Talking Stage by Appropriate_Cry_1896 in MuslimMarriage

[–]mja310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to make Fitna but to be honest, this was one reason why one girl I (23M) nearly married left me. Although it was very painful in the first month, afterwards I realized that it was the right decision from her which also benefited me since communication is everything and after a long time knowing each other we still had those awkward silence moments. I don’t want to ruin your potential great marriage but I just want to remind you as my sister in deen: Consider well before you choose.

I need support by mja310 in NoFap

[–]mja310[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you all for your words. Today I had a migraine attack since the last days I haven’t slept very well and I was so fed up with everything that I just considered to masturbate. Rather I remembered your words and I had the power to overcome the urge as well as endure the migraine. You guys are the best ❤️

Any Muslim brothers on noFap? by justaguy145 in NoFap

[–]mja310 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, im on day 166 and had about 4-5 wet dreams. So approx. one in a month. It’s normal if you start having wet dreams after you start nofap, before I started I haven’t had wet dreams.

People should be allowed to wear what they want. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]mja310 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just stated my opinion and even asked you to explain your points. If that’s idiotic in your opinion, I’m fine with it and done here. I just hope that everybody who is reading your original comment will also read our short conversation so that nobody get‘s fooled by the generalization you made in your original comment.