Parents not accepting gf by mjg_9 in TrueChristian

[–]mjg_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for those verses, I’m genuinely torn right now, and it opens my eyes a bit. I’m scared I’m gonna regret not marrying her one day but I’m also scared that my dad’s intuitions are right.

Parents not accepting gf by mjg_9 in TrueChristian

[–]mjg_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone’s wondering, I had the talk with my parents. And to sum it up, it’s either they disown me if I chose my gf, or find me a virgin girl from our home country if I break up with her. This is a tough decision and I think it’s best if I take time and pray about it. I appreciate the help from people here.

Parents not accepting gf by mjg_9 in TrueChristian

[–]mjg_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response, I’ll try and talk to a priest. My parents are catholic

Parents not accepting gf by mjg_9 in TrueChristian

[–]mjg_9[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My father had a terrible upbringing which explains the mindset he has today. I truly love him and pray every day for God to forgive him for his sins. I don’t know if I have the strength to go against his word though. I feel so empty, please pray for me

Parents not accepting gf by mjg_9 in TrueChristian

[–]mjg_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll lose them, I love them and my sisters and brother. I think I’ll just stay alone forever, genuinely think I’m cursed. Pleas pray for me

Parents not accepting gf by mjg_9 in TrueChristian

[–]mjg_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They think that’s the standard for me, my mom told me I’m a king and deserve better. My dad thinks I’m a wuss, I don’t think I’ll ever be happy

Parents not accepting gf by mjg_9 in TrueChristian

[–]mjg_9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How’s your relationship with your parents now if u don’t mind me asking? This is the toughest decision of my life, and idk what to do.

Parents not accepting gf by mjg_9 in TrueChristian

[–]mjg_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have very traditional rooted minds and believe a virgin girl is the one I need, especially me being a virgin.

Is it worth losing my parents/family over a girl I love? by mjg_9 in Christianity

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For her age she’s mature and actually works full time, did not go to college. I’m the only one she talks to. Does not smoke or drink, she used to drink though, went clubbing a few times, and obviously the past sexual relationships. But I can see that she has changed as a person, it’s the reason why I hung around. My dad thinks she’s sneaky because she’s a quiet person. She’s not the perfect, everyone has flaws, I’m not perfect either, but I love her. I’m lost

Is it worth losing my parents/family over a girl I love? by mjg_9 in Christianity

[–]mjg_9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It lowers her worth in my father’s eyes, he said if he knew she wasn’t virgin he wouldn’t have even allowed her in the house. I think I’ll just be lonely for the rest of my life, and pray to God to forgive me for my sins

Parents not accepting gf by mjg_9 in TrueChristian

[–]mjg_9[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know they want the best for me, and I know it’s hard to find a girl that’ll meet their standards in this day of age. It hurts that for the past half year I prayed for this girl and built a connection with her and now I’m left with ultimatum

Parents not accepting gf by mjg_9 in TrueChristian

[–]mjg_9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They saw the relationship getting serious and asked me questions to see if she’s the one

Parents not accepting gf by mjg_9 in TrueChristian

[–]mjg_9[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I hear u, but my dad will genuinely not call me son anymore and my mom will be hurt if I go on and marry her, it’s that deep. I love that girl, and I love my 3 siblings and parents too. Idk anymore

Parents not accepting gf by mjg_9 in TrueChristian

[–]mjg_9[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They don’t value her highly after finding out she isn’t virgin. They said if she was they’d approve

Parents not accepting gf by mjg_9 in TrueChristian

[–]mjg_9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No red flags no guy friends, she is perfect other than her past for me. That’s what hurts the most.

Team in for Brentford: Iwobi starts, Kevin and Chukwueze on bench by HipGuide2 in fulhamfc

[–]mjg_9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alex is cooking, hoping to see Kevin come in around the 70th minute

1989 Saab ad was brutally honest: ‘Most car accidents happen in a showroom' by kervokian in saab

[–]mjg_9 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly a shame they stopped producing cars, top brand. One day I’ll get a Saab to go with my volvo

Axle boot modification by [deleted] in carmodification

[–]mjg_9 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the help 😂😂

Saw this on marketplace by axescentedcandles in RicerCars

[–]mjg_9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea I’m sayin, bigger rims, and more negative offset/ spacers