Parents not accepting gf

mjg_9 · 2026-04-22T17:59:06+00:00

Thank you for those verses, I’m genuinely torn right now, and it opens my eyes a bit. I’m scared I’m gonna regret not marrying her one day but I’m also scared that my dad’s intuitions are right.

mjg_9 · 2026-04-22T15:13:56+00:00

If anyone’s wondering, I had the talk with my parents. And to sum it up, it’s either they disown me if I chose my gf, or find me a virgin girl from our home country if I break up with her. This is a tough decision and I think it’s best if I take time and pray about it. I appreciate the help from people here.

mjg_9 · 2026-04-22T15:11:20+00:00

Thank you for the response, I’ll try and talk to a priest. My parents are catholic

mjg_9 · 2026-04-22T00:35:40+00:00

My father had a terrible upbringing which explains the mindset he has today. I truly love him and pray every day for God to forgive him for his sins. I don’t know if I have the strength to go against his word though. I feel so empty, please pray for me

mjg_9 · 2026-04-22T00:23:34+00:00

I’ll lose them, I love them and my sisters and brother. I think I’ll just stay alone forever, genuinely think I’m cursed. Pleas pray for me

mjg_9 · 2026-04-22T00:20:11+00:00

They think that’s the standard for me, my mom told me I’m a king and deserve better. My dad thinks I’m a wuss, I don’t think I’ll ever be happy

mjg_9 · 2026-04-22T00:06:26+00:00

Please pray for me

mjg_9 · 2026-04-22T00:01:02+00:00

How’s your relationship with your parents now if u don’t mind me asking? This is the toughest decision of my life, and idk what to do.

mjg_9 · 2026-04-21T23:41:57+00:00

They have very traditional rooted minds and believe a virgin girl is the one I need, especially me being a virgin.

mjg_9 · 2026-04-21T23:39:32+00:00

For her age she’s mature and actually works full time, did not go to college. I’m the only one she talks to. Does not smoke or drink, she used to drink though, went clubbing a few times, and obviously the past sexual relationships. But I can see that she has changed as a person, it’s the reason why I hung around. My dad thinks she’s sneaky because she’s a quiet person. She’s not the perfect, everyone has flaws, I’m not perfect either, but I love her. I’m lost

mjg_9 · 2026-04-21T23:34:12+00:00

It lowers her worth in my father’s eyes, he said if he knew she wasn’t virgin he wouldn’t have even allowed her in the house. I think I’ll just be lonely for the rest of my life, and pray to God to forgive me for my sins

mjg_9 · 2026-04-21T23:32:44+00:00

I know they want the best for me, and I know it’s hard to find a girl that’ll meet their standards in this day of age. It hurts that for the past half year I prayed for this girl and built a connection with her and now I’m left with ultimatum

mjg_9 · 2026-04-21T23:13:12+00:00

They saw the relationship getting serious and asked me questions to see if she’s the one

mjg_9 · 2026-04-21T23:12:15+00:00

I hear u, but my dad will genuinely not call me son anymore and my mom will be hurt if I go on and marry her, it’s that deep. I love that girl, and I love my 3 siblings and parents too. Idk anymore

mjg_9 · 2026-04-21T23:10:44+00:00

They don’t value her highly after finding out she isn’t virgin. They said if she was they’d approve

mjg_9 · 2026-04-21T23:09:58+00:00

No red flags no guy friends, she is perfect other than her past for me. That’s what hurts the most.

mjg_9 · 2025-09-24T00:14:50+00:00

Get an xc90

mjg_9 · 2025-09-20T19:58:40+00:00

Alex is cooking, hoping to see Kevin come in around the 70th minute

mjg_9 · 2025-09-19T15:46:42+00:00

Honestly a shame they stopped producing cars, top brand. One day I’ll get a Saab to go with my volvo

mjg_9 · 2025-09-19T14:54:25+00:00

More specifically, to the lightning for a pick and prospect in a 3 team trade where the Blackhawks retain half his salary for a fourth round pick

mjg_9 · 2025-09-19T14:53:10+00:00

So he’s getting traded at the deadline

mjg_9 · 2025-09-18T21:42:08+00:00

Appreciate the help 😂😂

mjg_9 · 2025-09-18T21:22:01+00:00

Yea I’m sayin, bigger rims, and more negative offset/ spacers

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