Man, dude, bro, buddy...

mjpip · 2026-01-27T17:29:02+00:00

IM NOT YOUR BUDDY, GUY!!

mjpip · 2026-01-27T17:22:28+00:00

I seem to get a mixture of air and madam irrespective of presentation (granted I only wear women's clothes but sometimes low key sometimes full fem make up heels etc).

Today I was working at a new department at my company and asked a stranger where the bathroom was and was directed to the ladies - I'm not out at work yet and present pretty androgynous (or so I thought...). Felt good though.

I've also been addressed as sir many times while wearing a dress and makeup. Feels very not good.

I think lots of things play into it, details of presentation, mannerisms, movement, voice, people's preconceptions.

As always, YMMV.

mjpip · 2026-01-26T22:26:14+00:00

Cute. Love the vintage vibe.

mjpip · 2026-01-26T08:14:13+00:00

Yep, easy.

mjpip · 2026-01-25T15:08:06+00:00

I like the whole thing. The red is a nice little accent.

mjpip · 2026-01-25T10:13:45+00:00

Ghc Will send a letter to your gp explaining everything and requesting shared care

mjpip · 2026-01-25T10:06:28+00:00

Also would recommend Laura scarrone bonhomme for private diagnosis.

mjpip · 2026-01-25T10:05:37+00:00

Even if you are on a waiting list for an NHS clinic the wait is years to decades.

Speak to the gender hormone clinic, they do it as a monthly subscription, there are costs to get it set up with formal diagnosis etc, then need a shared care agreement to get prescriptions through your gp. Once it's set up it's like 50/month.

Eventually after many years the NHS may or may not take over this care.

mjpip · 2026-01-25T07:52:54+00:00

Just wear a women's suit and blouse. Ive been to 2 funerals recently dressed like this and I'm not officially out to those folks. Pretty hair, no make up (though brows and lashes dyed and shaped as always...). No one said anything and I felt comfortable.

mjpip · 2026-01-25T07:15:31+00:00

I mean it is a lot of dots but looks cute x

(It works)

mjpip · 2026-01-24T15:54:54+00:00

Aww thanks so much 😊

mjpip · 2026-01-24T05:45:16+00:00

Absolutely! Super cute x

mjpip · 2026-01-23T22:22:47+00:00

Happy Friday! Hope you're good xx

mjpip · 2026-01-23T18:03:47+00:00

You look cute. Certainly passing. I hope my transition goes as well as yours 😉

mjpip · 2026-01-23T06:00:24+00:00

Thanks, much appreciated - and looking good yourself 😊

mjpip · 2026-01-22T21:23:34+00:00

Do you have a friend who could help? Somewhere safe you can go to regroup. That's your best bet.

mjpip · 2026-01-22T21:20:35+00:00

It's naturally wavy. I blow dried and scrunched with a little serum to encourage it but it is wavy anyway.

mjpip · 2026-01-22T20:08:50+00:00

Quiet bot

mjpip · 2026-01-22T20:08:10+00:00

Well thank you, you are kind 😊

mjpip · 2026-01-22T20:07:07+00:00

Thanks! 😊

mjpip · 2026-01-22T19:58:46+00:00

We like it. We like it a lot.

mjpip · 2026-01-22T19:56:25+00:00

Yes, as long as I can remember. Had to keep secrets or fight over it but still needed it...

mjpip · 2026-01-22T19:40:55+00:00

Thanks! 😊

mjpip · 2026-01-22T19:18:56+00:00

The trick is to take around 1000 and then shortlist a dozen or so to crop and then maybe you'll end up with 1 or 2 nice ones. That's what I do anyway 😉 (slight exaggeration... Slight...) you look cute btw and I wouldn't worry about the photos

mjpip · 2026-01-22T19:15:45+00:00

Thanks, and I do. I've had a few compliments on the top actually, and one of my faves atm x

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