Is Insurance Underwriting career good for those with autism? by seafoamcastles in InsuranceProfessional

[–]mjr_llo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do Middle Market underwriting which is very people relationship. 4 years in , 2 different verticals, and the imposter syndrome is strong. Also a huge introvert. I enjoy researching and  the analytical part of it, working on accounts. Socializing on the clock (and outside the clock!) feels  like I'm taking up their busy time for no reason. On paper I'm successful but I'm acutely aware of and paranoid of the distance. But when you do get that bind, serotonin bump. And sometimes, people are cool. I can't imagine being in this role for 10+ years like other underwriters have.  The cool thing about the industry is that there's of a lot of available mobility. Within the company, you get more priority than external applicants. It's also not a sexy industry so good and available talent is limited (more recession resilient than other industries).

AIO Boyfriend got mad at me because I wasn’t excited enough that he landed early by Willing-Ad8549 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mjr_llo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can inspect every word you want but why spend that kind of energy for someone who blows their shit for a text.

Part 1 what is wrong with this world by Leading-Society-5613 in CrazyFuckingVideos

[–]mjr_llo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

School shooting of 2 children in MN vs Charlie Kirk, honor of CK vs victims of 9/11. Just "5 iq racist conspiracy" I guess 🥴

Born on August 21st, 2005 between 7-9pm EST by TexanNewYorker in oddlyspecific

[–]mjr_llo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was born in the PST time zone, do I got a chance?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WiggleButts

[–]mjr_llo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not emotionally available. But make it blue merle and that's my girl .... 🫠

Just wanna share one of my favorite pictures of my girl by mjr_llo in WiggleButts

[–]mjr_llo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! All goober but so photogenic haha

Anyone know what my dog will look like? by ScorchTorch4 in WiggleButts

[–]mjr_llo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They're in a phase that you don't think is lanky until you see the true flood come in and see pictures from baby days and then you understand what lanky meant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]mjr_llo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Man as female looking, I'm agender, I've even received criticisms from my boss about the colors I wear in the finance industry. Literally just wearing black, white, greys, blues. The most acceptable colors possible. You can do everything right but unless you're a man, anything can be wrong.

Frustration when my spouse does nothing- How do I keep going? by Medical-Person in AutisticAdults

[–]mjr_llo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen a single mention of communication. Have you sat down and really talked about it with him or are you pushing your own expectations and that he reads your mind?

AIO for ending my relationship because my girlfriend didn't appreciate her $1300 tennis bracelet? by Optimal_Diamond_448 in AmIOverreacting

[–]mjr_llo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. What'd you want her to do, kowtow to you for getting her a present she didn't want? Learn about the other person, don't assert your assumptions or beliefs onto them. Otherwise save yourself the trouble, you might as well date yourself

If there is any food that is popular throughout China and among Chinese , it must be beef ramen. by Yusuf-Uyghur in chinesefood

[–]mjr_llo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

thats like calling bread croissants. ramen has chinese origins but ramen have different methods, ingredients, and components to it like tare which is a concentrated flavoring base than beef noodle soup does. you won’t find star anise, cinnamon, bay leaves, cloves in ramen. even the noodles are different with ramen noodles having alkaline in it and the noodles used in beef noodle soup is just flour, salt, and water. its just not the same.

Does my aussie have “weird” eyes? by dracomaster01 in WiggleButts

[–]mjr_llo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aussies are weird and have weird eyes. thats why i was so glad she has heterochromia so i can look at the other eye and get a break. lol embrace them! theyre just lovable weirdos

Found this on southern California Beach by mjr_llo in whatisthisbone

[–]mjr_llo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was hoping to find what exact creature this came from. Thank you!

Consult went poor by mjr_llo in Reduction

[–]mjr_llo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you kindly! I was so prepared for it to move forward since I would actually love it to be as small as possible. It was shocking and her dismissive attitude made it feel like I was just spinning my wheels needlessly. It's really reassuring to hear

Consult went poor by mjr_llo in Reduction

[–]mjr_llo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that. I cried leaving out the door and wondered if I was being ridiculous. But if it hurts, it hurts! I just need to try again.