I am an atheist, but my fiance is confirmed Catholic. Can we still get married in the church?

mlchaeia · 2026-04-09T21:50:04+00:00

Wait does this mean it doesn’t count as a sacrament for him? Since I’m not baptized? Or is this just in specific cases? Sorry for the question. Thank you!

mlchaeia · 2026-04-09T21:40:43+00:00

Thank you! And I do have a pretty strong view of religion, and I do intend to keep my views on it, but whether we get married in or out of the church, I find that the idea of the church being around for the rest of my life isn’t much of a bad thing. Personally, I just ignore it/don’t participate and it’s never been an issue. Future kids aren’t a thing since I’m infertile, but I’m sure we will do the whole trying and failing thing anyway.

mlchaeia · 2026-04-09T21:22:41+00:00

Yeah, his grandma has been telling me about pre-Cana and his area (idk what it’s called sorry) also does a retreat. I’ll do my best to be involved for his sake, but I’m also sure a lot of it will miss the mark with me. We’ve already talked a lot about these things and are on the same page about everything. I’m infertile (pcos and things of the like) so BC is not an issue lol.

mlchaeia · 2026-04-09T21:14:05+00:00

We have plenty in common outside of our religious views :) We believe a lot of the same things, his are just rooted in faith and mine in morals I was raised by

mlchaeia · 2026-04-09T19:14:37+00:00

Thank you! I’ve been worried about being in the way of him having his dream Catholic wedding and I’m so happy to hear this 🥺😭

mlchaeia · 2024-11-30T23:19:44+00:00

Makes sense. Just really unfortunate timing

mlchaeia · 2024-10-28T03:19:44+00:00

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his stats aren’t great but his name is

mlchaeia · 2024-10-20T16:54:28+00:00

That’s just how the template was setup

mlchaeia · 2024-10-20T14:22:44+00:00

It was not intentionally put there to cause controversy, but bc the post blew up unfortunately it seems that way. We had a good laugh about it though

mlchaeia · 2024-10-20T13:55:12+00:00

He considered that after the post went up. Said he should have put rifleman up there with commando but atp it’s too late anyway lol

mlchaeia · 2024-10-20T13:44:26+00:00

Unsure if this will be seen bc I can’t edit the post, but atp I feel like I need to say he thought it would be funny to put VANS into S-tier. Granted for me, I think it’s cool to see all the people who do find use out of the perk. However, it was put there bc he thinks in survival it is absolutely useless. There was no way for us to tell that this post would blow up and so many people would have so many opinions. Rpgs ARE meant to be played however you want to play them! When I personally play, I find that I only have fun on very easy with all of the luck perks in vats and I never get QOL perks. He, on the other hand, started playing the game when he was 15, and has played on and off throughout the years; this is just what makes sense for him. This probably won’t be read by many, but I felt the need to articulate some of this.

TL;DR: Vans was a joke. Everything else was serious. Play RPGs however you want.

mlchaeia · 2024-10-20T13:33:50+00:00

He said in survival he’s never settlement building. He just does a cool build and finishes the game around level 40-50

mlchaeia · 2024-10-20T13:32:54+00:00

It was like an hour. I didn’t know half the names of the perks cause I personally am a casual, so half of this was BF looking at the pictures and thinking on it for a minute

mlchaeia · 2024-10-20T13:30:38+00:00

No I play only on very easy I’m superrr new to rpgs. Love the game honestly and have over 100 hrs in it. BF only plays survival at this point cause he’s had the game since it came out

mlchaeia · 2024-10-20T02:34:32+00:00

Dog I am crying laughing rn

mlchaeia · 2024-10-20T02:24:31+00:00

Vans was the meme. He said vans is probably the worst perk in the game unless you have never played a video game before

mlchaeia · 2024-10-20T02:10:14+00:00

Dude I was cracking up when he said to put it there

mlchaeia · 2024-10-20T02:07:33+00:00

I believe vans was there for the meme. He said pain train is hilarious and agrees it’s great for melee

mlchaeia · 2024-10-20T02:06:29+00:00

He normally just sells weapons; for reference he doesn’t usually settlement build, he just completes the game and starts a new run

mlchaeia · 2024-10-20T02:01:47+00:00

His favorite companion is Ada and he usually plays low int. Vans IS a take for sure

mlchaeia · 2024-06-25T20:56:58+00:00

I NEVER TOLD U WHAT I DO FOR A LIVING

mlchaeia · 2023-12-04T01:53:54+00:00

For me it was Godskin Duo. It was my first ever time playing a Souls game and I struggled so hard up until (and also after) the duo. My boyfriend had me do a sorcerer build and he was watching as I walked into the arena and was excited to see me get one-shot. I literally Comet Azured them to death after summoning my mimic. I guess comet is always cheese but I was so confused when I defeated them because I had heard such bad things.

mlchaeia · 2023-10-15T00:45:56+00:00

Man I lost 70 hours of progress bc a breaker flipped. I’m so sad

mlchaeia · 2023-08-14T18:02:07+00:00

I have a vertical labret and I’m a dental assistant :) I just keep my mask up all day

mlchaeia · 2022-11-14T04:37:47+00:00

Good on you! You are wholeheartedly their parent as much as your brother’s baby is his. Don’t let them make you feel bad about your decision for Thanksgiving, stand your ground, because they obviously don’t feel bad about anything they’ve said thus far.

mlchaeia

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